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Ok there's this really cute guy at my school I wanna ask him out only Before when I asked a guy out I always got turned down everytime should I change my additude and clothes or just with a better additude? sincerly boycrazy
(16 F)
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No, do not change at all.
Never change for a guy. He should like you for WHO YOU ARE. If you change for him... that's just stupid. ((Don't mean to be blunt))
He's a guy... not a GOD. You don't change for him to like you. Your true love will love you the way you are and will love everything about you. If he isn't interested in your style or attitude, he's not the guy for you.
However, I'm not saying give up. Flirt with him. DO NOT ASK HIM OUT! That'll freak him out and scare him away. The BIGGEST turn-on is HARD TO GET. Works everytime. Act flirtatious around him, make him want you, and yank everything out from under him. Then, eventually, give in. lol. Works everytime.
If you're not very good at flirting, just have a conversation. Start out as friends. Act like he's one of your best girlfriends ((But don't talk about nails, hair, and makeup. :-P))
If you're really cool and outgoing and you act like yourself and you be who you REALLY are, he should like you for that. If he's not interested in you, Do not take it personal. Don't think you're ugly or anything. Don't feel down on yourself. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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You don't need a guy like that, anyways. A guy who is thinking of changing you is a jackass and you deserve better than that. Any girl deserves than that, unless it's a complete bitch.
Hey, you're still young. Have fun being ingle!
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The right guy will come along for you and you will be very happy with him and he won't care WHAT the hell you wear or how you have your hair/makeup. He will love you for YOU. Personality means everything to me. Looks matter too but not as much.
Trust me. Your guy will come. Try this one out. Have a descent conversation with him/flirt and everything will work out fine.
If this doesn't work, I'm really sorry but I'm trying the best I can to give you the very best advice I have. :-]]
If you have any further questions or if I didn't clarify something, message me and I will be sure to fix it!
♥ Kayla
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I would jus change your attitude on thinking more positive and saying that this time you are goin to get the guy. dont think back of what happened in the past. things change. Jus keep thinking postitive tht it will happen the way you want it to. I would go for it if you really like him. and if you get rejected, theres prob. sumone out there better. dont fret over it.
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I say a better attitude,if you wear nice clothing then you don't have to worry about that.
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Well Here's the truth you need to stop with all the changing yourself and attitude. Thats not what its all about at all.Its like this saying I know I'd rather be hated for who I am the liked for who Im not. Basically dont change. Get to know the guy for a while. Start a chemestry. Hang out. and then after a while see if you really like him or not. Then Mabye you wont have to ask him out and he'll ask you ya know. So I say wait and get to know eachother.
Always here,
Bianca
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Don't change yourself for anyone. I've learned that by experience, because it never works. If you start to change yourself, this guy might give you attention and be happy with it, but you won't be happy with yourself. There's someone out there for everyone, no matter who you are. Try and be friends with a guy before you ask him out, maybe these guys are just turning you down because they don't know you well enough. Before you ask this guy out, just be friendly and flirty. Try to find the signs as to if he likes you, and then make your move. Good luck =]
♥mystical_breeze
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All you can do is be yourself. If the guys dont like you for that, then they need to get over themselves.
Always remember to be yourself. and if you do you will find somebody that loves you for everything you are.
You just need patience =]
Good luck
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If he turns you down and doesnt see what an amazing person you are.And for that he is not a very nice person. So he doesnt deserve you.
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