about

hi, im marissa, and im HXC, and im a hippie, and im opinionated, and im fucking crazy. and i have gone through alot of shit in my life, so i have answers to some problems from personal expirence. im almost 16, but i want out of my house. im in a relationship, and its been going on for over a year. he means the world to me. i love my life, and i cherish it. but i do live on the edge, and i like to go fast. i know breaking laws is bad, but its like an addiction to me. i am the treasurer of my schools gay straight aliance, and i get alot of shit for it. but it dosent affect me. i havee alot of friends. and im with them 24'7. and i would not have it any other way. im always faced with tough decisions and fears... long story. but im a pretty interesting person.

advice

my boyfriend calls me sweetie and i wanna call him something like that. what are nicknames i can call him? i know there's baby, babe, honey. but what are others?


thanks.

um i have a couple nick names for my boyfriend. emo kid, uhbugaboo (lol), cowboy, or baby. lol. but um, some names my friends use are names like boo, cookie lips, huney bunches of oats (lol), dimpels, poochy, pookie, pop tart, goober, i cant think of any others. i hope i helped.

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my friend saw some girl on his profile on myspace
like the whole ilysfm jazz.
and i asked him why hed cheat on me.
and he said he isnt.
i dont know what to believe.
i even went on hers an she had his picture too saying how much SHE loves him.
i love him alot.
im really hurt.
i pretend to him that it was okay
[we didnt breakup]
i just pretended i was reassured.
why cant he be honest with me?
what do i do?
l:

it dosnt really sound like hes lying or cheating. but i would like talk to him. and if its at the point were you still dont believe him, dump him. you might love him, but if you cant trust him like that then i would think its not worth it. i would deff. talk to him like asap. like ask things like "would you cheat on me" and if he asks why jusst come up with something like "i was just wondering" or just ask him straight forward like... "have you ever liked her?" i hope i helped.

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I need some ideas on how to put the romance back into my relationship. We aren't how we used to be and I want that back. Ideas?

spend more time together.
surprising them with a gift or a night out.
talk to him about your feelings.
spend time on the phone talking.
do small things that make them laugh or smile.
i dont really know. everyone took most of my ideas. but i hoped i helped.

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what if you made out with a guy in party and when you were drunk is that slutty or what? this is your second or third time

um i dont think so. but people in my school think it is. i just would not do that tooo much.

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okay so i reallly like this boy in my class, and i;ve known him since like 2nd grade. and we are in 7th grade now. So he found out that i like him and he still acts like he;s my bestfriend and stuff. but idk if he likes me or not! help ):

hey. my friends acctauly going through something like this. and i always help her out with it. so i hope i can help. but i would try nd talk to him. and maybe as a joke be like "so who do you like." or have like a friend be like "so what do you think about her [and have her be you]." but it dosent sound like him knowing made him feel awkward. so thats good. i would just go with the flow. talk to him, maybe a little flirting. i hope i helped.

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I met a guy, 4 days later he asked if I'd like to hang out at his place, I said yes and went over, after watching movies for hours things got intimate, after he didn't want me to leave so I stayed. The next day he asked me over again so I went and stayed until quite late. And yet again the next day he invited me over and I ended up staying until late into the night. We've chatted on the phone and he's said things like thank-you for calling and that it was nice to hear from me. Am I setting myself up to get hurt or does it sound like he might genuinely be interested in pursuing something with me?

hey! i think it sounds like he likes you. but i would slow things down. maybe one day be like i cant call or i cant hang out. but it sounds like he is kinda setting you up to get hurt. cause you are spending so much time together;; but like what happens if you guys just split after spending that much time together. you might lose the friendship. try maybe not hanging out with him, or maybe hanging out with him with a group of friends. hope i helped.

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what is the best way to let a guy down gently that you like him only as a friend

yeah i think its easiest, or just be like im to stressed for a relationship. something like that; but i think just you wanna be friends is best

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what kind of moan do guys like to hear from a girl?
Like loud , or soft or no moan?

um honestly i think guys want a louder noise. but they do want a moan. but ussaully the louder it is, the better it feels. hope i helped.

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Wel, I have been dating this girl for 2 wks now, and we havent kist yet. and it will be my first time kissing, same as hers. i dont know when to do it or where. i dont know if my lips should be dry or wet. i dont know if t shoold be long kiss or short. plz help me.

hey. okay im like a make out addict so im going try and help :]. hope i help. okay well i like dry lips. try to have the first kiss be like 20 seconds or untill one of you pull away. and if you guys like it, go in for more. and when you kiss her, place your hands on her neck for the firts time, or just keep them to yourself. umm movies is a good place to make out. cause its dark. any questions or things i dident answer, please like message me back.

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When a guy does something that you don't like [as in touching boobs or something]

how do you say no [in a nice way] ?

and if you are too busy kissing.. would it be bad if you were to slap their hand?

like pull away and be like, "im sorry, im not ready"
or just pull his hand out from where its gooing and like put it on your hip or something.
hope i helped

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well in my partcial day class thing, theres this girl, her names tracy.. and like personaly the first time i saw her i thought she was a guy, like alot of my friends also said that too when they first saw her, but i when i first saw her i thought she was hott, cause i really thought she was a guy, but now that i know shes a girl im still attracted to her, and i dont get it. why?! does that mean im like bisexual or something ? because like.. i think i like her ? and its kind of odd.. someone please help ?

its not odd. your probably bisexual, its not a big ddeal, or atleast i dont think it it. but you probably do have feelings for her, or like you still have in your mind like a "attachment" to her where you still belive shes a guy. so if you do have an "attachment" to her you still might be straight. but this sounds like you are bisexual. but if you really like her, i would try and become friends with her. good luck.

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I was making out with my boyfriend the other day...and it was my first time and his 2nd...there was a little drool on our chins...is this normal for begginers or everyone ?

its completely normal, but sounds like you guys use alot of toungue or are sloopy. lol those are my kind of kisses. :]. hope i helped.

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15/f
there's this guy that i really like, but he has a girlfriend... but we're still pretty good friends. so this weekend i want to hang out with him and some of my other friends... everyone says that if i invite him over i have to invite over his girlfriend as well, but the thing is that she's a total b**** to me. and i don't know, i just wanna hang out with him... so is it so wrong to want to hang out with your guy friends if they have a girlfriend?

OMGSH!! im in the same situation. but my guy friend's gf is really nice, and shes my friend. but anyways enough about me. about your situation. like i dont understand it at all, like i dont get what the big deal is. but i would just hang out with him anyways/not invite her, dont care what people say. or invite her sometimes. or talk to him and be like "do you want to hang out? but do you mind if your gf dosent come?" hope i helped.

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he cheated on me. hes with the girl he wanted and wont leave me alone and still bugs me for liking guys. hes really jealous and annoying! is it because he still cares about me and loves me?

16/f

hey. it sounds like he still likes you, and is trying to get you jealous. but i would like totally ignore him, or talk to him. but like ignore him, he sounds like a ass. he probably wants to start a fight, and make it look like he dident start the drama. i say ignore him or talk with him. hope i helped.

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I'm just looking for some opinions here. Do you think giving head is a bad idea? I've always thought that blowjobs were gross and should be left to the sluts, but some of my friends are trying to convince me differently. I just don't want to be labeled as a whore amongst the guys.

Any opinions would be helpful. Thanks.

hey. i think giving a blowjob is bad in some situations. like... your not very serious with a guy. you just got out of relationship. hes just looking for ass. he just got out of a relationship. thats only my opinion though, but its not just for sluts. lol. hope i helped.

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the dance is coming up in one week, and i dont have anyone to go with!!!
i need advice on how to get a date quick!!

ask one of your friends.

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okay so this one guy i went out with broke up with me. now hes giving me weird looks whenever i see him in the hallway. do you have any idea what that means??? oh and all my friends think he still likes me by the way he talks about me cause our cliques like connect and when i asked him he said as a friend...i kinda think he still likes me too...waht do you think??

hey! it deff sounds like he likes you as more then a friend. he probably is giving you those looks because he misses you, or your making him jealous. i would like try and hang out with him, and maybe like talk to him about it. but keep your gaurd up. maybe hang out with him with like other people there also. hope i helped. and good luck.

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my name is Jay i'm 13/m/north carolina. I extremely like this girl and when i finally ask her out, she rejects me. SHe was the girl of my dreams!! That was about 2 weeks ago but i still like her. What should i do?

aww tht sucks, but i would just try and get over her, and try and show her what she is missing. like maybe talking to her, like try and create a friendship. hope i helped. :]

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okay well theres this one guy i went out with..and we broke up after christmad break. i thought i was over him but then i saw him out of school with his friends. it was really hard being in the same room with him. then a couple days later i had to stay after school for show choir after that i went to go wait for my mom and he was sitting there. (not in my car) but i asked politley to sit down and he said yes. when i was sitting there i started to tear up and once he left i started to accually cry. ever since then i have been crying non stop.what should i do?? i thought i was over him.

then we started texting and he invited me over to his house to talk it out and i really dont want to go and see his family again cause they didnt like me and it would be hard for me. should i go???

then today on the bus his one friend kept annoying me and telling me he know waht we did. i told my ex all my sectrets and everything and i thought i could trust him. i want to be friends with him still but i cant trust him and its really hard for me...

HELP!

hey. wow tht sucks. like i would deff. talk to him. and hang out with him. like work things out. he sounds like hes not trying to do anything bad, so i would deff. try and work things out. and like though it might be hard like going over to his house, i think you should go. i mean your going have to face stuff in your life like tht so iwould go. and see how tht goes. like though you cant trust him, iwould still try to hang out with him, but like make sure his/your parents are home. or like have like a group of people go when hang out. mkay hope i helped

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does anyone have any tips on " moving on " or possibly " winning your bf back" ahha thanks

hi! moving on i would just like try out other guys, and like just aviod them. winning your boyfriend back though, i would talk to them, make them jelous, or prove them they were wrong for dumpin you. or just like stuff like tht.

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