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Dishonest friend.


Question Posted Friday March 25 2005, 11:14 am

On Wednesday in school I asked my friend if she wanted to go to the movies afterschool on Thursday. She said she'd go home and ask her mom, yada yada. Well, on Thursday she didn't know if she could go for sure, so she told me to call her when I got home. When I got home, I called her and she couldn't go because she said 'her mom was going to a party'. Well, later that night..thanks to her other friends away messages, I found out she was at her other friends house. I know for a fact this girl invited her over that very day, and I had invited her on wednesday. Wtf is her problem? Should I confront her about it, or what..cause that just pisses me off. And, she's ALWAYS doing stuff with this girl, she has no freaking time for anyone else.

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duckyfernanda answered Friday April 15 2005, 7:05 pm:
Honestly, you may make her nervous. She may be a little nervous around ANY guy because she is afraid of feeling uncomfortable. Just keep asking. If she is still interested, she'll come around. Girls have a different approach than guys. Girls tend to be shy while boys lay it out on the line. Give her some time and you'll see things may turn out for the best. It may not be what you want but in the long haul of life, it is the best thing.

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shake answered Friday March 25 2005, 1:33 pm:
She couldnt go to a movie. That doesnt mean she cant go to a friends house. How close in proximity wuz this chick to the other chicks house?

You're just selfish. If they live pretty far though. I recommend taking a bat to her front windows. Also, next time you're over. Go into the bathroom and you know the things above the toilets with the lid? and you pull them off and there is pumps and stuff in there? Yeah take a dump in hers so her bathroom wiill smell real bad and she wont check right above in taht part because shes to dumb to think that. Just do it. It'll be funny.

(EDITORS NOT)You know what..that advice is pretty shitty. She's done it to me tons of times, so I'm not being selfish at all. EVERYTIME I never confront her about it, so tell me whose being the nice one. And this girl lives 15 fucking minutes farther away from her than I do! And, your suggestion on how to get her back was just about the gayest thing I've read. I've seen that on a recent TV show..let's try being original.- You said that


Wow. I dont watch T.V. Im sorry you watch stupid sit coms poorly acted out. I go to the theatres and play video games. Not watch tv and sit on my ass wasting hours laughing at stupid nothingness. Im sorry if i came up with that idea about 4 years ago when i was talking about really nasty things to do to people you hate. You ever think they got the idea from me? DOTE.

You said
"Woo, you're the dumbass. No TV show's gonna steal 'your' idea. What do you think they do, stalk you? Fucking idiot."

I say. Hmm. Are you really that stupid? You actually think by saying that i was seriouse? Ha. Dumbshit. Fill in the space _ullible. Maybe im not the "fucking idiot" its you, the one who took what i said for fact. Heres some advice since yes this is an advice site

Stop being an idiot and believing what everyone says.

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Friday March 25 2005, 12:33 pm:
Yea you should confront her because thats sorta rude. xO ali

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babyB answered Friday March 25 2005, 12:18 pm:
Just tell her how you fell. Tell her that that girl is not the only person on earth and not her only friend and that if she wants to hang out with her instead to just tell you because honesty is the best policy.

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Sophie_xxx answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:45 am:
Yeah, you should confront her.
What's she's done isn't very nice at all, and if you confront her, she's either a) going to be very sorry, b) not going to be sorry at all or c)pretend it's not true.
If she's sorry, it's up to you if you want to forgive her or not.
If it's either of the other two, then I think that you should leave her as a best friend for a bit. She's not worth you, and I totally understand why it pisses you off.
Good luck and I hope I helped,
Sophie xxx

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toastnbutter answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:44 am:
you could tell her how you feel. and tell her that if she's really your friend she will have time 4 u 2 and wouldn't lie 2 her. if she countines 2 lie 2 u and ignore you i dont think she's really your friend. another thing you could do is ignore her 4 about a week or 2 and see if she cares. if she notices tell her that's how she makes you feel (mad). and if she doesn't notice then she isn't your friend. i hope i helped!

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