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A friendship lost.


Question Posted Thursday March 17 2005, 5:27 pm

My friend JD and I just got into n argument the other day. We have been doing that a lot lately. He has been coming to me and a couple of my friends with his problems, and we have told him what we feel what he should do, but when we go up to him with problems, he he just says sorry, i hope you feel better.He is there for us, but that didnt feel good enough. Well, ever since Ive started to like his brother, he hasnt been supporting me. They get along sometims, but they pretty much hate each other, and he says that if I go out with him, Ill ruin my life. I have supported him with pretty much everything that hes done except for once that can remember. I dont know what to do, and he has been too good of a friend to get rid of, or so I thought, I guess. I just want ot know how I should deal with us hardly not talking anymore and not worry about it because of my other friends. But if I go out with his brother, its going to be hard to avoid him and shit. But thats not the whole story, thats just where its the problem between me and him and a couple of other people. If anyone wants to know the full story, drop it by me in my inbox. Thanx! I rate good.

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TheTeenGirl answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:06 am:
Well, I think that JD is hurt by knowing that you want to date his brother because not only does he hate his brother, but he might feel like you won't give him much of your time, and he might even like you, but I'm not really supporting the idea of you dating his brother either. Hes not supporting you because hes not liking the fact that you may date his brother, and it will probably hurt him, and you're right, you can't run away from him if you dated his brother. Maybe he likes you, he could be jealous, but I'm getting really confused on how I should say this because I hardly know anything about this, so you can tell me the full story if you want, I'll help.



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tiffanyadams answered Thursday March 17 2005, 9:05 pm:
I would like to get the full story before commenting. Thanx

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karenR answered Thursday March 17 2005, 8:48 pm:
Sounds like he doesn't think his brother is good enough for you.Maybe that is his way of giving you his advice.Sounds like he say's don't go out with him but you wanna anyway?

He sounds like a good friend to me.Maybe you should get more reasons why he don't want to you date his brother.Maybe HE likes YOU.:}

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toastnbutter answered Thursday March 17 2005, 7:15 pm:
you could tell me the whole story. but dis is wat i think: you should tell him dat he hasn't been a good friend lately. and tell him dat if he is your friend he will support u likin he's brother. i hope i helped!

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