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Hey, I'm Kayla. I'm eighteen years old. I love giving advice as well as receiving it. I'm finally out of high school!

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hi..this is pretty long but i really do need your advice.
my best friend and i talk a lot by msn & phone. she has a boyfriend & an exboyfriend. she hooked me up with hi "exboyfriend" he is really sweet and all, he even asked me to be his girlfriend. the thinh is that i have never met him in person or even talked to him by phone. we only talk by msn. and every time my best friend goes offline, then he comes online, and when he goes offline, den she comes online. which is pretty weird.also he talks a lot like my best friend. he started asking me if i was in the mood of cyber sex & stuff like that. i started telling him that when he came back from NY i would like to see him. thats when evrything changed. he told me that he wasnt comin back & that it was better if we broke up. that really broke my heart. but ill get over him. the thing is that i dont think he is real. i think that my best friend just made him up & pretended to be him. i dont know what to think right now. i trust her but this is really weird. please help me. do you think he is real? please tell me what u think.my mind is going crazy. thank you. =]

I think that your friend was just making him up since she got offline then he gets online..She probably was tricking you or something

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the guy i like knows that i like him, but his last girl friend was a really popular girl HELP!!!

It doesn't matter if his girlfriend was really popular..

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okay so my boyfriend..lets call him Bob..thats weird but i dont want 2 use his real name..okay so Bob and me have been going out 4 about 2 months now..Bob's never made a move..neither have i..all my friends *boys and girls* went 2 the movies one night..i sait next 2 bob..he didnt put his arm around me or anything..but hes not shy..i know that..should i make a move or wait till he does? Thanks!!
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He maybe shy to make the first move.. I know plenty of people who are like that..He could be not ready for the arms around deal.. Make the first move..

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hi...
i like this guy a lot,(he says he has a gf but i dont believe because he says she is 15) but he is like 1 of my BFF and i already have a bf and i cant stand him right now. The guy i like has been so nice to me this year and we have so many good times, but my bf is sweet to me to but i dont feel a click. Please Help Me 13/f!

HeartBroken

Just tell your boyfriend you ain't feelin anything with him anymore.. and just tell your guy friend how you really feel about him.. hoppe i helped
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klc23

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What should i do I hate being single?

Be a flirt but not to much of a flirt. and don't worry a guy will come around soon. I waited and now I got a boyfriend =).

hope i helped
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klc23

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i told my boyfriend that he could dip and he said he wouldn't do it if it would bother me but i wanted him to be happy so i told him it was ok with me but it really bothers me like alot and i can't tell him how i feel because his 16th bday is sunday and i want it to be the best bday he's ever had, so what should i do?

Just tell him that it bothers you and you could tell him he can dip but not around you. He shouldn't be mad about it.

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okay, here I am, there are some guys, who are kinda my -best-friends... they like me, and I don't know which one to go out with, please, help me pick one:
a) Fred: he's very calm and quiet, not speak a word. He only speaks to me and tells me only about his problems. Very cold hearted, yet nice at the same time. He has been crushing on me since fourth grade.
b) Tao: he's very popular and sensitive, he tells me everything and so do I. He always breaks up with his girlfriends anytime I'm available. He has been crushing on me since sixth grade.
c) Yoh: my ex-boyfriend. we broke up because of misunderstanding and now he wants to get back with me. He is sensitive, understadable, and nice. He's been crushing on me since fifth grade.
d) Leo: one of the nicest person to me. He's romantic and friendly. He's been waiting for me ever since sixth grade. That when he's been crushing me from.
e) Tony: a friend from kindergarten. He's so nice, sensitive, and popular. He's been crushing on me since eigth grade.
f) Richie: my ex-boyfriend in seventh grade. He's smart, intelligent, and super rich. He's been crushing on me since sixth grade.
g) Reid: my ex-boyfriend in sixth grade. He's popular, girls love him and stuffs, and he's athletic. He's been crushing on me since second grade.
They all are confessing love to me!! (They all go to different school, so if I date all of them, there won't be any problems, but I can't do that!!) Help me!!!

You should just go out with the one you like most.

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These days i feel left out.. my friends all either like someone or have a boyfriend or girlfriend and i dont have one and dont anyone either.. i have no idea what to do to keep my mind off of things like that. i was thinking of like having some friends over for like a girls only party to take our mind off of guys and even though we will probably talk about them i just dont know what to do. What should i do? If i were to have some people over what are some party ideas or things to do?

thanks

All girls feel left out when this happens. Give it awhile and there should be a guy come along =)

About the party, here is some links you could go to and see what you could do.

http://www.party411.com/gameguide-sleepovers.html

http://www.angelfire.com/tx2/coolwebpage1/slumberparty.html

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ok... i have a boyfriend.. and we have been dating for like a year and a half.. he started to act a little funny around me.. and i found out that his parents are fighting and thinking about goin their on ways..

but there is this other guy that likes.. me.. and i kind of have feelings for him too....i dont know which one i should pick.. i think i should stay with my boyfriend but my feelings are all messed up... what do you think i should do??

I think you should stay with your boyfriend that way he'll have somebody to talk to about his parents..hope i helped

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klc23

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well heres the thing, i kinda like this boy and hes one of my bestfriends.. were really close and everything but i dont know what i should do.. because my bestfriend in the wholee entire world used to go out with him.. and im afraid she;ll get mad at me but im not very shure if i want to go out with this boy but i do its confusing ... helppp

Are you sure that your friend is over him? If she is make sure she is ok with the fact that you two might start dating..but if she isn't ok with the fact about you two don't date him til she finds someone new to fall for..If you aren't sure about dating this boy maybe you should wait awhile to see if you really want to.. hope I helped

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klc23

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I'm in love with my best friend, and he's in love with me. I know this because we went out with each other. We want to get back together, but he's going out with my other best friend. He wants to break up with her to go out with me, but I don't want people to think that he broke up with her to go out with me because he's not. What should I do?

This will be a very hard choice to make because like the person below me said it will end up hurting somebody... I think that if he does break up with her to go out with you, you two should wait awhile before you two go out.. make sure your friend is over him or say it's ok to date him before you do..but then again it might hurt the girl very badly if you went otu with him period. hopefully I helped

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klc23

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What is the nicest way to break up with someone without hurting them too much? I preferr not in person though. Please Help

I think the nicest way to break up with someone is to get on the internet and tell them that you think that you two are to good of friends to date... hope I helped

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klc23

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I lovee my current girlfriend soo much! SHe has been gone for 10 days on vacation with her parents to Canada. Last night I had two friends over. One is an ex who I am still good friends with. The history on us? It was a short 1 month thing. The classic friends giving the 'somethin more than friends' thing a try that didnt go well.
Well me and her were laying on my bed and my friend was next to us. Her body was not close to mine..but i was resting my head close to her and my hand was on her shoulder. I was extremely tired about to fall asleep. Is this cheating in some way to you? I mean i have other friends that are girls who will rest their head on my stomach while playing video games..and it is absolultey nothin romantic about it because we are strictly friends and both have different love interests and 'types.'
My ex thinks it was nothin..but should i tell my gf about this? If she ever found out she would flip out because she is extremely sensitive on the topic of me and my ex. She finds it odd we hang out because we are exes. *keep in mind its not like i hang out alonnne with this girl* I have a big group of friends kind of and we hang out together kind of thing.

well..do i have anything to feel guilty about?

You really didn't do anything wrong.. You should tell your girlfriend before someone else tells her just in case she will start thinking you lied and cheated on her..hope I helped

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klc23

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I like this guy named Sam. We are pretty good friends. We talk a lot and we get along great. I asked him if he liked anyone yesterday and he doesnt know. So I figured out he only liked me as a friend. He makes me smile soo much. And i want to tell him I like him but hes totally out of my league. Hes like gorgeous and im well kinda pretty i guess.. i mean i've been told i was pretty but it just doesnt seem like he would like me. And another reason that doesnt want me to tell his is that we talk and were such good friends and i dont want to ruin that. I just need help, like what to say to him or somethingg!!! pleasee!

I've been in a situation like this before.. from where he said he doesn't know so it could be that he is crushin on you..you should tell him that you like him soon just incase he finds someone else.. hope I helped

&heats;
klc23

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when i sit near this guy.. i get this little fuzzy feeling in my stomach.. i really dont know what this feeling means.. thats why i need help.. i kind of like this guy too... the only problem is i have a boyfriend:(:( but i havent seen him in about four weeks and its driving me crazy..
please help me:(

Yeah what they said.. that fuzzy feeling thingy is butterflys so your going to have to go to the doctor for a major sugery to get them out before the die.. that guy you like you need to get him you ain't seen your boyfriend in forever! yeah so i'll ttyl..

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How can you still love another person if your goin out with another??
WHAT IS LOVE????

HELP ME:p


of course you can love another one silly..

love is a natural feeling, or some may call it when they have sex they call it "making love"

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What should I do? there is this boy i've been dating over a year and i have feelings for someone else that likes me alot. the boy i'm dating can't seem to make up his mind about if he wants to be with me or not. so should i choose the new guy or stick with my boyfriend?

you should go with the new guy.. =P

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okay lets say im dating a boy right.
and..... stuff and we are only in 7th grade.
and..... is it possible for people to date in 7th grade to stay together forever like.. get married i mean i know we are young but can it happen?

Yeah I know someone who met two old people and they dated since 6th grade

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ok so i REALLY love my boyfriend..but lately since i told him that his best friend rapped me..he started getting...controlling and like now whenever i say somthing hell scream and say BITCH SHUT UP...then hell say "oh im sorry baby" and everything is fine but he hit me a couple of times..i told my best friend and she told me to break up with him..but i LOVEE him! and..if i i do decide to break up with him..im scared hell like..kill me or somthingg!

plz help me.i dont know where else im going to get help!

~lila

What he is doing is against the law.. you should sit down and talk to him and get help..If i was you I would break up with him..

hope I helped

&Hearts;

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well i wrote the other day saying i like my bestfriend some of you replyed i should tell him well my friend told him. He also liked me to.. and later that night we was talking on here and he told me he hope we go out and then i didn't say anything cause i was totally unexepting that and now he won't talk to me what should i do?

help i will rate high

You should just tell him that you want to go out with him to.

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