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too much of a role model..
well my problem is that i have this friend and she is older then me and in a higher grade and she does everything like me, i cut my hair, she did it the same way, i dyed it and messed up and she dyed it and tryed to get it look the same, i want to be a photographer and she said too me she wanted to be a fashion designer and now she says she wants to be a photographer. i am skinnyish and she is kinda bigger and she said she wants to go on a crash diet(which i told her was very bad) to get skinnyer. i don't want to hurt her feeling but i want her to stop and be her own person. I'm not sure if this helps but me and her liked the same boy, and that boy asked me out and i asked her if it was ok to go out with him and she said yes. So maybe she is trying to be like me to get to him, but please give me some ideas to stop this, irs getting really annoying.
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I understand exactly what you're going through! I have this friend who always tries to act like me! And yeah its the most annoying thing ever! You need to talk to her about it. It might hurt her but if you two are friends then she should be okay about it. I confronted my friend and we're still friends except now, we're two different people.
Good Luck!
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I dont think she will go that far just to get that guy. I'm guessing that she thinks your all perfect and she wants to be just like you. Maybe since you get all the boys and everything, she thinks if she dresses like you, she will get them too. You should be flatterd! Anyways, you need to tell her that she is a differant person and you dont like her trying to act like you. If you dont tell her then she will still be the same untill you step up and tell her. If she is a real friend, she will understand your feelings and leave it at that.
Take care&&God Bless
-Itz Krazy
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The best idea is to talk to her or else she will keep that up. And that boy might be the reason why she is doing this but just talk to her about it. And she will probably give you an explanation. I hope everything goes well!
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