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HORMONES TOTALLY!
ok... my best friends and i were sitting at lunch and we had to move because other ppl were sitting there. so when sarah got her lunch she went and sat at her old table. so i said " hey, sarah why aren't you sitting by us? she said in a attitude idk i just don't want to sit by you guys. so i assumed maybe she was mad at one of us . i said SORRY I ASKED! she said what did i do wrong .? i was so mad right then! so i turned around and started talking to my other friends. then in an attitude she said don't flip your hair at me! i was about to scream. ! i was so confuused and mad. is she mad or not? Please help
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okay. 1) you should have continued the WHY won't you sit with us thing. maybe she was just having a social butterfly day, in which it would be completely understandable. but maybe she wasnt happy with your relationship, in which you two should talk...2)"sorry i asked" seemed a little harsh for that situation, you should let her have her space and make the area comfortable to tell you whats wrong. give her a little time next time. .... 3) "what did I do" thats the right answer, c'mon, you totally got mad at her with no explanation.....4) you turned around and ignored her, that would make me mad. you wanted to know why and then you ignored her. mixed signals much? .... 5) "don't flip your hair at me" totally offensive, but seriously, she was a little hurt for being ignored...
maybe she isnt mad at you at all, but you two got in a little fight and now you are mad. maybe call her up, talk to her and apologize. then ask her why she didnt sit with you. be patient and listen well.
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Kick her ass.
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PMS. Your right , probably hormones! Go talk to her and straighten it all out.
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i dont think she's mad but you should ask her and make sure everythin is alrite.
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Well, sometimes people need a break. She's not really mad, but probably just wanted to look cool in front of whoever she was sitting with. And even though you don't think you may have said what "why aren't you sitting with us?" with attitude, you may have. My mom tells me all the time not to have attitude when I didn't, so it could have just slipped in. Just talk to her about it.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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