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okay well my boyfriend and i just like started dating or whtever.And like when he asked me out and everything i really really liked him.. well after like a couple of days i kinda had a weird feeling and like i didnt really like him anymore.. so i asked a couple of people what they thought about us and like if i should break up with him, cuz like i was ignoring his calls and i really didnt want to talk to him.. well like after a while i was gonna tell him that i just wanted us to be friends.. and so i waited for his call, and waited and waited.. well he never ever called and like i tried calling but no one answered.. well like now i realy do like him i guess i was just scared i would get hurt so i was pushing him away..well i duont know whats wrong, i dont know if hes mad at me and like he hasnt called in like 3 weeks and theres no other way i could talk to him.. so what should i do and is he mad at me... i am soo sooo confused.. please help me i really like him... and i dont want to lose him and he wont answer his phone so i dunno.. thnks soo soo srry for the length.. **hearts** (link)
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well, are you sure you like him? because you know the saying "you only want something you cant have" maybe you only think you like him because you tried calling him but he wont call you back. and hes probably hurt that you never called so that might be why he hasnt called. i'd say talk to one of his friends if you can or get one of your friends to talk to him. see whats up with him. and if you cant do that, keep calling because you guys really do need to talk. tell him you're sorry and you just went through a really weird phase and you never meant to hurt him if you did. it also could be true that you were pushing him away, but you never know what might happen unless you're willing to try. hope i helped. and if you need anything just ask. i'd be happy to help.
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well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better?? (link)
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just remember to be nice about it. tell him you're sorry but you dont feel the same way he does. and thought its not the best way, i find it easier to talk to people online. tell him you still want to be friends but you just dont feel the same way. hope i helped. good luck.
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I have a very good friend lets call "steve" and i have liked more than a friend for a while now..he's 18 and i'm 14 and i really really wanna take this friendship to another level..we both flirt with each other and we've kissed each other before to..but the thing is..is that he has a girlfriend and i don't know what should i do..should i tell him how i feel or just leave it be? (link)
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well, i thinks its always good to tell someone how you fell. i mean if you don't, you never know what might have happened if you just had told them. you know? but also keep in mind that you're not leagal. thought it might not matter to him. just tell him how you feel and i hope everything works out. good luck.
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can i just ask you people a question....
how old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend and your first kiss?????
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first boyfriend, i was 13
first kiss, i was 14
first makeout, i was 14 then too
i dunno if this will help but i've had 4 boyfriends and im 16 now
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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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sure, no problem. it does sound to me like he likes you. try talking to his friend and just ask him why he stares at you all the time. i was always afraid to ask so i had a friend do it for me. until one time i just told the guy flat out that i liked him and we started going out within a few weeks and we've been together for almost 2 years. you could either get a friend to ask him, or his friend. and about the information on how to tell if a guy likes you, staring at you seems to be one way. also, if he can confide in you it means he can trust you and you atleast mean something to him. wheather it be more than a friend or as a good friend. also if he flirts with you, like teasing for example. i've talked to some guys and they say they tease the girls they like. no matter how immiture it may seem to girls, its what they do. i just asked my friend and he said "tell them there good looking and just give simple hints" but thats just the way he does it. every guy is differnt. hope i helped. i dont want to take up too much of your time but if you need anything else my sn is blinkbabe2469. i'll be happy to help. and i wont say anything to anyone so no worries about that if thats a problem.
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ok so i have had boyfriends before but they all turned out to be jerks i was just wondering if any one knew any body or something that might want to date a 13 year old girl brown hair/eyes and a great personality because i really want to find some one (link)
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i dont think that just dating anyone who is willing to date you is a good idea. you have pleanty of time to have boyfriends. i never got my first boyfriend until i was your age. and since then i've only have four and im 16 now. if your patient, you'll have plenty of guys. just be patient and they will come to you. never settle for less than you deserve. hope i helped. and you'll find someone, i promise.
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im 14 and a girl. I have a brother who failed a few times but he is 17. I have a tendency to date older guys. Right now i like this guy Chris and he told me that he liked me too. but there are 2 problems. he is 16 and he is my brothers friend. I dont kno weither or not to give him a chance or like put his life in danger. my brother is very protective and crazy. + i dont go to school with Chris till next year. what should i do??
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well for one, how would you put his life in danger? and if you like him, tell your brother. hes friends with him so he knows him, plus you're his sister so he knows whats good for you. sit your brother down and tell him how you feel about eachother. tell him you wanted to let him know first before you did anything, which will make your brother take it more easily rather than supprising him about it. hope i helped.
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Do you HAVE to be pretty to get a boyfriend? Because in my school, some guys act like they NEED to find the prettiest girl in the world and they be calling almost evry girl ugly... (link)
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deffinitly deffinitly not true. most of the prettiest girls(k well guys think so anyway) are total bitches. the guys in your school are immiture. its the presonality that counts. hope i helped any.
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this guy has liked me for practically two years now, but hes so shy and he never did anything except tell me he liked me. well now we've got this big dance coming up and i think hes gonna ask me. the only thing is that he is kinda weird and listens to all those really sick songs by sublime..no offense to the fans out there..but he is still really cute and mysterious..and really nice..do you think i should give him a chance? i rate... (link)
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sure why not? you say hes nice and cute. just give him a change, its only 1 dance and if you dont have a good time, you're friends will be there too. so its not like you're alone with him eather. its a group thing.from my experience (and me being one) the quietest/shy people are the ones with the most to say. maybe he'll open up to you so he wont be so mysterious anymore. but its your choice. hope i helped.
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This guy in my class hates me. I like him a lot, and he used to like me. I don't know why he doesn't like me anymore. I can't eat, i can't sleep, and i can't think about anything but him.... he's everything to me and i know that guys will run if u say that to them so no one knows but me how i feel. I told him i really liked him but he just told me to fuck off. He's constantly making fun of me and i don't know what to do. Everytime he makes fun of me it hurts me really bad and there's nothing i can do about it it seems.... last week i was in the bathroom crying because of what he said. Yet, i still like him for some odd reason someone please help!!!! (link)
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dont worry, this happened to me before. i know you like him a lot, and it is hard to deal with. me, i moved on. but i dont want to tell you that he likes you because that might not be the case, which my frends did to me. but it also might be the case. just try not to seem like he bothers you, or make a comment back to him. if you do want to do that and you need help with saying something back, just leave one in my inbox. im sorry this happened to you. he might admit that he likes you, but dont let him run your life. surround yourself with friends and try not to think about him. trust me i know its hard. but everything happens for a reason. hope i helped.
~Kare
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months this guy jake all of the sudden starts liking me and all of my friends are telling me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with jake because jake seems way nicer and that he would treat me better. they say this because my boyfriend is kind of scared to make the first move and its fine im not in no big hurry but jake n i were talking and he said that my boyfriend doesnt give me what i want and he was talking about .. you know.. well c i dont know if jake only likes me for that or because of my personality and stuff and he said i was awesome n nice ? help (link)
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dont let your friends tell you who to be with. if your happy with your boyfriend than dont listen to your friends. if i listened to my friends i wouldnt have been in a relationship thats 1 1/2 years and still going. and im happier than i ever was. dont let anyone tell you who to date. do what you feel is right. hope i helped any.
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ok, so i meet this guy online. i know what you are thinking....oohhh how dangerous, he could be a murderer...but hes not. i've talked to his friends and i know almost everything about him. i even quizzed him to make sure. he has become one of my really good friends. we always talk when he's online, but im not allowed to call him anymore. i always feel myself missing him when he isnt online, and i crave to talk to him so much. i think i like him, but i havent seen a picture of him, let alone seen his face. i live in new york and he lives in canada. i always talk about him, and it really annoys my friends. i know he is single, but how do i tell him i like him?? we always flirt...its obvious really, but i dont know how he feels about me. (link)
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well i met my boyfriends online, though he was a friend of my friend. but i feel in love with him before i saw his pic. im still in love with him. you cant help who you like. if you want to know if he likes you, either ask him yourself(if he flirts with you like you say then its most likely that he does like you) or ask one of his friends. the distance thing might bother you though. but you should deffinitly try. hope i helped.
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I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time? (link)
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well everyone's different. one guy might be perfect for your friend but not for you. and you can date anyone you want to. dont let people tell you otherwise. its your choice not theirs. and people look for guys in different ways. do what you think is right. this might be confusing, but friends will help you out too. take me for example, my friend tryed to protect me from this one guy im dating. and i understand that she was protecting me, but my feeling for him were much stronger. so im still with him and we've been goin out for 1 1/2 yrs. he has hurt me a few times, but i love him too much to leave him. friends will be there to protect you. good luck and i hope i helped any.
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Alright, I moved to this town 3 years ago.. and before i moved her. My bestfriend had just broken up with her bf [Ian] of 4 years, and the next day he started going out with her cousin for 2. I secretly liked him but kept in a secret because i didnt wanna ruin there relationship, but the summer before 9th grade they broke up. I KNEW THIS WAS MY CHANCE. So we started talking alot more, and i slept over his house.. like twice. & we started going to party's together, and basketball games. We were in love & everything was great, untill about 6 months had gone by and i felt like we were never going to go out. so i started talking to a new boy, we went out for like a month and broke up because he told everyone i was just a booty call. But now me and Ian are talking again, and hes all ive been thinking of and im just scared to get back into the relationship with him, But i cant stay away from him at the same time. I dont know if i should give up... Or try one more time
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i'd say dont give up. you never know what could happen. and dont wait for him to ask you out, you ask him out.guys dont always want to be the one to make the move. hope i helped any. good luck.
~Kare
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My ex-boyfriend and I both told each other we loved each other. He doesn't want to get back together because he has issues that doesn't seem to go away. It's along the same reasons we broke up. Should I wait until he gets over them or just get over him? I really love him, and he seems to care about me. (link)
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well you could try to help him through his issues and show him how much you care about him. but when you love someone, its hard to get over. do what you think is right.
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ok theres a birthday party tonight.. this one kid (john) likes me alot.. hes nice and really cute but he can be obnoxious and makes up stuff alot.. theres this other kid(tom) who i like as a good friend.. and he doesnt like john and him finding out that i hooked up with john will make him mad.. i might like tom more than a friend.. and john wants to do something tonight with me (make out).. ive never kissed a guy before.. and i dont know which one i want to kiss.. and i dont know how to kiss! please help! (link)
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i've worried about kissing too. like my friend told me"it just comes to you" i never believed him and worried about it anyway. it really does just come to you. just dont worry about it and try not to act nervous so he cant tell that you are. good luck and dont worry.
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what does it mean to be "pushy"? (link)
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it means to tell people what to do or force them to do something.
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i usually don't fall for guys different race than I am but there is this guy and he's mexican and im just crazy about him its the biggest crush i ever had!!! i wrote him a note saying that i think he's hott but he never wrote back... the note was his idea too... hes kinda flirty but he shows no interest in any gurls plus i have a feeling that this other gurl likes him and shes mexican so im afraid hell like her more ayayay!!!! wat do i do?? and i think hes gettin his schedual changed and we have 3 classes together if he gets it changed ill just die...!!!! im a f 15 (link)
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well, i dont think it matters what race a person is. if you like him, then you like him. you cant help who you like. and maybe if he changes his schedule he might have more classes with you, then again maybe not. you never know. if it is meant to happen it will, but everything happens for a reason. hope i helped any.
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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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i wouldnt worry about it. maybe he suddenly had to go be with family or something. try calling him again tomorrow. hope i helped
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My realy good friend went out with this boy but he broke up with her in three days. I've liked him since we were introduced (by my friend). My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me and the first person i thought about was my friends ex. im not looking for a rebound guy. i asked my friend and she says its ok and shes happy for me. Her ex already nos i like him. am i low? what else can i do? (link)
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i dont think you are, you cant help who you like. you're not supposed to. you would be if your friend wasnt ok with it and you went out with him anyway, but you're not doing that. so i dont see you as low. hope i helped.
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