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Best guy friend likes me as more than a friend
When I lived with my mom I lived with my grandma also.Well I had A friend who was A guy and I never realy noticed he was crushing on me until someone said something. But I still doubted it until he asked me out. After he did I ran like heck away and began avoiding him. I didnt know how to tell him how I felt. That I didnt like him like that. So one night while I lie in bed I decided the next Monday I would tell him. But durring the weekend my dad got custody of me and my younger brother. My dad hates my grandma so when I moved to my dads he said I could never talk to the kids from there again.But now my guy friend keeps appearing in my dreams. How can I make it stop? please respond ASAP every day without a solution brings another horrible dream! Oh Im a 13 year old girl (12 at the time it happened)(I moved to my dads in March my birthdays in May)
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Well ask your dad if you can go to a friends house and then try to call your grandmaw or the guy if you already have his number and tell him how you feel.If you can't do that then i strongly suggest that you pray.
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one of my best friends is going through something like this - one of her good guy friends likes her, but she doesn't feel the same way. however, your situation is a little tougher because you can't see him. is there anyway you can call or IM him or anything? how about asking a friend to tell a friend to tell him a message - like, your sorry and he's a really good friend to you. i'm sure you can figure something like that otu so good luck :] however, if there's no way at all to contact him or have a friend contact him or a friend contact a friend of him to tell him or SOMETHING, i would advise you to not feel so guilty about it. try and move on. lots of people go through liking someone without them returning the feeling, and i can't tell you how many times i've heard about a guy revealing their feelings to a girl friend of theirs, and the girl friend ignoring them afterwards (or vice versa in the gender situation). just think that eventually this guy will move on, and yes, you did make a mistake, but so does everybody. your not perfect. at least you realized it was wrong and won't do it again and that's the important part of it. while it would be nice if there was some way to contact this guy, if you can't, it's not the end of the world. anyway, good luck with your situation :)
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You can't do much about dreams. Dreams happen by what you've seen, and what you're thinking about while you're not sleeping. Keep your mind on other things so your dreams won't be filled with your guy friend, and tell your dad you miss some of the friends from where you used to live. Tell him it has nothing to do with your grandmother, and that you just really miss them and wouldn't mind getting in touch with them again. If he allows you to, talk to this guy and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt him if you did, but you'd rather just have been friends.
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♥mystical_breeze
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GUESS WHAT YOUR ON YOUR WAY IN STOPING THE DREAMS, It's ALWAYS GOOD TO TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT'S BOTHERING YOU, THAT'S PART OF THE HEALING PROCESS, I told my daughter when ever she has a dream or a problem talk it out, or write it out, get a pen and a paper right a letter as if you was going to give it to the person , tell him how you feel.That should help
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I hear that eating before bed makes you have scary dreams. I know its not a scary dream but, its a dream you dont want.
Try it and see if it helps.
Other than that try to keep youre mind off it
GOOD LUCK
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