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She get can't get it all!
OK, I have a friend... we do this play after school. There are only like 5 guys in it. There is this really cute guy.. let's call him Joe. Well my freind.. call her Sally.. always flirts with him. Sally already has a b/f! Now she is flirtin with this joe guy.. usually it wouldn't phase me, but I like JOe! Now sally has joe and a b/f! She ALWAYS flirts with him and is like wait for me and hugs him and is like: hold this and write me a letter and Joe your my best Friend! It's sooooo annoying! I don't know what to do! Should I talk to her? Member, I like Joe! PLease help!
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If i was in your position id simply just tell ur friend u liked "joe" and ask her y shes flirtin with him if she aint single. dont sound greedy or snobby or it mayb ruin your friendship.
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i think you should talk to sally bout it. tell her you like joe and she has a boyfriend already.ask her if she likes joe more than her boyfriend.if she says no then tell her that you like him. Or you could tell sally that it hurts you that she keeps wanting to hang around joe and calling him her best friend. tell her that its starting to annoy you. Or you could tell her since she's your friend and she has a boyfriend,can she stop hanging around joe so much cause you like him. hoped i helped!....please rate!
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Hmmm... sounds like Sally's a natural flirt. Some girls are like that- it doesn't necessarily mean they're cheating whores, but it does get annoying for those other girls who'd like a chance with a guy now and then.
Now, how good of friends are you with Sally? Do you trust her enough to tell her about your crush on Joe? Or will she just embarrass you about it if she knows? If you do trust her, then probably the best way to make this situation better is to talk to Sally about your crush. Most good friends would be willing to help you get Joe's attention in this situation, or at least step out of the way and give you a chance to flirt instead.
Now, I don't know Joe, so I don't know what he likes. But the best way to get a guy's attention is to be genuine. Don't try to change who you are just to impress him- because most guys are turned off by phony girls.
Strike up a conversation with him. Compliment him on his acting, ask about his hobbies, what kind of music he listens to, etc. Most people love to talk about themselves (especially in the theater business! I should know, I was in drama all through jr.high/high school), so it shouldn't be too hard to get Joe to talk if you show genuine interest in him and his interests. If all goes well, he should turn around and continue the conversation by asking about you.
Or you could just arrange to share Joe's dressing room ;) (no really- in one play, my friend Aly used the guy's dressing room practically the whole play- I dunno how she worked it, but she did!)
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First off, ask her if she likes "Joe". If yes, be like what about your boyfriend. Just tell her your opinion bout how skanky it is to flirt wit another guy when you have a boyfriend; if she is your friend she will not take it personal.
Next, Im guessing she doesnt know that you like "Joe". Tell her, and if shes like "well to bad I like him even though I have a boyfriend" tell her how selfish and skanky and unfair to both the guys and you she is being.
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