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friends or more????
Well Okay... first of all let me say thanks in advance for answering this.. i would really like opinions on this and sorry if this is long.. but i will rate fives for anyone who gives serious advice... (15/f)
Okay.. so first of all theres this kid who im really good friends with.. and ive known him since second grade. He is my best guy friend actually. And i like him too. I see him every day in school like he will come over to me in the morning and talk to me and once i had put my books in his locker. and he brought them to me knowing that i needed them. and he always pokes me and stuff. once he linked arms with me and just stood there for a while. and then he put his arm around my waist once too and just stood there. And well my school sells carnations for thanksgiving.. and well i sent him one.. and he sent me one.. and like im the only person he sent one too. and sometimes when im standing with him in the morning he looks at me when he thinks im not looking and this is not just like once.. so ya.. im wondering if he likes me or just likes me as a friend and what i should do about it if he does.. THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME
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Hmm.. if everything you are saying is true i would have to yeah i think he might have feelings for you or maybe you 2 are just really close. But mayb you could talk to him maybe get something a little more outta him, gett in side his head. Try and find out first if he has feelings for you soo you dont make the wrong move because you dont want to ruin your friendship if he isn't into you. If you find out that he doesn't like you then don't worry about, at leastt you have a really good friend but if he doess takee the plungee and goo forr it :)
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its like you guys are "going out" but it was never "official". thats cute but it could be misinterpreted.(recently i had 2 guys do that but nothing came of it) keep this up for a while and then see what happens.. i think you guys will end up being together. <3
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Well you could always do the really unconventional thing and ask him.
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Personally, I find that most (but not all, so keep your chin up!) of those things could probably be interpreted as just being a decent friend. The tell-tale signs, in my opinion, are the carnation and the 'arm around the waist'. Also, if you're constantly catching him looking at you, there's probably little doubt left.
As for what you should do, the first thing you should ask yourself if trying to get involved is a good idea - you have to consider that if it doesn't work out between you two, you may have lost a good friend. Of course, many good friends will ignore/pay no attention to old 'relationships'. Secondly, you have to try dropping some hints to him. Do you do the same sort of things he does? Stare at him, the like? If so, then he might already have an inkling that you like him, and you can move on. If you have some friends you trust, who are also friends with him, you can ask them to scope him out for you, and see if he really 'likes' you. It doesn't hurt to be sorry, and if he catches on to this, it lets him know that you're interested.
Then, you can try asking him places, trying to set up situations in which you can talk more deeply, and generally getting more friendly. It's hard to tell, but if you're lucky, there'll be a moment when it's the /perfect/ time to tell him how you feel. And if you're right about how he feels, this could turn out to be very memorable.
Hope it works out,
erendor.
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First of all at 15 it is a mistake to start dating...sorry if that seems bitchy because it wasnt ment to be at all.
All throughout high school I was inlove with my bestfriend and I really wanted to be with him but I dont know what it was but I wouldnt tell him. And to tell you the truth it saved the best relationship of my life. Now whenever Im in a mess or a problem guess who's there for me? Him?
Dont date him and dont worry about if he likes you or not just relax and not stressout...okay!
The truth is, I told him later on that I liked him a while back and he just laughed and said me to...he said that he was like in love with me...
We both sat there and laughed and just talked about it saying that we are glad nothing happened because we both ment the world to each other...
hope that helped
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It's kind of hard to tell. Because him being your best guy friend & all, he's going to do sweet things like that for you, you know? But honestly, I think that he may just like you more than a friend. The only way you're going to find out is to ask him.. or have someone else ask him. :)
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