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My sister is almost 16 and going through this stage where she thinks shes better than everyone, especially me. She's always pushing me around.. and everything she says to me is some sort of comment to bring me down. She mocks me and tells me to shut the f*** up and all this other inappropriate stuff for NO reason. I just ignore her, because its stupid to even bother arguing with someone as immature as her. But sometimes i get so mad, I just want to punch her in the face and put her in her place. I've talked to my parents and they know that she THINKS she's so hot. I cant ignore her any longer, im sick of her thinking she has the right to walk over me. (And my brothers and sisters.) How do I stand up? And dont tell me to sit down and talk to her. You dont understand - this girl will NOT listen that way.
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I know what your talking about, and guess what, this is what teen age does to us, it changes us completely, and the worst part, is when it changes us at home, with our family and how we treat our younger siblings. Its a phase and she'll get through it, she probably thinks that like that she's acting mature and responsible and as an elder sister, but she's not, and who's fault it is, is your parents,no offense meant, they should do something about it, because she wouldn't listen to anyone but them, and if they seriously do not tell her something about her attitude right now,she'll just get worse, tell me about it, if they leave her like that, eventually it'll become a part of her, and she'll treat everyone like that, even your parents in the very end, and they won't be able to do anything about it then.
So sit and talk with your parents again, not her, and tell them how you feel, and how she's way past the limits, so that next time when she does something, they should talk to her about it, and really put a limit to this, and don't make them feel like you want to put your sister in trouble, but tell them in a way that you care for her, and for her to not turn into some kind of monster, where you and your siblings would just eventually grow to dislike her and not talk to her .You don't want that to happen. And if you can even have your other siblings on your side agreeing with you while you talk to your parents, that would make your parents realize that this is really getting out of hand, so they would take an action.
But i want to tell you that in the very end, your sister is your sister, she's probably very kind at heart and a very sweet person, and i know that no matter what she does, you will still love her all the same, but its just a phase i promise, she's overwhelmed by her age and the elder position she's in, and especially if she's hot and popular and usually has the spotlight wherever she goes, it usually makes people proud and obnoxious, and instead of appreciating it, they abuse it.
Hope i helped,please be free to contact me if you need anything else. Best of luck :D
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All I can say is don't give her the attention she wants. When she say something realy un-called-for don't say anything back just ack like you didn't hear her ack like you don't care then she will see it don't bother you. Next when she call you take long time to come or tell here to hold don't come as soon cuz then she will feel like she got you like that. When she walks in the house or any room ack like you didn't see her she's not even there. So basicly don't give her what see wants make it clear she just like the others no different k and good luck friend any other ?s jus ask me.......C.L.N bye
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Well..in order to have someone as stubborn as her..you have to show her how she is acting by acting the same way she is..besides -- the saying 'treat people the way you would be treated' has totally been screwed up in her brain!!
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*Elysa
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ok first take a deep breath and take a chill pill. ok, r u done with that....good. ok, now, i think that if it bothers you so much then keep ignoring her but in a diffrent way. like sing a song(i know a song that gets on everybodys nerves) to let her know that she is annoying but to give her the idea that she cant get in your head. well, i hope it helped.
cookierat123
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I know it would be easier to punch her in her face but thats not the way to go. Argue it out with her. But before you do that think of some Comebacks incase she tries to insult you like, SHUT UP YOUR STUPID NOBODY LIKES YOU HOMO!lol I would scream yell do whatever ask her what the heck her problem is and if she wont shut up tell her to. You need to put her in her place. I hope you win and hope this helps.
CrzyLatinaChc
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tell her to stop messing with you because it just makes her look like an asshole. eventually its gonna come back and get her. i understand the feeling but theres just not really much you can do about it. good luck,
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