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so confused!
long sorry=/ im just so confused.
16/f
I have 3 best friends. They are the main people i hang out with. I have lots of friends but never seem to see them outside of school. But anyway, heres the thing, one of them moved 3 years ago, and the other doesnt go to my school anymore but we see eachother sometimes. And then the last friend, We have been friends for about 2 years. But im wrried i dont wanna be friends anymore. She is always leaving me out of things for other people, one minute she will be fine the next she will be a bitch to me. We get in fights monthly. She is always treating me like crap and other people see it, i dont know how many times a day i get 'how do you deal with her''why are you still friends''shes horrible to you', but the thing is when she isnt like that we have such a good time together. Pluse she is all i have left. Past few years i have chaged alot and been threw alot and she was the ony one there for it. If i lost her noone would be there. What should i do? I cant stand how she treats me but when i dont talk to her i feel so alone, shes all i got and i cant imagine not being friends with her.
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Thats how my friend was. The best thing to do is talk to her about in person. Tell her how you feel and why she is doing that to you. You should also find some other good friends that will treat you nicer. Trust me I've been through this so new friends is a great idea. I hope everything goes well for you!
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I agree with the other answers - she's not your friend. Friends care about each other's feelings. All of the time. Even when they're mad at each other. You say there'd be no one if you left her? What about all of the people who express concern over the way she's treating you? They sound more like friends to me. Try to join another group of friends or find some people who have none. You don't need to be treated like this. Hang out with people who treat you right and whom you can treat right.
Sabine
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To make a long story short- she is not your friend. Friends aren't sweet one minute and a bitch the next. Her being that way to you is the same as her using you for a rug to wipe the mud off of her feet when it rains outside.
If I were in your shoes, I would do some searching for real friends who respect you and your feelings. No friendship is worth sticking around and putting up with that.
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Did you tell her all this? Tell her that shes the last one you have and the way shes treating you, you dont like that. Really though if she doesnt listen to that then she is really not a friend now. Do you know the reason why shes acting like that? Ask her, maybe theres a reason. The basic thing here is cummincation...theres none of it as far as i can see. Just talk to her and shes rude about that then really shes not your friend. You should talk to your other friends about that too. Maybe they can give good input too. I hope all goes well and keep me updated:-)
-Krazy
EDIT: i understand what you mean when you say if you let her go then you would have no other good friends. You know its better to MAKE new friends then keeping a bitch as one. Sorry if that sounds harsh. But yeah there should be someone else at your school that you can be close friends with. Really, you have 2 friends for after school rite? and you have acquaintences at school so your just about fine. But still talk to other people and get to know other people if you want. First find out what her problem is though. She shouldnt be acting like that. Remember my inbox is always open<33
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