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help! my friends a bitch!


Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 7:10 pm

ok my friend is like really selfish. and she is REALLY clingy. when she gives an example about something like a good singer she uses herself, and when i say like "or me" she says "o my god! just becaus i said im a good singer doesnt mean you have to turn it around on yourself!" i know im a way better singer than her. and she ALWAYS calls me a fat ass. she also always brags about how skinny she is by saying "o my god look how fat i am in my gym suit!" and i give her a really mean look and tell her to shut her mouth and stop bragging and she always laughs like im kidding and i tell her im not and she says "o my god! just because i think im fat doesnt mean you have to say im bragging!" she exercises soooooooo much!please help i dont wanna kill our frendship

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:31 pm:
if she is a bitch then why the fuck are you he friend?

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toastnbutter answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:49 pm:
you should tell her all da things you just wrote. and try 2 work things out. come 2 a compromice

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roxy2005 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:32 pm:
you don't need to be treated like this...tell her how you really feel about how she is treating you...if that doesnt work, then you have to make the decision yourself. only you know whats best for you and your friend.

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Karen answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:16 pm:
Sweetie, you definitely don't deserve a friend like this girl. If someone brags about themselves and you try to talk to them about it and it doesn't help, it means that they only care about themselves and not what others think. Since you don't want to end your friendship with her, ignore her, since talking to her won't do anything. You can try talking to her and telling her how you feel but like I said, that may not work. Once she realizes that you are ignoring her, she will ask you why you are and then you should tell her why you were ignoring her.
-Karen

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vchicka15 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:48 pm:
the girl is a bitch.. just ignore her and make new friends.. if she asks you why your not talking to her say because i hate the way you act around me.. shes not a good friend and if you dont like her.. dont stay friends with her until she changes

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seansbabygurl answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:42 pm:
Just tell her how you feel. If she is really your friend she will understand and stop. jope i helped

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mylinhthan answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:27 pm:
anonymous -

I think the best thing to do in a situation like this is sit down and have a serious talk with her. She obviously is fishing for compliments with the whole fat issue and brags a lot. I hate to say, but she is the epitome of a conceited bitch.

You need to tell her that you're really bothered by her behavior. And if you, a friend, sees how she is and is able to tolerate it to a certain extent, I'd hate to know what others think about her. Confront her about what she's done, but at the same time keep things civil. Refrain from name calling and pointing fingers, just lay out the facts.

She needs to realize that by doing what she's doing that she's giving off a bad first impression to a lot of people. If she gets offended, reassure her that you're only talking to her about it cuz your friendship means a lot to you, and that the least she could do is listen to you and consider your feelings.

Good luck! :)

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grape answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:25 pm:
If your friend can be such a witch then u need 2 tell her wat kind of friend she is and how she needs to change her selfish ways.And tell her that it is really killing your friendship and if that doesn't work tell her that either she change her ways or you have to find a new friend.:rate please:hope i helped:GRAPE.

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l3fty14 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:13 pm:
your friends a bitch BIG TIME - im sure you can find better friends than that

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