Question Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:24 pm
ok well my mom is getting sruvery tomorrow..a historectory..how ever you spell it..and like I'm really scared for her but like we're fighint because I failed my geography test and my teacher called my mom and told her and now we're fighting..and I'm scared something might happen to her and we'll be fighting..she said I'm grounded for 2 weeks and like I can't..like I have a life a big one...like I do stuff everyday with people..and my mom is always saying how she misses me because I'm never home or I'm talking on the phone or on the computer..and like I try to spend time with her but we always end up fighting..I just want to spend more time with her but have a life too..and I wanna get out of this fight before tomorrow because shes leaving for the hospital tomorrow at 5:00am and I'm not gonna see her..I'm soo scared that somethings gonna happened and we're gonna be fighting..please help..I'm sitting here crying cause I'm soo scared..I'll rate high!
Go to whatever room you're mom's in and hug her tell her you love her, and you are sorry you are never home and want to spend more time with her. Then spend the rest of the evening with her.
Tomorrow when she get's hope be helpful. If she says something that bugs u, try not to let it get to you.
Jeanettessn answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 6:08 pm: I advise that you sit down with your mother tonight. You should put off your schedule for one night and try to sort through this with her. Maybe you can collectively make a schedule or a night one or twice a week when you dedicate all your time to each other.
As for the fighting part, try to tell your mother what is bothering you in a mature fashion. If you speak to her as an adult, she is more likely to treat you with respect as well.
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:52 pm: The best way is to just talk to her. Who cares if your in a fight just go up to her and give her a big hug and tell her "I don't want to fight anymore..." Moms LOVE their daughters and I doubt that she will turn away from you tell her you'll be thinking/praying about her surgery tomorrow. You just have to be the one to show her you care :)
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frenchfries21 answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:50 pm: u need to talk to ur mom and no matter wht if u wanna get out of this fight then u should tell her tht u were wrong (even if u werent) b/c then u wont be in a fight anymore. tell her ur scared 4 her but not 2 scared bc u dont wanna get her worried. jus make sure u make up b4 she leaves. hope i helped ~steph~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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