If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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How do you know if someone is a true friend? (link)
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No way to know until bad times come. The people who stay are true friends. The people who do the little things are true friends. It sounds easy, but it's rare.
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My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.
She seems happy about it.
I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.
She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.
She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.
She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.
I don't know what to do. (link)
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I don't really know how I can be anymore clearer: DO WHATEVER IT TAKES. Call the cops, suicide hotlines, whatever you have to. Tell her parents, tell the fuckin New York Times, but do whatever you have to.
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So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!
I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?
Confused. (link)
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That's obviouly not a friend and I'm really not sure why you're hanging out with her. A best friend doesn't do stuff like that. You need to just be like "Hey look, I know you've been talkin shit about me behind my back and that's not gunna cut it with me. Fuck off" Don't be emotional about it, be kinda angry, but just be like it's no big deal and tell her where to get off.
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I Am Sixteen, Female. I Feel Like My Best Friend And I Are Growing Apart. She Doesn't Seem Like She Likes Talking To Me Sometimes. And Sometimes We Don't Know What To Talk About. How Can I Bring Us Back Closer? I Will Rate Fives For Good Answers. Thank You So Much! (link)
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Why do you capitalize the first letter of each word? Sometimes doesn't need a capital letter in the sentence in which you use it. As for the answer, call your friend and ask her to go to the mall/game/salon/ice skating rink/club/fill in the blank and catch up with her there. Tell her how you miss hanging out with her more blah blah blah and see how she responds. If she acts like she misses you too, she probably does. If she doesn't, then maybe she doesn't.
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A married male friend of mine recently told me that although he finds a lot of the pornography out there offensive and that it made him sick; that he still struggled with it. Does this mean that he just admitted to me that he has a sex addiction? And also, does anyone else find it strange that he would be revealing this to me and not his wife? (link)
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No, almost all guys look at porn. I do. I don't find myself to be perverted or abnormal. He's revealing it to you because he feels he can trust you. You're somebody he can confide in. He feels like his wife will think he's a perverted asshole if he tells her. He's gotta let it out some way, so he tells you.
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I have this friend, known her forever. Shes turning out to be really mean, and its gettin me down.
This summer, we spent EVERY DAY together. Never ever missed a day. When we got back to school, she paid no attention to me. I talk to her on the computer these days and she tells me im fat, ugly, slutty, fat,fat,fat,fat,fat!!
And it gets me down, because im not fat. she gets others to hate me
But then.. Im so nice I go back to forgiving her!!
I cant stop myself!! What do I do!?!!? (link)
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That just struck me as funny. You were like "yeah she calls me fat, ugly, and slutty. Well i'm not fat" implying that you ARE the other things. She's a bitch. Lose her.
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I am a 20-year-old woman and have a friend of eight years whom I'm trying to break it off with. She calls me her "best" friend but lately I've realized I don't even like her -- I mostly stay with her out of habit. I mean, she is an okay person and I wish her the best, but I'm not especially fond of her and I'm tired of having to support her and let her cry on my shoulder all the time (this happens a lot, as she has a rough life and some issues with depression and cutting). She also has a tendency to get angry over very small things, and after I had to apologize for the 100th time for making some little remark which would not have offended anyone but her, I realized I didn't want to be friends anymore -- I am not getting enough out of the relationship for what I put in. I thought I could "lose touch" with her and the relationship could die a natural death, so I've avoided her for a month, not returned calls and so on. But she has come to me and demanded to know why I am acting this way.
If I tell her the truth -- that I'm not angry but don't want to talk her -- she'll never believe that. If I tell her I don't like her behavior (getting mad so easily etc), she will apologize and promise to change, I will get softhearted and forgive her, then after a few weeks she'll get mad at me again for no reason and round and round we go. (I know because this has happened before.) How do I resolve this without (A) deeply hurting her or (B) leaving me stuck in a friendship that does nothing for me? (link)
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It sounds to me that the reason this person seems to be so clingy and demanding is because nobody else will put up with her. So she dumps all her emotional problems and baggage on you. She needs a man, but she's not gunna be able to get one if she's always so insecure about these seemingly harmless comments. You do need to tell her the truth about what she does and how it bugs you, no matter what you think she'll say. Tell her you know how she'll react. Don't go softhearted. At the same time, highlight her good qualities(she has to have SOME). If it gets messy, it gets messy. But the two things she needs is a man and a therapist. You have to tell her how you feel about your friendship, if you don't you'll be screwed forever.
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Ok for starters, here is some brief beackground information:
New Girl= Katelyn Everyone likes her (almost everyone). She dresses like a hooker *lol*. She has all the guys tied around her finger. And The worst thing yet. She sat in MY Lap! :|
I was sitting in Gym and the girl comes up to me and wrappes her arms around my neck and sits in my lap! So I said "Kayelyn I'm Not That Way!!" and She said "I'm not either!". So she got off. Then About a couple of minutes later she did it again. What can I tell this girl? I'm a GIRL! I'm Not Bi, or Lesbian I am STRAIT!!! (link)
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You're being stupid. Girls hug, hold hands, and even kiss and that doesn't mean they're bi. For guys, it's a different story. If she starts rubbing your pussy, then you have problems.
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I am a girl age 15.
Few days back in school , when we were near basketball courts , I tried to pick my key chain from the floor, I could not control myself and farted loudly. It was a sudden incident. Six boys & girls were there all noted it and laughed, I was very much embarrassed and ran away from there. I am still upset. I told this to my elder sis, her first response was also a laugh. She tried to convince me that its natural and can happen with any body, she told me that once this was happened to her female teacher also. But I am still feeling guilt. Please advice me.
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Don't feel guilt about farting. Everybody does it. I do it a lot. The key factor here is to not take it so seriously. You farted. You didn't break the law, you did however break wind. Laugh about it and go back to class monday. Of course, your friends will never let you forget it.
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I'm 17/f and I've been best friends with this guy my whole life. Our dad's were friends in high school so it's literally my whole life. His name is Ryan.
Ryan has a girlfriend that I just cannot stand. Last year she got me kicked off of my cheer squad at school and since then I've despised her.
When that happened they were dating and they way she got me kicked off was by showing my cheer coach pictures of a party I was at. At my school, cheerleaders aren't supposed to go to drinking parties and things like that.
Well I asked Ryan to talk her out of giving them to my coach because quite honestly, I never did anything like that to her and I never would have so I still don't understand why she would do such a thing. But anyway, he never talked to her about it and she gave them to my coach.
During this past week Ryan had bought her a beautiful white gold ring with a bow in the middle and in the middle of the bow there was a blue sapphire. He told a few people and it got around to her.
Monday after school Ryan and I were at my locker and she came up to us (him) and asked if he got her the ring. He said yes and she replied with "Ryan I HATE blue! You know that!”
That REALLY pissed me off so I said, "Yeah and I hope he knows you're a bitch too." Ryan told me to shut up and he walked off with her.
What kind of girlfriend would say that when her boyfriend bought her such a nice, expensive gift?
Every time I try to say something about her to him he gets all mad and tells me not to talk about her. Yet, I hear her talking to him about me all the time. And they're way worse things that I would ever say about her. I even have other friends tell me that she says things about me and he AGREES with her!
Today I went over to his house and walked into his room and they were in there. All I heard was "(my name) is such a bitch why do you even talk to her?" and Ryan said, "Yeah she just gets jealous sometimes"
If I were to say that to him about her he's have a fit! I don't know what I'm supposed to do here because it seems that he just doesn't care about me. She’s a bitch to everyone including him but he still puts up with it. Why does he treat her so much better than how he treats me?
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He is her bitch. He will not let anybody talk bad about her,even though this girl sounds like a total cunt bitch. Why do you care anyway? It's not like you like him. He treats her better than you b/c she's giving him head. You're not. It's a very simple concept. You give me sex, me give you gift. It's just how it works.
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Well Okay... first of all let me say thanks in advance for answering this.. i would really like opinions on this and sorry if this is long.. but i will rate fives for anyone who gives serious advice... (15/f)
Okay.. so first of all theres this kid who im really good friends with.. and ive known him since second grade. He is my best guy friend actually. And i like him too. I see him every day in school like he will come over to me in the morning and talk to me and once i had put my books in his locker. and he brought them to me knowing that i needed them. and he always pokes me and stuff. once he linked arms with me and just stood there for a while. and then he put his arm around my waist once too and just stood there. And well my school sells carnations for thanksgiving.. and well i sent him one.. and he sent me one.. and like im the only person he sent one too. and sometimes when im standing with him in the morning he looks at me when he thinks im not looking and this is not just like once.. so ya.. im wondering if he likes me or just likes me as a friend and what i should do about it if he does.. THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME
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Well you could always do the really unconventional thing and ask him.
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18/f. I have a very close guy-friend. Occasionally when he comes over to mine (or I go to his), and he (or I) can't get home (e.g. he comes to my place on his bike, I don't like him to ride home at 3am, it's not too safe around here) then he stays over. He'll sleep in my (single) bed, and we usually end up snuggled up to close each other (e.g. both lying on our sides facing the same way with his arm around me).
My question is - is this ok for our relationship? - I don't want to date him, I don't want our friendship to turn into something further. We are both single. Is it ok to sleep together like this, or will it damage our friendship in the long run? (link)
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If you both are on the same page, then no it's fine. Where it gets fucked up is if one of you starts thinking something is there when it's not.
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ok...im like one of the most popular girls at school but my friend is known as a "almost geek" and i love her to death shes like my sister...and i have been so popular since elementary school and i cant give that up but i also cant give my bestfriend up...Why is this so hard for me to decide on?What should i do give up popularity or help my friend become popular 2? please help!!
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Who says you have to give either one up? If you're hanging out with people who are gunna laugh at the other people you're friends with, those people have officially been designated by me as assholes.
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I'm just really depressed and need someone to talk to. :/ (link)
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Ok so im me.
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this girl named bethany has asked me to borrow my clothes, come over to my house, go to the movies, the mall and suddenly im her friend. i dont have a problem with it but i was on a 3 way call with my friend monique and bethany was on to only she didnt kno i was on. I had to get off the phone because my brother had to use it. I called monique back and asked her what bethany said. Monique said that everything she said about me in the conversation was a lie. ( the things were all good things about me) and now i just hate her im going to talk to her tomorrow i dont kno if i should trust her or when i confront her shes just going to lie. PLEESE HELP!! (link)
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Don't let the vindictive cunt borrow anything, see nothing with the slutty bitch, and her skank ass is not welcome in your home. That's just as a warm up.
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I have a question about dating/love.
I mean, whats the point? You date, you "fall in love", you break up, your heart is broken. I don't believe that love exists among teens. They all go around saying I love you to the first person they meet without ever actaully knowing what it feels like. I've done it, I admit and when I said "I love you" I knew I didn't mean it. I only said so because he said it first. I always told myself that I would never say those 3 words unless I really thought I was "In Love". I broke the promise that I had with myself and i'm starting to think that love is just a word that everyone throws around. I mean IS there really true love? Everyone is so wrapped up in having a boy/girl friend do they ever see the pattern they make? All the tears and confusion. Is it worth it when your only 15? Why can't all the hormones be turned off until were considered a adult? Seriously.
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Feedback is all I desire but do try to sound just bit intelligent in your answers. Don't make me wonder if the schooling system is failing too.
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To practice for later life so you can have good sex and overpopulate the world. Everybody sucks at sex at some point in their life. Might as well be now. There is no point to dating;when you're 14 or 15, God knows who'll you'll marry. People do it to have sex. God's natural instinct is to reproduce. Hell, let's do it. The hormones cant be turned off b/c this is God's big joke. Why is chocolate ice cream fatteing but brocholi is great for you. Ice cream tastes better so it's easy to get fat. The moral: crack kills.
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ok im having my sweet 16 in a couple of months. I made my guest list and came up with about 40 - 44 girls and only about 33 guys. I want to kind of make it a ratio but i dont want to invite just anyone so its even! my one friend invited a bunch of people to her party and some threw the invites on the floor. i dont want to be dissed..but at the same time i kind of want it even. SHould i leave my list as it is..invite more guys...any experiecnes where guys to girls wasnt even but the party was still good? (link)
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That's an ok ratio. It doesn't have to be even.
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My best friend is really sweet, but isn't so popular with the boys. I happen to be (not to me boastful) Anyway, when ever I tell her about my boyfriend or that a boy told me he likes me, she says "at least that guy likes you" SO I can't talk to her about guys. I don't know what to do
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Don't talk to her about that.
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I am soo horRny. I have been very sexually frustrated and idk what to do. I have not had sex but have done other things and I havent gotten any action or anything in like 6 months. Its very depressing bc I want it. I have guy friends but I am not a slut and I dont like messing with just anyone. But my guy best friend and I ARE very comfotable with eachother and we kiss and I wanna do more with me. What should I do? I want action! (link)
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Call me. Email me for more info.
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i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help (link)
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Two words:attention getter.
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