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so like all the girls hang out with guys..and i never dooO! i wanna but i never have the courage to be like oh yeah we should hang out sometime..i would feel stupid and afraid of rejection..how can i like ask a guy to do something..or even with a group of friends? i dont even like start talking to a guy first usually..they talk to me first and if they dont i dont talk to them..this is a problem! help!!
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ok.. well first of all if you want to hang out with a guy or do something you cant be shy.. which it seeems you are because you are afraid to ask.. trust me the girls who talk to the guys are more couragable.. and its not hard to do it... like if you are good friends with the person or watever just be like so what are you doing this weekend.. and if he automatically says hes doing something the whollleee weekend.. then you know he doesnt wanna hang out with you... but if hes like oh nothing or idont know yet just be like oh well a bunch of us should all hang out this weekend.. something like that! dont be afraid!
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Oh man. At first i HATED doing that. I got one of my girlfriends do ask for me =). But then later on, i would be talking to this one guy & just be like "Hey you want to eat lunch with us, me and my friends?" Don't feel stupid. Every girl probably went through this. You don't have to make it so like..dramatic. lOl. You can just simply ask him. You can also ask him with your friend beside you and you can make her ask him & just be like "Yea you should!" . Go with a group first. Then talk to him the most when your in a group, then he'll feel comfortable with you, and probably willing to do anything one-on-one. Remember that guys like confident girls. If you talk to a guy first, and end up having a really GREAT conversation, he'll say Hi to you in the hallways or when you see him. I know. =). Don't be shy please!! I know it's you, but you need to be more outgoing (not sounding rude i hope =). Don't worry about rejection. Ask another guy! Lol. Everything will turn out great if you just be confident.
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First of all, you need to build up some confidence. Without that, you will never be able to talk to guys & meet new people. Don't be afraid to talk to them. They are just people, and they won't think anything bad about you by just saying heyy!! Be flirty! Guys love that and it will make you feel more comftrable if you just had fun talking to them. Just go up to some guys with your friends. You might fell better if you're not the only one. Just relax. :)
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