well in my partcial day class thing, theres this girl, her names tracy.. and like personaly the first time i saw her i thought she was a guy, like alot of my friends also said that too when they first saw her, but i when i first saw her i thought she was hott, cause i really thought she was a guy, but now that i know shes a girl im still attracted to her, and i dont get it. why?! does that mean im like bisexual or something ? because like.. i think i like her ? and its kind of odd.. someone please help ?
GirlOfEmotions answered Saturday March 3 2007, 12:00 pm: You liked her because you thought she was a guy. so that's different. And the fact that she really LOOKS like a guy, attracted you. if she looked like a girl, do you think you would have been attracted to her? You're not bi/lesbian from what i can see. [ GirlOfEmotions's advice column | Ask GirlOfEmotions A Question ]
Depressed_Poet answered Saturday March 3 2007, 10:22 am: No, you're not necessarily bi or lesbian because everyone goes through a phase where they seem somewhat or very much attracted to a member of the same gender. Chances are, you haven't discovered your sexual preference yet... but you will eventually. Girls through the ages from 12 to 15 will notice those attractions, but the girls that don't grow out of it by 16 or 17 are bi or lesbian. Also, people who are bi are more attracted to members of their own gender... is that true for you? Or is she the first girl you felt attracted to in some way? You're curious about it because you're not sure what to think about it but everyone experiences this so don't worry! And people from the ages 12-15 will experience it if they already haven't so everyone does. You're fine! :)
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howfair answered Saturday March 3 2007, 6:43 am: Everyone becomes curious about their sexuality at some point. I wouldn't say you're bi, because you really don't know yet, and she's the first girl that you've been attracted to. If you're physically/sexually attracted to her, then I would just say that you're bi-curious and you're ready to "experiment" with different genders. I really don't know, though. I'm pretty much as straight as they come, so I'm just being pretty general with my answer. I hope somebody else can give you some more help. [ howfair's advice column | Ask howfair A Question ]
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