My realy good friend went out with this boy but he broke up with her in three days. I've liked him since we were introduced (by my friend). My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me and the first person i thought about was my friends ex. im not looking for a rebound guy. i asked my friend and she says its ok and shes happy for me. Her ex already nos i like him. am i low? what else can i do?
Mexicanchic62820004 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 7:11 pm: You can't help it if you like your friends exboyfriend, so if she says that it's ok for you to go out with him then take a chance and go for it. Now if you don't want to hurt your friend then just decide who is more important to you, your friend or the guy that you like. That should help you choose what to do.
Miss_Megan answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:57 pm: Friends are more important then boyfriends. I no from personal expiriece that shes probably secretly mad. I wouldn't risk a friendship for a guy. [ Miss_Megan's advice column | Ask Miss_Megan A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:52 pm: i dont think you are, you cant help who you like. you're not supposed to. you would be if your friend wasnt ok with it and you went out with him anyway, but you're not doing that. so i dont see you as low. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
HotSexy09Babe answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:49 pm: You aren't low! But you do need to take action and talk to him and become close! That is the best thing! Just when you start becomin close to him watch out for your friend because friends will say that but not mean it so make sure that she isnt jealous or mad or nothin like that!! [ HotSexy09Babe's advice column | Ask HotSexy09Babe A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:15 pm: Youre not low at all! Trust me. Youre ex broke up with you, you have to remember that. I think if you were the one who broke up with him and you found a new guy really really fast, that would be kind of low, but it's not that situation right? Plus your friend even said that shes okay with it and shes even happy for you. The only thing is, I kinda think maybe that your [girl] friend might of just said that shes okay with it, etc, because she doesnt want to be sour about the whole thing. Talk to her about it again and make sure that its obvious that she relaly doesnt care about it. Then go for it! Great luck
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Mannie answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:05 pm: Dear Am I Low?,
No your not low.I think by the way you describe him you should go for him!Ask him out.Ask nicely or he will definetly say NO!
jamziix16 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:03 pm: okay, i went through this. she might not be happy with this. it's like a cardinal rule to not go out with ur friend's ex..! i did that to my friends bf, and she said she didn't care and she really did! i think that you should let him be, and find someone else. [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
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