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My mom was mad at my dad because a few days ago he went to New York without letting my mom know (he works there he didn't run off). Then like a day later my mom went to go pick up my brother somewhere and my dad thought they were just going to the highschool to pick him up but then they went to another town to another town. My dad didn't know that and he had a meeting to go to so he told me to tell my mom when she came home. Well a couple hours later my brother calls and is like "Tell dad we're coming home now and that we're sorry we were so late," and I'm like dad is not here why didn't you call eailer. Well anyway I got mad and my brother put my mom on the phone and I'm like "You can't be mad at dad anymore for not telling you where he was going," and she got mad and didn't say anything so i apologized and sahe just said bye. Now I think my mom is mad at me and my question is how do I get her to forgive me? Thank you I'll rate fives just for reading this.
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Ok. Your parents are arguing because they aren't seeing a lot of eachother at the moment. It's not because they don't love eachother anymore, its just the frustration with not being able to be together at the moment. I get that with my boyfriend as we study in different places and we argue just because we aren't talking face to face and its really frustrating. Your mum is just angry because she thinks you think its all her fault. You just need to let her know that you rally hate the arguing and that she and your dad need to sort out a day when they know they can spend some time together. Its also difficult around this time of year too, getting ready for Christmas etc.. don't worry, what's going on is nothing serious and if anything your Mum was probably taking it out on you because she was angry at herself for forgetting your dad had to go to work. She probably felt really guilty as soon as she put the phone down. Don't worry!!
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She's not mad at you. If you read between the lines, you started to argue first because your parents fights were pissing you off. Your mom is probley just very worried about the three of you. She asks where her husband is, she picks up her son in an other town, and she worried that you are getting agitated with her. Its all in good love! Hakuna Matata, shes not mad at you!
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your parents need to go to someone to learn how to communicate...ok they get a zero for not telling each other where tehy are.
this is not your fault..you are the child..it is up to the PARENTS to inform each other.
I think your mom is really mad at herself. Both your parents are relly childish in the way they do things.
She should have called earlier and he should have told her he was going out of town.
Listen..i think there is more going on in your parents life than they let on..hello they are married TALK TO EACH other.
it is not OUR job to carry messages...
show your mom this..i am a mom...call your husband..it is only polite and caring to let your PARTNER know things. Dad...never EVER go out of town even on business without telling your wife.
and KEEP YOUR CHILDREN out of this..they are kids..not a messenger service.
am sorry for being so harsh..but your parents need a wake up call..to each other!!!
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i can hardley read this its so boring make it shorter jk!shell forgive u if u dont talk to her 4 a while. that allways works on parents
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Well, ok you need to appologize to her again and again until she *Finally* gives in. She just needs to understand what your coming from. Ya know? You gotta* let her know what you really meant. But if she doesn't forgive just leave her be for a while and she will come to you and forgive you sooner or later. I mean come on she's a mom she can't be madd at you forever. It's her job to always be there for you. Hope I helped! Good Luck With Your Mom! :)
Shannon
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Well, you kind of disrespected her by telling her what to do in the situation with your dad. Just tell her that you are sorry about interferring and that you won't do it again etc.
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ok, first you need hear her side of it. Then explain the situation to her, then just ask for her forgiveness but wait a little while just incase she is not ready.
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aWwH hun .. it sucks when your mom is mad at you! wEll.. when me and my mOm argue or i FeeL LikE shEs mad at me i juSt say " hEy mom soRry foR whAT i said eArLiEr .. i hOpe yoUr not maD aT mE" anD tHEn huG hEr .it SounDs kiNda likE a "suckuP" tyPA tHinG bUt iT usuAlly woRks.. hOpE i hELpEd ! gOod LucK ! [xO_hEAthER]
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Hi Sweetie,
I understand what kind of frustration you caused your mother by saying that. However mothers are not like us immature people (let's face it, most children and teenagers are not very mature when it comes to dealing with their anger and things of that relation). Your mother was probably just feeling frustrated or got angry at the thought of forgiving your father for what he did (which, by the way, was irresponsible). But I am sure she does not put any blame on you. She is not angry at you. It seemed like it because you mentioned she should forgive your father. Still, it would be nice to apologyze. Tell her you are sorry for what you said and tell her you love her and give her a hug. Then say something like "I'm going to clean my room" or "do my homework". L.O.L. It works. Although, still, mothers do not get angry at their children. Dissapointed, maybe.
My best wishes!!! ~Blessed Be...
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just say sorry for being so inconsiderate and just tell her what you feel. if u really want to make up, then you'll be honest and tell her what needs to be said. but if u just want her to be niced and dont really want to apologize, then that wont help since that'll be straight out lying.
**_Nicole_**
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i think you should just appoligize for saying that to her and then ask her if theres any extra chores or stuff you can do for her. don't mention the thing about the comment that you made earlier to her. try to help her out around the house and anything else you can do for her. i dont think shes gonna be mad at you, it will blow over. shes probably stressed out from taking your brother places and then comes home with your dad not there. it can be very stressful.
hope i helped
~stef~
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