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Were Just Friends But Im Falling For Him
I like this guy named Sam. We are pretty good friends. We talk a lot and we get along great. I asked him if he liked anyone yesterday and he doesnt know. So I figured out he only liked me as a friend. He makes me smile soo much. And i want to tell him I like him but hes totally out of my league. Hes like gorgeous and im well kinda pretty i guess.. i mean i've been told i was pretty but it just doesnt seem like he would like me. And another reason that doesnt want me to tell his is that we talk and were such good friends and i dont want to ruin that. I just need help, like what to say to him or somethingg!!! pleasee!
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I've been in a situation like this before.. from where he said he doesn't know so it could be that he is crushin on you..you should tell him that you like him soon just incase he finds someone else.. hope I helped
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hey, he said that he doesnt know! which means that he could be unsure if he lieks you or not. theres a chance that your the one that hes crushing on! well you should just ask him whos he unsure about. that way you dotn get your hopes up. also tell him how you feel. it wont ruin your friendship if you tell him. because if you cant tell him everything then that would runin it more. cait♥
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Life is about taking chances. That's what it all comes down to. You're never going to know what the ending result will be. And rejection is one of the most fears that everyone is afraid to face.
I'm not saying to not ask him out. It would be actually wise to try it anyway. You will never know and you'll always wonder if you don't.
You have a decison to make. You could ask him out and see if you guys can have a deeper connection than just being friends. There always is a possiblity of ruining the friendship. Right now you're playing it safe.
If you're going to ask him out there really is no RIGHT way to do. I'd start out by hanging out with him a lot more. And hinting that you like him. Eventually work yourself up to telling him. But guys seem to like it better if you straight-out ask them. They don't want it to be a long, long conversation where it takes you forever to get to the point. Short and sweet! That's the key.
Have confidence. Seriously. I can tell he's intimidating you already because you asume that he's out of your league. But that's not true. You have just as much chance as anyone else. And you deserve to have him.
Good luck, I hope it works out for you! If he says "no" then stick to friendship. But you gotta take risks and live life. Just think of how great it would be for you step up, ask him out, and go out with him!
-Shannon
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