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the bruuunettte.. i am 18 years old. i have been through plenty for my age, so i know what pretty much everything is like. i don't care about ratings, i will answer your question completely honest, and if you don't like it && rate me a 1, i will laugh. it does not phase me. if you're not serious, please do not waste my time. if my advice is not something you like to hear, well too bad, you asked me and that's what i had to say. i am a really [[nice]] girl. i promise. i can give really good advice or really stupid advice if you give me a stupid question. but i guarantee i can help you. just ask! =]



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advice

i need a cuddle buddy at this time of the year..it makes me sad seein all the couples together =( but whenever me and my friends hang out they are so much more outgoing than me that it kind of intimidates me..like if they arent very outgoing then i am but if they are im not..how can i flirt with these guys when they are also flirting with my other friends..sometimes it makes me jealous..cuz i like alot of attention..like looks and stuff from boys..but yeah im sorta shy at first and im not one to just go up and give hugs or sit close to someone unless they start it..how can i help this. because if i flirt with them im scared they will be like what the heck are you doing..get away from me. also what are some good ways to flirt..im not very good at it hahaha it sucks. well thanks!

well...
i mean if you like attention then you have to show people you do! you cant be shy and quiet you have to be loud and fun! and just let them know whose the life of the party! hahahah well yeah and if a boy does start flirting with you then dont turn it down..flirt back!
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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
haha thank you dear
xoxox

well first off,
you CANT be shy if you want to get with a guy who supposably "gets some" from girls.. so maybe you can have a friend that knows him introduce you guys and just talk to him keep in touch... and if you are that shy ask one of your friends to ask for him number so you can call eachother for the 2 weeks you wont see him... i mean you dont know if he doesnt know you exist.. he could be thiking the exact same thing about you! =) you never know...so just talk to him and see how things work out... tell me what happens tomorrow!!
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so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked my him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..ad then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love

well if he like pushes you around i dont think thats flirting... i think if the girl does that to a guy then thats more like flirting.. mostly what guys do to flirtis they are always asking you "can i have a hug" or telling you that you look hott or something like that! but im not sure if he doesnt like you either he may be the sarcastic type but idk.. maybe you should see what happens omorrow or something and then tell me what happens!

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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?

well i mean you could talk to him for her..and tell him all the good things about her and if he starts to flirt with you then you should be HONEST and be like ok well i think your cute in all but i dont want to hurt my friend because i know how much she likes you and so on and so forth and if you cant get them together then i mean you tried and you cant blame yourself ...
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so like all the girls hang out with guys..and i never dooO! i wanna but i never have the courage to be like oh yeah we should hang out sometime..i would feel stupid and afraid of rejection..how can i like ask a guy to do something..or even with a group of friends? i dont even like start talking to a guy first usually..they talk to me first and if they dont i dont talk to them..this is a problem! help!!

ok.. well first of all if you want to hang out with a guy or do something you cant be shy.. which it seeems you are because you are afraid to ask.. trust me the girls who talk to the guys are more couragable.. and its not hard to do it... like if you are good friends with the person or watever just be like so what are you doing this weekend.. and if he automatically says hes doing something the whollleee weekend.. then you know he doesnt wanna hang out with you... but if hes like oh nothing or idont know yet just be like oh well a bunch of us should all hang out this weekend.. something like that! dont be afraid!
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Anyone know how to french kiss? Im a fourteen year old girl whos frenching someone for the first time today please help!!!I rate high :c)

uHm juSt Go WiTh tHe fLow. iTSz nOt EVEn HaRd. GoD lUcK bAbESz. XoOXoxOXoXOoXo aLl YoU rEeLy Do iSz MoVe YoUr ToNgUe. gO AlOnG WItH hiM.!!! XOXOXOXOOXO OX AMBER OX OXOOXOXOXOX

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Ok, so I've really liked this guy for 3 years but I've never talked to him. *Everytime I have it's been like my friend (she has known him all her life) talking to him and me just kinda standing there. And that was about 2 years ago* How would you just like start talking to him or what would I say? I know the most obvious answer is to start talking to him when my friend does but they dont talk really anymore. Please help.

JUSt tAlk tO hiM!! COME ON dONt bE ShY!!! tUffEN UP!! =)

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I like this girl and we used to go out.
we had something really special before but some shit happened and the relationship went sour.
She had a b/f when we were dating. She doesn't have the some feeling for me anymore but i still like her. I think she borke up with her b/f now and going out with other guy.
I really like her but i don't think i should still thinking about her.
Anyone knows how can i forget about a girl who i like a lot???

thAtS likE iMPOSSiblE. YOU CANt fORGEt AbOUt thE PERSON YOU likE AlOt. MAYBE it WAS MEANt tO bE. tRY tAlkiNG tO HER.. tEll hER hOW YOU fEEl. ♥

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I told my friend that i loved him. I wrote him a letter and basicly told him that I loved him and that even though we can't be together now I hope in the future we can be more than friends. (he moved to NC) Well he wrote me back and said cool. and then he's been ignoring me for the past two weeks. Well tonight I had a new sn on aim. and I IMed his sister..obviously thinking it was her lol. and he was like this is justin. and all I could say was "oh" and so he was like "oh. that's what i am to you!" he really confuses me. I mean if he liked me the same as I like him why won't he say it?! when i had a bf and it old him he said "we can't have a long distant relationship?" and when he lived up here by me. we would be close and hug and sometimes kiss each other on the cheek. i just don't know what's happening with this. I'm fine with us being close friends but I can't stand him acting like that. what should I do? we never really talk anymore. and it seems like he doesn't want me to every talk to him. and it makes me sad to know I'll never talk to him agian.

maybe he`s n0t ready f0r "l0ve" right n0w. just take things sl0w and just talk t0 him as y0u w0uld if y0u never said u l0ve him. just as friends.. and if there is signs that hes starting t0 like y0u.. then y0u kn0w see if he tells y0u. but l0ng distant relati0nships are n0t fun. y0u never see him, y0u d0nt kn0w if hes cheating 0n y0u, at least if he lived by y0u, tnen y0u w0uld at least get t0 see him.. ♥

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i have been seeing my ex on and off for 3yrs.we were going out steady for 2yrs and i dumped him. hes messed me about really bad i realy like him still and he wants to try again, but i dont no what to do. female 18yrs old! dave is 22.

y0u c0uld be m0re specific. uhhm. g0 back 0ut with him. i d0nt kn0w. ♥

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Hey I need some help.. I am getting sent away soon and I am like in love with my boyfriend.. he is in a boys homeand I'm afraid I am never gonna get to see him again. I am afraid to tell him how I feel.. then there is this new girl coming to our school and she wants to hook up with him and he likes her too... i dont want to leave.. because I don't want to lose him.. please help.. i dont want to lose my baby boi

be hOnest, tell him hOw yOu feel, and bitch slap the Other girl.. THATS YOUR MAN!! ♥

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Ok well i came on a trip to my cuzins house and i met his friend Robie well Robie is very cute and now i am going out wit him.Well that is all good and all for while i am here but ten again i live in California and he lives in Oklahoma. I am afraid that this is not going to work out but i want it to sooooo bad because i hella like him but what should i do i am considering moving back here but idk if i can so please help me!!!

well.. d0nt m0ve.. because what if y0u guys drift apart? then y0u may be leaving y0ur 0ther friends.. just talk t0 him 0n ph0ne, internet, y0u kn0w things like that.. d0nt w0rry im sure it will all w0rk 0ut in the end!
xox ambs xox

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I want to call the guy i like to hang out but we never talk on the phone or hang out. he cant go online eaither cuz his comps broken. He has a girlfriend but shes away and he might breakup with her. Were really good friends but i have no idea what to do!Sam/13/f

i think that y0u sh0uld wait until they`re c0mpletely br0ken up! i think it`s just wr0ng t0 d0 that. alth0uqh i have kind 0f been in that s0rt 0f situati0n and trust me its n0t pretty! well s0rry if i didn`t help.!!
xox ambs xox

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?

yes! you should shave it! all girls should shave.. but i mean if you dont feel like you need to then dont..!! its up to u :)

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I'm in love with this kid..but he doesn't know who I am...and I'm really shy so it isn't helping...hoe can I get him to notice me?

well..nothing is going to happen if he doesnt know u..maybe u should start talking to him..hopefully u will get to know eachother!! or hang out in the same group that he hangs out at maybe u can start to talk..dont be shy!! ;-)

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Hey Amber...
well okay i have this problem..i like this guy but he likes my best friend..and im not sure if i should move on...its really hard..have you ever felt like this??? please if you could help that would be great!! thanx your awesome!!!!!!!! xoxo

...well..i would move on..hes not worth ur time..if helikes ur best friend then just 4 get about ir..yes i have felt like that b for it sounds pretty familiar..just do whatever makes u happy!!!!!!!

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