well this guy I have been good freinds with for a long time. And I like him, and a while back he liked me too. But that;s been put on hold because he's going out with this other girl... anyway, lately he has been walking away when I talk to him and it seems like he's pretending I'm not there, or he justdoesn't want me there. it hurts because I really like him and I miss the friends thing. What should I do?
MummuM answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:52 pm: You have to talk to him and tell him it really hurts when he ignores you and such. No one should be walking by eachother and pretending they are not there, that's just wrong and very hurtful. He's probably acting like this because he knows you like him. And since he has a girlfriend, he probably finds it a little weird. But I suggest you go up to him and as him if you can still be friends and such, because you really miss having him as one. If that doesn't work and he still ignores you, call him, e-mail him or talk to him on the internet. He's going to have to listen to you sometime and once he does, tell him everything your feeling. I'm sure once he knows that you really want to me friends, he'll stop walking by you like your nothing and will start talking to you again.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
sammi55 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:26 pm: u should follow him ask him y he wont talk 2 u?
then if that dont work go talk 2 the gurl hez going out with. ask her if theres somthing wrong
with him.then go talk 2 him.tell him how u really
feel about him if he truly cares about u hi'll
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toastnbutter answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:24 pm: ask him why he doesn't want to be around you no more. tell him it hurts your feelings that he's ignoring you. may be he's acting like this because he nos you like him. but you should talk 2 him. i hope i helped. please dont rate low! lol [ toastnbutter's advice column | Ask toastnbutter A Question ]
adviceforteens answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:22 pm: Get your nerve up girl.. you gotta ask him what is wrong. Ask him if he stills wants to be your friend. Or the next time that you are talking to him ask him to repeat the last 5 things that you said. And make it really simple like walk up and say hey whats up with you today if he cant remember the way that you greeted him then there is somethin wrong with him. Ask him if he still wants to be friends and really start talkin to him again. Hope that helps Good luck [ adviceforteens's advice column | Ask adviceforteens A Question ]
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