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13/f
There is this guy who's in a lot of my classes. He's nice, intelligent, athletic, hot....heh. Anyways, I like him and he sorta seems to like me but hey, I guess he could just be messing with my mind.
We used to flirt in our classes but this one time in Gym class I walked passed him and he's all,"Don't touch me," because he has curly hair and I pull on it as he walks by, and I responded with,"Why would I want to?" So now he doesn't flirt with me anymore. He looks at me and stuff like that, but it's not the same.
I don't want to ask him out, because I am too scared of him being all, "ew." I want a way to be discreet about showing him that I am interested, so he might get the message, but not too out there so he doesn't get disgusted. I DON'T want people telling me that I should just ask him out, because people who say that probably don't remember how scary it is/are more brave then I.
Sorry it's so long. Thanks in advance!! I rate well.
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i didnt take the time to read the whole thing, because i already know the story. im thinking what would help you is a bit of cocoa frogs on a cold summer day. lol just kidding... im actually gonna read this and then answer it, just as id answer any other question, and try to forget that the question is actually about rob. ewww. you should have titled it "ew....." not "eh....." so anyways.. here comes my honest advice...
(ANYONE WHO READ THIS, MY BEST FRIEND ASKED THIS QUESTION AND I KNOW ITS HER, SO IM NOT BEING RUDE TO SOME POOR INNOCENT PERSON)
i think you should just keep talking to him and flirting with him. (ignoring the fact that ill have to watch during periods 4 and 5 on every day except for thursday)maybe he does like you, and maybe he doesnt. maybe he thought you were ultimately disguested with him, when you said "why would i want to"... (even though you know you really want to)im almost sure this answer is good enough for a 5 now. and if it isnt... one of yours wont be either. good luck stranger.
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i CANT STAND my older sister. Shes a junior in highschool, im a freshman. she is always making fun of me for no reason at all, and always telling me what to do. So, im always mean back to her. I dont wanna be mean to her, but i cant control myself, she thinks shes so smart. She gets straight A's, drives her own car, has lots of friends, .. so she thinks shes wicked cool. I cant stand it, i really cant. Like, sometimes i just go completely insane. I have a bad temper, as im typing this now im just shaking, i feel like im gunna explode. WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
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just ignore it, or just pick on her. make her realize shes being really immature. tell her to GROW UP. good luck, hun.
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i need a tough ass girl probably black to tell me what to do in this situation. My brother is always instagating if you don't know what that is its when someone says stuff to get you to fight them or wanna hurt them really badly. What usually happens is I either flip out on him or i try and hit him. He doesnt get in trouble i do and it gets me sooooo pissed that i wanna cry. My parents take his side cause he is younger and i was trying to hurt him. how do i make my brother stop instagating me.
NO SMART ASS REMARKS
i need some good advicenators to get me some advice. pretty fast please! thank u and love ya (link)
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first of all your being just a little racist. theres nothing different about a answer from a white girl or a black girl. theyre the same. please dont be racist. no one aprreciates it. and to answer the actual question, just walk away. you dont need to fight your brother just because he instages it. please think about this and grow up. good luck.
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I don't know what you would put this under. but I am in a crisis people. haha I have to babysit a 2 year old on Saturday with my dad who wouldn't care if he got run over by a truck. The child is wild. He is my nephew and I have to baby sit him for 5 hours. 7:30am to noon. What can I do to keep him under control. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I am nerved wreched. No smart remarks either/ thanks in advance.
13/f. Neika (link)
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try to get him to watch tv with you and have a time to have him eat something. theres not much you can do to keep him under control if he wants to be wild. just maybe try to read to him and get him to play with toys... thats about all i can think of. good luck!
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my dad is a phsyco, and i've lived with it all my life, but now my mom is talking about getting a divorce, at first, i was devistated, but now i want them to divorce b/c i'ld most definatly be happier. AnYwAy, my mom wont talk to me about it anymore and i want to tell her i would support it, how can i do that without sounding lik im a total physco lik my dad??? (link)
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just bring it up and say that you support it if she wants to get divorced. tell her you want everyone to be better off and happier. im sure she wont think your a psyco. i hope it all works out for you. good luck,
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my parents and i dont get along. they always try to get into my bussiness and ruin everything.. i dont tell them anything and i am not plannin to either. my problem they think i spend too much time on the computer. i cant do anything. my parents are over protective and dont let me do anything with my friends unless it is with a parent. i am really gettin tired of my parents bullshit. i dont want to go otuside and make friend with the girls out there because they are ALL snobbs. i have tryed it before. and when ever i talk to a guy my mom questions the shit out of about the guy.. i have no idea what to do anymore i leave me parents alone i do what they say but in return they wont leave me alone... i used to barely be on the computer instead be on the phone and they didnt like that either. so i would like to know what to do. can someone please help me.. (link)
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your gonna have to talk to them and come to some reasonable agreement about it. i know its tough with parents. eventually maybe they'll start to losen up. parents want to get in your buisness because they want to protect you. but what they dont know is that theyre not really protecting you. theyre just annoying the hell out of you. just keep working on it. good luck. you'll get through this.
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My sister is almost 16 and going through this stage where she thinks shes better than everyone, especially me. She's always pushing me around.. and everything she says to me is some sort of comment to bring me down. She mocks me and tells me to shut the f*** up and all this other inappropriate stuff for NO reason. I just ignore her, because its stupid to even bother arguing with someone as immature as her. But sometimes i get so mad, I just want to punch her in the face and put her in her place. I've talked to my parents and they know that she THINKS she's so hot. I cant ignore her any longer, im sick of her thinking she has the right to walk over me. (And my brothers and sisters.) How do I stand up? And dont tell me to sit down and talk to her. You dont understand - this girl will NOT listen that way. (link)
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tell her to stop messing with you because it just makes her look like an asshole. eventually its gonna come back and get her. i understand the feeling but theres just not really much you can do about it. good luck,
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omg! MY MOM AND DAD WERE SUPPOSE TO BE OUT ALL NIGHT LAST FRIDAY BUT THEY CAME HOME EARLY AND CAUGHT ME AND MY BF "DOING THINGS" NOW THEY HATE HIM AND ARE REALL MAD AT ME ! I REALLY LYK TYHIS GUY AND I WANT THEM TO EXCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS!! HELP! (link)
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wow thats sucks. im sorry, you'll just have to try to prove to your parents that hes trustworthy. theres nothing you can really do except let a little time pass and show them that he really is responsible.
good luck!
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well, my bf and i go to diffrent schools so we try to hang out as much as we can inbetween my soccer and work for both of us. during the week i try to go over his house every night i dont have soccer adn she always fights with me about it...
i mean id have him over my house but she doesnt like people over??
what can i do to make things better between my mom and i? (link)
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since shes your mom, shes gonna be hard to reason with about this. just ask her if she doesnt like it so much then why doesnt she let him go to your house? in my opinon, your parents shouldnt have to agree with everything you wanna do. you should go even if she says no. its not a big deal.
good luck.
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i have begged and begged but mom will not let me get my tongue peirced! she says im too young to make that kind of choice.im 13! one of my family members got it done when she was 11 and my mom approves of it! i really want this done but i dont know were to go that will let u with out your parents permission and one of my friends said to do it my self which i thought about but then another friend said that if you hit the wrong spot it can kill but still this is a choice.what should i do? (link)
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heh.. wow i can really relate to this. let me start my telling you the answer is NO. heres my story.. : last friday i was at my friend, christines house and we went over another friends house, laura. we went in lauras parents room. she was going to pierce christines and my ears. we both wanted our second hole and our cartilage done (up top). so me, being the stupid person that i am, went first. laura did the second hole on my right ear and then her mom wanted to come in. well we didnt want her mom to know, so we took all the stuff with us., except for one thing; the marker she used to put a dot where we were going to pierce it. so her mom went in there after we ran to lauras room to finish. her mom noticed to sharpie marker on her night stand and instantly thought we were all sniffing it and getting high with it. so, we had to explain what was really going on. i took the one ear that was dones earing out. well, now its infected. theres even more problems because of it but i wont go into that. when my parents find out, which they will, ill be in alot of trouble for not asking and for letting my friend do it instead of professionally. so let me tell you, dont pierce your tounge. yes, you can kill yourself. and ive never met anyone as young as 13 with their tounge pierced. if you feel so strongly about getting it done though, then go get it done professionally. good luck!
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ok-----I have a stepsister named Danielle. She's 16. She has a boyfriend named DeShaun.---He's 14. (I'm 13.)I don't think they deserve each other because they are always on the phone fighting about something. Secretly, Danielle sucked her ex-boyfriend's dick behind DeShaun's back. He dosn't know. No one knows----but me. They are so dysfunctional and they distrust each other so much. To the point that it irratates anyone around them. It's confusing----some nights they could be on the phone making nasty sounds and the next they are screaming at each other. Danielle has had soooooooooo many boyfriends since she was like 11-----but shes had DeShaun for one and a half years. Now..... Danielle is sort of a slutty gold digger, (if you ask me), and DeShaun just happens to be rich. Well, alot richer than me and Danielle (i dont know your perspective of "rich")Even though I think Danielle is a slutty hoe-bag, (she took my 15 year old summer "boyfriend" Laron(i hung out with him every day in the summer----and she knew we liked each other!!!!) away from me for like a week and got his phone number, (that bitch!!!!)but i feel bad for DeShaun because Danielle constantly cheats on him------and DeShaun's not very smart so he has no idea. What should I do??? (link)
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you need to tell DeShaun about your sister cheating on him. he has to know. as far as Danielle goes shes a slut and its gonna be that way. make sure you tell Deshaun that hes being cheated on and tell him everything you know.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~
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I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks. (link)
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well if you cant afford counceling and he definitly wont try harder to work things out then it may be better for the child to be brought up with you not together. things could get worse and worse for the child with the relationship you and this guy have. i think its just best that you try to bring the child up as normally as possible. thats how things will have to be. im sorry your in such a situation like this.
hope i helped,
~STef~~
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my mom is sick with breast cancer and bone cancer and 3 brain tumors.....i kno thats bad but shes in remission now and doing really well...but for some reason no matta how much i spend time with her she keeps telling me to stay with her.....no i can see when she was really sick and wantin to spend time wit me but she betta now....and this is cutting into my skool work and social life...i told her i cant spend every second wit her but the she told me that i dont respect her and that i hurt her feelings....now everytime i go to my friends house i feel bad....what do i do to tell her i need my space (i've tried sendin her flowers,and cards)--(doesnt work) help me out !PLEASE! (link)
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you need to spend a little time with her, she feels very lonely because she has cancer. you dont know how long you will actually have with her if things start going wrong again... sometimes when you want to hang with your friends just remind your mom that you need to spend some time with them too. you only get to be a kid once.
hope i helped
~stef~
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My mom and I got into a fight last night because i was sick and she didnt want to take me to the doctor. my friend is having a party tomorrow night and i really want to go but my mom says im grounded just because i confronted her with the fact that she is the ONLY one allowed to be sick! He is my next door neighbor and i think i should go anyways! She cant show her butt or we will get kicked out and if she tries to hit me she knows i will call the cops because i have before. Its not fair that because she was in the wrong I cant go. What do you think? I need advice, do i go or not? (link)
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you need to go, if this is a party you want to go to then you go girl! you only live once!!
~stef~
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My mom was mad at my dad because a few days ago he went to New York without letting my mom know (he works there he didn't run off). Then like a day later my mom went to go pick up my brother somewhere and my dad thought they were just going to the highschool to pick him up but then they went to another town to another town. My dad didn't know that and he had a meeting to go to so he told me to tell my mom when she came home. Well a couple hours later my brother calls and is like "Tell dad we're coming home now and that we're sorry we were so late," and I'm like dad is not here why didn't you call eailer. Well anyway I got mad and my brother put my mom on the phone and I'm like "You can't be mad at dad anymore for not telling you where he was going," and she got mad and didn't say anything so i apologized and sahe just said bye. Now I think my mom is mad at me and my question is how do I get her to forgive me? Thank you I'll rate fives just for reading this. (link)
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i think you should just appoligize for saying that to her and then ask her if theres any extra chores or stuff you can do for her. don't mention the thing about the comment that you made earlier to her. try to help her out around the house and anything else you can do for her. i dont think shes gonna be mad at you, it will blow over. shes probably stressed out from taking your brother places and then comes home with your dad not there. it can be very stressful.
hope i helped
~stef~
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I KNOW IT IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ AND HELP
ok here is the thing my parents have been divorced for 8 years now and my dad got remarried like 2 years ago and i am fine wit that bcuz i like his wife. But now my mom has started datin this guy that is 18 years younger then her and i don't like him like at all and what makes me really mad is that my family is straped for money and there r some things i NEED and my mom goes and buys the guy random expensive gift just bcuz he likes it. And she drives 2 hours back and forth 2 pick him up just 2 spend the night wit him and "talk" (he doesn't have a car right now) and that is wastin alot of our money in gas. just how can i tell my mom how i feel and isn't that ur parents should have u kids approve of the person 2 cuz if ur kids don't like them then how will that work. someone help what can i do, say or nething? sometime i just wanna runaway cuz she pisses me off sooo much HELP!!!! (link)
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talk to ur mom about it. she needs to know how u feel about this. if she really loves him in some situations u may not be able to do anything. hope i helped ~stef~
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ok well my mom is getting sruvery tomorrow..a historectory..how ever you spell it..and like I'm really scared for her but like we're fighint because I failed my geography test and my teacher called my mom and told her and now we're fighting..and I'm scared something might happen to her and we'll be fighting..she said I'm grounded for 2 weeks and like I can't..like I have a life a big one...like I do stuff everyday with people..and my mom is always saying how she misses me because I'm never home or I'm talking on the phone or on the computer..and like I try to spend time with her but we always end up fighting..I just want to spend more time with her but have a life too..and I wanna get out of this fight before tomorrow because shes leaving for the hospital tomorrow at 5:00am and I'm not gonna see her..I'm soo scared that somethings gonna happened and we're gonna be fighting..please help..I'm sitting here crying cause I'm soo scared..I'll rate high! (link)
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u need to talk to ur mom and no matter wht if u wanna get out of this fight then u should tell her tht u were wrong (even if u werent) b/c then u wont be in a fight anymore. tell her ur scared 4 her but not 2 scared bc u dont wanna get her worried. jus make sure u make up b4 she leaves. hope i helped ~steph~
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