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It's the half term and I'd like to spend most of it with my mates. What things to do can you suggest? Me and my mates thought of shopping/hanging in town, cinema, gigs, gym, swimming pool, badminton, round each others houses and that's it. So if you can think of stuff to do and places to go then pease tell me. Thanks, xxx

Well you have the basic things to do on your list already. Maybe you could try an amusement park, those are always fun =] Six Flags is awesome, and there's probably one near you. Go to the beach if the weather is really nice. Or you could go to an indoor pool if the weather isn't nice. Go out to eat with your friends or order pizza =]

-mystical_breeze
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ok.... so im 13/f and at school my bestfriend started hanging out with this girl that i got into a fist fight with and became bestfriends and then she got mad at me cause her boyfriend said he liked me instead of her then she got like almost the hole school against me and started calling me a "fat ugly cow" and that "i look like a side of a cow" and started wrighting on the walls about me i love her like a sister and all but is she really my friend

Sorry but I don't think she's acting like a real friend would. If I were you, I wouldn't have anything to do with her, even if she DID say sorry. Doing the things she did, it seems like she doesn't care about your feelings at all. As hard as it seems I think you should try finding new friends, and if the backstabbing keeps going on, you'll have to talk to the principal or teacher about it.

-mystical_breeze
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How can you tell if someone is being a good friend? and what does exacly "being there for them" means?

Being there for someone is like always being able to help them when they need help. You're always there to talk to them if they need someone to talk to their feelings about, and you're just a really nice person to them. You'd never talk about them behind their backs badly to other people, and you're always truthful with them. You can also be yourself, and not need to feel fake or uncomfortable around them.
Hope this helped you =]

-mystical_breeze
Xo

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i think my friend is becoming belimic (sp?). how do i convince her that it's a stupid thing to do?

If she is already bulimic, then there isn't much you can do to convince her. You have to get her help, and talk to her parents, even if it's hard. Eating disorders shouldn't be taken lightly. She needs a counselor, and all you can do is support her and be a good friend to help her stop.

-mystical_breeze
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Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?

Real friends don't act differently in front of other people, but talk to her before you make any assumptions. Tell her that if she's not even going to bother talking to you, then you don't see the reason of going if it's her birthday party, and you're there for her. Tell her everything you feel. You could also talk to your other friends if they're at the party also, and try to keep yourself busy.

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When I lived with my mom I lived with my grandma also.Well I had A friend who was A guy and I never realy noticed he was crushing on me until someone said something. But I still doubted it until he asked me out. After he did I ran like heck away and began avoiding him. I didnt know how to tell him how I felt. That I didnt like him like that. So one night while I lie in bed I decided the next Monday I would tell him. But durring the weekend my dad got custody of me and my younger brother. My dad hates my grandma so when I moved to my dads he said I could never talk to the kids from there again.But now my guy friend keeps appearing in my dreams. How can I make it stop? please respond ASAP every day without a solution brings another horrible dream! Oh Im a 13 year old girl (12 at the time it happened)(I moved to my dads in March my birthdays in May)

You can't do much about dreams. Dreams happen by what you've seen, and what you're thinking about while you're not sleeping. Keep your mind on other things so your dreams won't be filled with your guy friend, and tell your dad you miss some of the friends from where you used to live. Tell him it has nothing to do with your grandmother, and that you just really miss them and wouldn't mind getting in touch with them again. If he allows you to, talk to this guy and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt him if you did, but you'd rather just have been friends.

If you need anymore help, leave one in my inbox.

♥mystical_breeze

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hey everyone... well i need help... well my mom doesn't trust me at all anymore!!! its because i lie to her alot!!! i've tried to stop!!! but its rea;;y hard... && i do things behind her back like talk to guys... and she doesn't want me doing that either!!! so how should i get her trust back?

The only way you can earn her trust back is to stop lying. Don't talk to guys behind her back, or just tell her that you're just friends with the guys you're talking to. She has a reason for everything she tells you, and you should respect her opinions and rules. Everybody lies once in awhile, so just try your best to listen. I used to lie a lot also, but I realized the hard way that what we she said was right, and I was wrong for not listening in the first place. Once you get your trust back, explain to her why you do the things you do calmly, without getting upset or mad. Good luck, and leave more info in my inbox if you need more help =]

-mystical_breeze
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Im having a friend come over my small apartment their really is nothing to do and we are spending all day here with no one to drive us anywhere and nothing to do. I was woundering if you could give me ideas for two 16 year olds thank you

Do whatever you two like to do. Take pictures, dance to music, rent movies (you could rent them on paperview) that'll make you laugh your heads off, go online, paint eachother's nails or put on crazy makeup (if you two are girly), write random poems that mean nothing, laugh about people/teachers at school, make a pizza with weird toppings, get magazines and read them together, whatever you two can think of! When I'm with friends we usually can think of something fun to do, no matter how dumb it is. Good luck! : ]
-mystical_breeze
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omg i am sooo fucking pissed off at my friend. she won't stop talking about my boyfriend and it's really starting to get me pissed off. Cause she even admitted to still liking him since they went out like during the summer but all i hear from her is what they did the first day they went out and how good of a kisser he is. what should i do i don't want her to get mad at me??!!!!

I have to admit I think it's wrong for her to be talking about YOUR boyfriend so much. She has to get over it, you and him are going out now, they're over and done with. She sounds like she's trying to brag, but don't try to let it bother you, 'cause you got him! Haha and who cares if she gets mad at you? You have a right to be kinda annoyed with her, so just tell her that you'd appreciate her not talking about your boyfriend, or you won't talk to her. period.

-mystical_breeze
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Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Sammy ok? So Sammy recently has started like leaving me and kinda ignoring me. Today she even started hanging out with my enemy! Like 2 weeks ago we started hanging out with a girl named Natasha and ever since she has been doing all these things. Oh and I already talked to her a billion times. It's like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. Should I just start hanging out with different people?

Yeah, the same thing happened with me, so I'd suggest hanging out with different people until she's ready to talk to you again. Even if she's being really mean, doesn't mean you have to be the same back and take it as she hurt you. Don't show her the satisfaction that you're upset, and try to still be polite though if she ever talks to you. If she's ready to be friends again, then just do what you feel is right. Wait for her to come to you, and then tell her that you were hurt.

-mystical_breeze
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My exboyfriend and I broke up wednesday.He went out bowling with some of his friends and one of my best friends. I was talking to her online and she told me that he was flirting with her and I'm jealous. I broke up with him and I cant help but wanna yell at him what can I do?

Well I'm kinda sorry you have to hear this, but you're the one who broke up with him, and now you're jealous he flirted with your friend? That doesn't seem right, because he has the right to flirt with anyone he wants right now, and so do you. You're the one who wanted to end the relationship so you're going to have to deal with what comes out of it. Try not to be jealous, and don't interfere, and everything will be fine.

-mystical_breeze
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Should i tell my bestfriend about my period? I'm not sure. We tell each pther every one of our secrets

If you feel comfortable doing so, then just tell her. There really isn't a reason not to, because every girl has their period at one point in their life.

-mystical_breeze
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Well, about 3 weeks ago, me and my girl mates met these 4 boys at a fair, and were haning out with them all the time while we were there, they seemed to like us.
The week after we had all arranged to meet in town for lunch and shopping.
Last weekend we went to the cinema with them.
Its good because we're all hanging out together, and beginning to be good mates, it's just I was wondering what else we could do with them? Cos we want to keep hanging out with them and we dont wanna keep on doing the same old same old.
Also, I wondered if we need to hang out with them every weekend to stay mates with them? And i fancy one of them, do you think its good that I hang out with him every weekend?
Or would he prefer it if i played it cool? (guys can answer those last 2 questions please)
If it helps, I'm 13, and my mates (the boys and girls) are 12/13/14.

I think it's fine that you want to hang out with them every weekend, but just keep it down-low and relaxed. You just met them, so you don't have to jump into anything too quickly. Don't worry, if the guys didn't want to hang out with you and your friends, they would make up an exuse not to go every time. Just don't think about it too much, and have fun. =]

-mystical_breeze
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I know this girl who asked someone out..but he said no. She got all mad and started telling lies about him. When we asked her why she did that she said she was jk but we all new she was lying. she told almost EVERYONE. None of us no what to do about her..And when we try to talk to her..she ignores us then walks away and doesnt talk to us. what should we doo!??

Well if you all know what she's saying isn't true, then just ignore it until she stops. If she ignores you it's her loss not to be able to talk to you guys about her problem. If you really want to talk to her about it though, tell her she's the one who is wrong for telling everyone a rumor that isn't true so let her deal with what happens in the end of her lying, and she won't have much friends if she keeps this up.

-mystical_breeze
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Yet, I still find myself caring.

I used to go to language school early last year with this guy I met there and we spoke a bit then I left and we spoke sometimes on MSN. Well tonight we were talking and he basically joked "What's a hot sexy girl like you doing alone" and I asked if he really meant that, and he said then I wasn't hot and sexy at all, and I would be if I wore a bit more makeup. I felt very upset by this comment and got mad at him and called him a whole lot of names, and said I was only nice to him because I felt sorry for him, blah blah blah. I didn't mean a word I said.
Well he just emailed me, not apologizing or anything, but saying he was upset by what I said, and that its true i wasn't the most attractive girl there, everyone else was prettier but he doesn't try and sugarcoat things. Then he went on to say he feels horrible he wasted effort and breath on me when i was only being nice to him because i felt sorry. He said this cut him pretty badly because he thought we could've been friends.

Should I apologize to him? I have absolutely zero interest in him, but I feel guilty now. He did hurt me pretty badly though. I don't take comments about my appearance too well. Then again two wrongs don't make a right. I did insult him pretty badly. So what do I do? Sorry this is so long.

Wow, what a jerk! You don't have to say sorry if you don't want to, because I know I wouldn't. HE had no right to treat you like that, and guys who are like that, don't deserve girls. I was talking to a guy once too, and he said I was mad fat and annoying (psh he hadn't seen me in two years), so I was cursing at him and stuff because of how upset I was. I still haven't said sorry to him, because he was just as mean as I was. He didn't say sorry, but I forgave him though. And if this guy wanted to be friends with you, do you think real friends say things like that to eachother? Tell him how much he hurt you, and how you feel.
I wouldn't suggest being friends with someone like him though.
-mystical_breeze
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OK so, right before Christmas my freind broke up wtih her boyfreiend. They had only been seeing eachother for 2 weeks. She then told me sometimes in January that if me or any of my freinds went out with him she would be mad. Well, we aren't really freinds and more and over the weekend I kissed her ex. I don't know if I should tell her or just keep it to myself. Like, if someone else told her would it be worse? I like him and have liked him since January.

I think you should just be honest with her, and tell her how you felt about him and how much you liked him. She was the one who broke up with him, so maybe you should ask her why she feels as though you shouldn't go out with him. If someone else told her it would be a lot worse because then she would lose her trust in you, so tell her before someone else does. If she's mad at you then you'll have to accept the way she feels and just move on, after you've told her you're sorry for hurting her though. Even if you're not sorry it would be good to tell her you are because it's the nicest thing to do.

-mystical_breeze
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ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???

will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou

Okay, you 'love' a guy who doesn't like you back, is a druggie, and is a bad boy. Let me just tell you, a bad boy is never good for a girl, unless he just has the bad boy appearance and just tries to act like he is for attention. You should try to get over this guy, I'm sorry that you probably don't want to hear that but it's true. It'll be hard but I think that is the best thing to do.

-mystical_breeze
XOXO

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hey 15/f
well im having a party tommorrow(not really just a few of my closest friends over- all girls) and i want to know if you guys have any ideas of what to do? we're real girly and besides truth or dare i wanted to know if any of you girls have anything you do with yoour friends when you hang out at your house? im basically looking for different things and as many as you can come up with? we're pretty much rated pg if you know what i mean?ill rate 5s for good stuff

THINGS TO DO :::
Truth or Dare
Prank Phone Calls
Watch movies with tons of junk food
Kareoke (sorry idk how to spell it)
Card Games
Board Games
Video Games (yeah it sounds like something a brother would do but it DOES get addicting during a party lol)
Makeovers
Dancing
Bake cookies and do the frosting and different candies on top
And the ever-popular - Talk about guys.

-mystical_breeze
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omg alexa
i havent talked to u in forever!

um
my question

WHY HAVENT I TALKED TO U LATELY!?

-trent

Trent ..? I'm sorry, but who are you?

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My friend just made it BIG!! I don't know how to congratulate her, though and she's so happy. ;)

THANKS!!!

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