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Stuck between 2 friends


Question Posted Friday April 15 2005, 5:41 pm

Well, I am sort of stuck in between two friends...you see, their mom's both won't let them do anything with each other, and both of my friends asked me to do something with them tonight. I told the 1st one that asked me that i could do something with her, then my other friend asked me later (she is sort of intimidating sometimes) and she got mad at me earlier that day because i couldn't play with her, so i was afraid that she would do the same thing with this, so i told her "maybe...i don't know"....then today, she was like "lets get in your hot tub" and i was like "well, i don't think i can really do anything today" and she got really mad. Later me and my other friend got called to the counseling office because of her. We thought we figured it out there, but when i was walking home from school today, her mom (the friend who was mad at me) said "come here...we'll give you a ride." Then her mom started asking me things that i never said like "why were you saying your mom didn't want you to play with my daughter" and "why did you tell her that you could do something tonight?" and "i really wish you wouldn't lie to her" now i know that i was not lying. I also know that i did not say anything about my mom hating her. I guess her mom is mad at me now though and i don't know what to do. Please tell me as soon as you can....thanx so much

oh, by the way, i am 13 and i am a girl


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karenR answered Friday April 15 2005, 7:37 pm:
You go out with whoever you told yes to first. If the other gets mad...oh well.

why is the one friend getting you called into the counseling office? Friends don't really go around getting each other in trouble.

I wouldn't worry to much about the intimidating friend. Better teach her now that you'll not be intimidated or she will just get worse about it. I don't think you want that! Don't let her boss you around. Or make you feel guilty.

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toastnbutter answered Friday April 15 2005, 7:24 pm:
well you could tell the mother and the daughter who's mad at u that you had to go to your other friend's house because she asked you first. and tell them not to be mad and you weren't lying. i hope i helped and things work out!

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