Question Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:28 pm
ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Briht_knee_89 answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 8:56 pm: uhm.. go and see him without her!!!! i used to go and visit my X boyfriend all the time just me.. and he always had friends over, so it wasnt akward or nething.. so maybe u shud tell him that u wanna do sumthin, and he shud bring sum friend along so that things rnt akward for you guys. im not trying to be mean, but maybe if u guys go and do sumthin this weekend without ur friend, then that would b a good thing. b/c u cud get used to not having her around, and maybe see him more when shes in trouble. well i hope i helped! have a GREAT halloween! *toodles* '`* brittany [ Briht_knee_89's advice column | Ask Briht_knee_89 A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 8:34 pm: Just go without her, and have a good time. Don't stop yourself from seeing someone yuu like because of your friends. Have fun. Hope ii helped.
Michelley answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 7:09 pm: GO SEE HIM! Because it's your relationship not hers and she can't stop you. She might be mad but its your boyfriend!!! Just go and if she gets mad thats her own frickin problem...if shes your friend she'll understand
=) HoPe I HeLpEd! [ Michelley's advice column | Ask Michelley A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 7:00 pm: just go see him! YOU shouldnt be grounded because SHE is!! n hes your boyfriend and how often you see him is entirely up to you! have fun and have a great halloween!!! [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
Strawberriilova92 answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 6:22 pm: Hey Hun!
You sound liek a really sweet friend.
I would want to see my boyfriend too, but I would stick with my friend. Because sistaz before mistaz. You know?
Well any other problems seem to appear im me @ strawberrilova92
Jeanettessn answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 6:03 pm: Your friend is obviously controlling. You need to decide if your friendship or relationship needs more of your attention at the current time.
Maybe she is uncomfortable with her family member going out with her friend. I advise that you confront her about this and get a straight answer. Once you have spoken and considered what she said, then you can decide whether to wait for her to go visit him or not.
piink_x0_shad0w answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:53 pm: well..he is YOUR boyfriend, you should talk to her and say "since you cant go see him with me, im gonna havta go by my self beucase i want to see MY boyfrend". and if she has a problem with it juss say well i cant be waiting around for you to get out of trouble i need to see him! thats what i would do because its not your fault shes always in trouble so why should you be punished for what she did? i hope i helped=]
frenchfries21 answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:47 pm: if i were u id rather go c him without anyone there anyway. but if u usually go together then i think it would be ok to go without her juss as long as u tell her first. hope i helepd ~steph~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
*tasha* answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:41 pm: Hey!If hes YOUR boyfriend then I think that you should go...you dont ALwAYS need your friend their holdin your hand while you guys are together..I'd make sure it was ok with my friend and if it was I'd go see him. GOOD LUCK!
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