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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Member Since: November 13, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: November 23, 2005
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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.

This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.

I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions? (link)
YES! You should report this....for the sake of the children. These innocent children deserve to be in a loving home, not an abusive one.
Report it to more than one person so that it will get someone's attention ASAP.


hey...ok well here it is im 14 and
im way over weight...im like 5'4 and weigh 180 bt i dont look it i only look 120 cuz im mostly ass & boobs( as everyone says) ( i wear a DD which is big for my age)....during christmas im going to see my boyfriend..(he lives an hour away so i dont get to see him at all:( )...and i wana lose weight before then..i mean i know i dont look that big , but i wana have muscle and i wana be more confident (link)
Aerobics are great for losing weight. You can either join an aerobic's class or buy some video's and work out at home. This along with a healthy diet, drinking plenty of water, and taking a multivitamin daily will definitely help you get in better shape. Good luck.


what does it mean if u dont have a period for more that a month or 2? u think its serius? (link)
If you've had sex, you could be pregnant. If this is a possibility, you should get a home pregnancy test. You can get one for about $10.


I am a 27 year female and I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me. Well for one thing I"ve only been with one guy my whole life. I dated him for a year when I was 21 and it was a horrible experience. He just used me and treated me like a sex object. I never dated all through highschool, guys just were not interested in me. SO when I met my ex even though he was a loser, I went for him because he showed me attention. Well that was 6 years ago since I've been with him. I havent been with any other guys since. I've had lots of guys ask me out but I turn them all down. I get really lonely sometimes, and it seems like all my friends are getting married and I feel left out. I'm not a lesbian, and I do like guys, so what the hell is wrong with me? (link)
You just need to get out there and take a chance. Say yes to the next guy that asks you out or ask a guy out yourself. Have some fun.




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