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ok i have a bunch of friends and i love hanging out with them but i dont somethings missing like the only preson i can totaly be myself around and that feel's like a totaly good friend is my sisters friend i know thats kind of weird but she started talking to me one day when my sister ahd this huge sleepvoer anywho she's the only one i can hangout with have fun with totaly trust and what not why cant i find anyone else thats like her cause i really like all my friends but like yeah this is really hard to explain because i dont even really get all of it please help thoguh if you can (link)
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Its difficult trying to find that "best friend". Some people never find one, and some people always have a different one each week! The fact is, these things will take time. Open up to people more, talk to someone different or just invite some girls for a sleepover and try to get closer. As long as you have a group of friends, you fine. That one special friend will come someday, all you have to do is wait.
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ok so im bi rite
i like thos girl
which is my best best friend
but i heard she talks about me
i like her though
but i know that she is gonna get grossed out
because when i was just playing telling her i was bi
she took it real serious
and was like ewww
ive hangin out with da wrong people
this and that
wat should i do? (link)
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Leave her, shes not a real friend if she cant accept that fact. Hang out with other people.
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i really don't like the side of one of my best friends, kim, ive seen this year. i believe she's always been like this, i just saw through her and figured it out this year since i've gotten maturer and smarter with that type of things. kim just shows through as a manipulative, lying, flat out mean person. not everyone sees through her act, but some do. i don't know what to do about it though, cause she's been one of my best friends (i have alot of other friends though) for awhile. any suggestions? (link)
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Actually im in the same situation and what i am doing now is basically not hanging out with her as much as i used to. If she comes to me and talks then ill be friendly but not like we used to be as in swapping secrets and stuff. I dont rely on her or anything i found a new reliable friend that i can trust and dont need those kinds of girls in my life. That just my experience, good luck with your decision!
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ive been friends with this girl for like 3 years..shes really bossy to me and all my friends. like if we say something she doesnt agree with shell say something like are you friggen retarded? or your so stupid. but she says these things like constantly. and alot of the times when we say something shell like slap our arms or something and shes a big girl and were all pretty small and it hurts and if we tell her to stop it hurts she just say oo boo hoo. she told me once i treat her like shit because i leave her out of the crowd and i wanted to say mabye if you were nicer i wouldnt but i knew if i said that she would get mad. how do i deal with something like this. me and my friends are tired of this. (link)
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im not sure about you, but what i would do is tell her to stop and stand up for yourslef. You have a group if friends so when she acts bossy to you, just ditch her. You shouldnt be treated like that and you dont have to take it. Youll survive without her. Just dont hang around her if shes acting like a bitch. After you and your friends keep ditching her, she'll probably realize what shes doing and stop. Remember you dont have to be rude about it, Say stop nicly first and if she still acts rude to you, then ditch her. Make shure your friends agree with the plan though.
Keep me updated!
-Krazy
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Two nights ago i was out with some friends and we wanted to call my "bff" to see what she would say. she is now going out with my brother and it ruined our friendship. she was say that she used me to get to my brother and it really bothers me. and saying that she wanted to fight me because she knew she would beet me up. i dont no what to do now she talked about me behind my back. i am confused and i would like to have someones advice. thank you
Chrissy19 (link)
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get your brother to dump her. Shes not worth the relationship.
-Krazy
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Okay My friend was talking to this kid online
and the conversation went kind of like this:
boy= bill
my friend=jill
Jill:So is kelsy still being the same?
Bill:yeah i guess
Jill:she used to be my best friend until that girl keria came
Bill:i hate her so much
Jill:why
Bill: she is weird and stuff
now my question is, when he said he hates her
was he talking about Kelsey or Keria?
my friend didnt ask
Thanks
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Keria i think
-Krazy
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When you walk into a room and your friends are in the middle of an interesting conversation and they see you but don't speak to you when you stop to speak to them; is that normal and would you feel embarrased if it happened to you? (link)
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well if their engaged in a conversation, i think its pretty normal, but if their not and just ignoring you then its not normal. They should stop and say hi to you though.
-Krazy
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Our class is getting ready for a spring trip to New York and today we picked the people we are rooming with. This girl I know, we'll call her Lucy, is one of the people I am rooming with. I used to be really close with her, but then we stopped talking. We starting hanging out again just this year. We signed up to room together with another one of my friends. Later, I find out that Lucy said I was annoying and she doesn't want to room with me because I'm "annoying," even though she has been acting like my friend the entire year. I think she's being very immature and two-faced. I want to confront her about this, but I don't want to get carried away and become immature myself. How can I talk to her about this rationally? Would it be reasonable to just blow her off and room with someone else and leave her all alone? (link)
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Well it wont be immature if you are talking to her but dont make it into a drama play. If you just talk to her calmy then it wont be immature. Depending on what she tells you, if shes admits it and says she sorry then you can stay her roommate. IF you denies it and gets all rude about it then ditch her. That may not be the greatest advice but that is what i will do.
-Krazy
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well my problem is that i have this friend and she is older then me and in a higher grade and she does everything like me, i cut my hair, she did it the same way, i dyed it and messed up and she dyed it and tryed to get it look the same, i want to be a photographer and she said too me she wanted to be a fashion designer and now she says she wants to be a photographer. i am skinnyish and she is kinda bigger and she said she wants to go on a crash diet(which i told her was very bad) to get skinnyer. i don't want to hurt her feeling but i want her to stop and be her own person. I'm not sure if this helps but me and her liked the same boy, and that boy asked me out and i asked her if it was ok to go out with him and she said yes. So maybe she is trying to be like me to get to him, but please give me some ideas to stop this, irs getting really annoying. (link)
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I dont think she will go that far just to get that guy. I'm guessing that she thinks your all perfect and she wants to be just like you. Maybe since you get all the boys and everything, she thinks if she dresses like you, she will get them too. You should be flatterd! Anyways, you need to tell her that she is a differant person and you dont like her trying to act like you. If you dont tell her then she will still be the same untill you step up and tell her. If she is a real friend, she will understand your feelings and leave it at that.
Take care&&God Bless
-Itz Krazy
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long sorry=/ im just so confused.
16/f
I have 3 best friends. They are the main people i hang out with. I have lots of friends but never seem to see them outside of school. But anyway, heres the thing, one of them moved 3 years ago, and the other doesnt go to my school anymore but we see eachother sometimes. And then the last friend, We have been friends for about 2 years. But im wrried i dont wanna be friends anymore. She is always leaving me out of things for other people, one minute she will be fine the next she will be a bitch to me. We get in fights monthly. She is always treating me like crap and other people see it, i dont know how many times a day i get 'how do you deal with her''why are you still friends''shes horrible to you', but the thing is when she isnt like that we have such a good time together. Pluse she is all i have left. Past few years i have chaged alot and been threw alot and she was the ony one there for it. If i lost her noone would be there. What should i do? I cant stand how she treats me but when i dont talk to her i feel so alone, shes all i got and i cant imagine not being friends with her. (link)
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Did you tell her all this? Tell her that shes the last one you have and the way shes treating you, you dont like that. Really though if she doesnt listen to that then she is really not a friend now. Do you know the reason why shes acting like that? Ask her, maybe theres a reason. The basic thing here is cummincation...theres none of it as far as i can see. Just talk to her and shes rude about that then really shes not your friend. You should talk to your other friends about that too. Maybe they can give good input too. I hope all goes well and keep me updated:-)
-Krazy
EDIT: i understand what you mean when you say if you let her go then you would have no other good friends. You know its better to MAKE new friends then keeping a bitch as one. Sorry if that sounds harsh. But yeah there should be someone else at your school that you can be close friends with. Really, you have 2 friends for after school rite? and you have acquaintences at school so your just about fine. But still talk to other people and get to know other people if you want. First find out what her problem is though. She shouldnt be acting like that. Remember my inbox is always open
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He's one of my best friends and I love him so much. (as a friend) but ive secretly liked him the whole time and i can tell he's liked me back. =) but then today at school i heard from my friends that he was absent all week and it wasnt because he was sick. and he wasnt skipping either. he left. he left the school and transferred. i found out this morning and later today at recess i was crying so much i made a huge scene because i wont see him again. this happened with one of my other best friends. we lost touch because he left the school and nowhe just laughs at me and i dont wanna face that with someone i like even more. hes the SWEETEST guy ive ever met and he was always there for me. i need him by my side. i dont know what to do! i cant talk to him on the phone cuz i dont have his number, i cant IM him or email him cuz he doesnt have a computer, and i only RARELY see him at hockey games. he wont b able to sign my yearbook anymore. i cried 2day like 5 times about this and i cant stop! help! what can i do? (link)
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awww im really sorry...there are people out there in your school that probably know where he is. You can search for him on the net too. Don't worry, i'm sure you will find him.
-Krazy
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I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do. (link)
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hey tell me your problems..maybe i can help you:)
My inbox is always open
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i have a bigg crush on one of my good friends brothers. she knows, and she swears she doesnt mind, but i think she does. should i go for it with him, or lay off and respect the relationship i have with my friend?
thanks! (link)
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Well if she says she doesnt mind then go for it. If you really think that she does mind then think it over. What is more important...Ur friendship with her? Or the crush that will not stay forever?
-Krazy
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heres the deal I used to be in a gruop, girl life was at its best. I was convinced though that I could get it better. Myself and Anna broke up from Abby and Hayden, the gruop was split! My first recesss with Anna was really fun. We were bff's, and i was convinced it would stay that way. The problem though is that Anna gets mad and is sortof a tomboy I know thats no reason to break up but we get in fights all the time and so a few nights ago at one of our sleepovers I thought maybe I could shoot back over to Hayden and especially ABBY!!!! I MISSED THEM!!! I asked Anna if maybe she could forgive her (she was really mad at her cus she told hayden somthin) and we could be a group again. NO. That was her straight answer. So MY QUESTION IS should I stick with my friendship with Anna were we are sorta tomboys and dont totally get along, or should I make a new frienship with abby, and transform into a GIRLY GIRL!!! Im sort of going abbys way but if anyone thinks I should stick with Anna go ahead and speak up, PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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follow your heart. who are you going to have more fun with? Who wont ditch you in difficult times? You will always be your best friend? Think about those answers and hopefully then you can decide. If you need more advice just ask me.
-Krazy
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I need as much information as possible!! it's highly apreciated!!!!!!
Ok, i'm normally one to give advice, and it'e driving me insane, because i'm stuck in this situationand i feel as if i'm cornered. This guy i've liked for a good couple of months now, just started really talking to him this week and last week and a little from the week before. But we just now really started getting into deeper conversations. I really like him he's sweet, considerate, and never ditches me for his other guy friends. He talks to me and yesterday when he was driving me home, we talked and I felt like I was in heaven. But he talks to me about this one girl he wants to ask out.... yes it totally crashes my moment. And he tells me that he doesn't know if he wants to go out with her or not because he dumped his last GF a few weeks ago and his ex is best friends with the girl he wants to go out. So I feel pretty evil for wanting to do this but I want to make it so he goes out with me instead of the girl he keeps wanting to ask out. When I flirt with him he flirts back and we just have a great time talking and just talk for hours. What are things I could do to maybe catch his attention more? Anything that I can do to maybe make it so he'll be more interested in me?
I want to make a bold move but not something too bold that might scare him away but enough of a bold move to be like hey look at me i'm interested...
-Thank you so much, advice is needed!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
-Very interested
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hmmm....this not be the best advice but i think you should go ahead and ask him out now...i mean if you dont do it now and he asks out another girl and she says yes...then they will be going out and you will feel down....but if you ask him out ans he says YES..then you would feel happy..this is all about taking the risk...i mean if you dont do it you are probably going to miss out on that guy...u went to the next level with flirting and maybe u shud step it up again...whats there to lose? so what if he rejects you? that doesnt mean you guys still cant be friends...basically im saying ask him out soon when you feel that its the time before another girl gets him...and if your really risky kiss him now and see what he does back...hope i helped a bit! good luck...bye
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