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is it important to you [personally] to save youself until marriage.. why or why not? to me i think its something to due with mental health and stuff.. but.. just answer i'll rate good
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Yes its very important. True love waits..and thats simple as that. Not only am I saving myself because Jesus has said so, even if I was not a believer I would save myself. I'm only 15 and I'm not going to give it up to anyone. A lot of girls/boys give it up as young as 12 and that is so horrible. Sex is something thats supposed to be beautiful, between two people that love eachother. Not for people just to have a fun time.
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Would you buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first? Personally I wouldn't. I'm very picky when it comes to how they feel before I invest money on them. I follow the same logic when it comes to "saving oneself before marraige."
In our society people are saving marriage itself sometimes up until they are thirty in order to have a degree and some sort of career established. If you find someone who you truly have more than just lustful feelings for, I don't think it's wrong to follow what the heart wants. This doesn't mean I think that you should interact sexually with every person you meet, but there are a few people we meet in our lives that are worth going a deeper level with. However with this said it is important that if you are with a new partner you are able to partake the necessary precautions to avoid STD's and pregnancy.
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anonymous -
There was a question similar to this one not too long ago.
My opinion is no, I would not save myself until marriage. Why, because the sacrament of matrimony is the highest level of love where you make an eternal promise to your significant other. I think before that can be established, making love would come before that because before you marry, I think a couple should share everything with each other, even their bodies. Also, by doing this, you will see how sex plays a factor in the relationship. Cuz often times one person will leave because they are not satisfied; this way, you discover who they really are before you decide to marry them. If this happened when a couple was married, it'd be a lot worse because one partner broke their word when they took your hand in marriage.
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I think it really depends on the individual. I think a person who is ready to have sex should have a deep understanding of herself and why she wants to have sex. A person's mental and emotional stability has a lot to do with how he/she handles the after affects of sex. If you are not well upstairs, then you shouldn't engage in sex. If you are not ready to be a mother/father, then you shouldn't have sex. If you don't enough information about STD's, then you shouldn't have sex. If you are only trying to have sex to keep your partner interested, then you shouldn't have sex. Sex is an act in any relationship that is very emotional and bonding. If you can't handle the emotions that you already have that come without sex, then you aren't ready to add on any more emotions.
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Its not about mental health, its more about pride. not saying that people that have sex before marriage dont have pride. its just something that some people perfer. xO ali
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