im 14 and a girl. I have a brother who failed a few times but he is 17. I have a tendency to date older guys. Right now i like this guy Chris and he told me that he liked me too. but there are 2 problems. he is 16 and he is my brothers friend. I dont kno weither or not to give him a chance or like put his life in danger. my brother is very protective and crazy. + i dont go to school with Chris till next year. what should i do??
shortiebebe021 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 3:35 pm: it's fine for a 14 year old to date someone who's 16. that's actually pretty normal. but maybe you could talk to your brother ahead of time, just possibly warn him. if he's extremely against you going out with him, tell him it's not fair because you both like each other and if he still won't let you, maybe you and chris could date in secret. some people date secretly so you could try that with him. it really is unfair if your brother is keeping chris away from you, so you can do it without him knowing if you wanted to. or you could wait a while, you can't have much of a relationship with chris yet really, but next year you can because you'll go to his same school. good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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