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What the hell is wrong with me?
I am a 27 year female and I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me. Well for one thing I"ve only been with one guy my whole life. I dated him for a year when I was 21 and it was a horrible experience. He just used me and treated me like a sex object. I never dated all through highschool, guys just were not interested in me. SO when I met my ex even though he was a loser, I went for him because he showed me attention. Well that was 6 years ago since I've been with him. I havent been with any other guys since. I've had lots of guys ask me out but I turn them all down. I get really lonely sometimes, and it seems like all my friends are getting married and I feel left out. I'm not a lesbian, and I do like guys, so what the hell is wrong with me?
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maybe you are just afraid of relationship and thats why you turned down all those guys if another guy asks you and you think of him as pretty decent guy (or whatever is your type) say yes and go for it and might get you somewhere
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maybe you don't date people because you turn them all down...
and maybe you turn them all down because you don't like any of them
maybe you're putting out the wrong image for yourself, and that's why you're attracting weird guys
so when you're out from now on, take a reality chekc and see if the person you're showing the world is the one you really are
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Possiblyy your afraid of taking a chance because you are scared to0 get hurt. & you mayy be like i knoee, i knoww. but you have to take chances and if you get hurt you will learn from the mistakes from that relationship and will not make the same one in the next one you have. YOU have to create YOUR OWN happiness. NO ONE can do it for you.
-Megan&&kayla
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Sometimes when we've been through some bad relationships, it takes us a while to learn to trust again.
Why are you turning down these guys that ask you out? Do you they not interest you or are you scared of getting hurt again? Is there something about them that leads you to think they'll hurt you?
When one comes along that interests you, take a chance and say yes. It's just a date, not a relationship. Take things slow and see how the guy really is before taking the step to move into a relationship. If that one isn't the right one for you, don't give up hope. Be patient and try again. There are lots of great guys out there. Your Mr. Right just hasn't came along yet.
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What's wrong with the guys you turn down? Accept a date with a guy, even if you think it wouldn't work out. You never know. But it's not like you're just gunna see THE guy standing on a corner. If you do, he's either between movies or long since married.
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aww hunni i think your feeling afraid of this happening to your again!
when you meet a guy that seems interested in you chat to him and if he asks you out, take things slow, dont jump straight in and tell him how you feel.
if he likes you hes bound to understand. take it step by step, get to know each other and gradually go out on more dates, hold hands, hug. soon enough you'll be happy with him and get your confidence back.
maybe the fact that your ex treated you bad and hurt you is why you feel like this. Im sure youll find happiness soon and i hope it all works out great xx good luck
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You just need to get out there and take a chance. Say yes to the next guy that asks you out or ask a guy out yourself. Have some fun.
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