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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
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& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
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i want to make my boyfriend cookies for valentines day. what else can i do for him? nothing sexual please. by then itll barely be almost 2 months. and i want to make valentines special for the both of us. please and thankyou! in advance (link)
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depending upon how much money you have to spend, try going to walmart.com & looking at the things you can make online & order & they'll deliver it right to your house.
last year i bought my boyfriend a candy tin, with a picture of our hands holding on the top of it, & i filled it with his favorite sweets like the soft-batch cookies & kitkats, haha. you can make it online & order it & it was only $15, shipping & everything.
on walmart you can make teddy bears with a picture of you on the shirt or something like that. you can even make calendars, valentine's day cards, playing cards, mugs, & tons more.
but i also agree with everyone else. little things that mean a lot to both of you are what matters.
everyone gave you really great ideas, i just thought i would inform you of the things you can make on walmart :]
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Hey i really need this question answered and i hope u can help....
I invited my boyfriend(20years old) to come with me and my family on vacation to my grandparents house in the U.S for thanksgiving shopping. Now hes saying that he wont be able to come because he doesn't have enough money and if he leaves for 4 days his job will fire him before Christmas. Am i wrong to be upset about this? cause i really wanted him to come (link)
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it's okay to be upset because you were excited & wanted him to come. but you can't get angry over the fact that he can't afford it.
if you want him to go so badly, then you need to pay for it & talk to his boss.
losing his job isn't something he wants to go through & you should respect that.
don't be angry at him because of the fact that he doesn't have any money to go with you.
maybe there is a way you guys can work it out? maybe you can help pay, & he can try to request those 4 days off from work.
it's not his fault & it's not that he is purposely not wanting to go, he just can't & if you are a true girlfriend then you need to respect that.
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I really care for this girl, I love her. we text or r with each other from the time we get out a school till we go to sleep, and its not like average talking, its pretty deep we get in each others heads, know how each others thinking. I can tell her anything n she can tell me almost everything but she’s had an extremely hard life she wants to tell me but she already told me a lot n thinks its better if I don’t know the rest right now n I’m perfectly fine with that. We trust each other. I can’t imagine how my life was without her, I’ve only known her for about a week though but we both say it feels like our whole life. She’s such a strong girl for her situation I know id be going insane. Every time she starts to love or trust a relative they die to cancer, it’s been over 20 of her relatives she says their almost gone, now the doctor thinks she has cancer and is going to the cancer lab to be tested soon. She keeps saying its fine, but she’s the coolest girl I have ever met she’s so sweet and nice n cares so much she’s the strongest emotionally iv ever met. She doesn’t want me to tell anyone and I won’t. I really care for her I want to be with her forever but I don’t know what to do, I don’t think she wants a bf she just broke up n had me give her the strength two days ago. In every way she is the perfect girl, we talk till we both fall asleep all day long and it never gets quiet or dull. She comforts me, n helps me w the smallest things n she says I help her sooo much to but I just cant imagine n it depresses me so much that stuff like this happens to the best people, n she keeps telling me she is ok n she doesn’t want me to feel like this because of her. She is different than all the others at our school, i love it, and wer new freshmen n both 14. She is so hurt inside, shes a recovered cutter but she doesnt know that i know it about her, she says she hasnt told me the worst parts of her life, but how can it get any worse! I can go on forever about her but she is perfect in every way n just does not see that, idk what to do I can’t get my mind off it im texting her right now as always, I miss her sooo much. What should I do to help any of this? (link)
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all you can do is be her support.
it's hard to want to be with someone the rest of your life, when you've only known them for a week. & i'm not lecturing you, i just know from experience. you both are 14, you have so much life to live.
as i said, just be there for her. if she gets diagnosed with cancer then you both are going to be miserable. just be careful, and don't get so caught up in something that seems so perfect, because in reality nothing is.
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im dating this guy and i really do love him. one day my ex texted me ( first time we talked since he cheated on me 7 months ago & in that time i got over him cheating and im completely fine w/ it now). i texted him back to see what he wanted and at first we talked about getting our stuff back and such. for some reason i liked talking to him again and it seemed like nothing ever changed between us. then he started saying he still loved me and wanted me back and for me to leave my bf and he\'d leave him gf. i dont know if it brought back feelings or what but it made me feel bad so i had to tell my bf & he didnt understand how i could talk to him after he cheated on me. i was confused so i went to my bestfriend for help and she didnt want me to go back to my ex cause she loves how good my bf is to me. so i had to make a decision and i chose my bf and i figured that me & my ex would stop talking but no we've talked a lot lately and he swears its only as friends and that he'd never take me back since i turned him down. i dont know im really confused how i feel about him , i dont want to stop talking to him but i know that us talking is wrong, i think maybe i just liked how he wanted me back. im not really sure. and we dont live that far apart so i will see him at games when our schools play eachother and random places and i dont know how i'll be when i see him cause i havent seen him since. im just really confused and idk what to do. please help (link)
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it's normal to miss your ex, of course. especially since when you guys first dated, he cheated on you. therefore at that time, you assumed you weren't good enough for him. & now he wants you back, you finally feel good enough.
you like that extra attention you're receiving, especially since it's not just from your current boyfriend.
i can't tell you what to do.
but i've been in a situation very similar. my boyfriend of well over a year broke up with my randomly. he completely crushed my world. i was sooo devastated. then i met someone, 11 months later. we fell in love & he & i have been together for 8 months now. it had been a little over a year since me & my ex broke up & he got in contact with me. he wanted me back.
i was soo confused, and i didn't know what to do.
so i evened out the odds:
- i was happy with my current boyfriend (are you?)
- i was so hurt when my ex broke up with me (were you?)
- "once a cheater always a cheater" (do you believe that?)
- who could make you happier?
if someone has let you down before, they are going to do it again. i'm sorry, but it's true.
& for him to come back to you, WHILE he has a girlfriend shows no decency WHATSOEVER. especially since technically, he's cheating on her now with you. which means, he's still cheating.
if he really wanted you back, he would have broken up with his girlfriend, first, to show that he really does want you.
all in all, he's probably jealous that you're happy.
& he's dangling you on a string because he knows that you think about him in the back of your mind.
you know who you truly want to be with.
& you've heard my opinion, so go make your decision.
good luck.
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okay so there is this girl that my boyfriend and his friends used to be obsessed with. they always talked about her and thought she was the hottest thing alive. well now i have been dating my boyfriend for a verrry long time and he hasn't talked about her at all ever since we first started going out. but i can't help but feel upset whenever i think about how he used to talk and stuff. especially when we see her at school. i always think he is going to look at her and be intrigued or whatever. he always says that no one is prettier than me but i think he might think that she is. it doesn't seem like it should be a big deal.. but for some reason it is to me. i don't know how to get over these feelings. please help (link)
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i can't really give you advice on this, but i will give you my opinion:
me & my boyfriend go to different schools, and we have been together for 6 months or so. before me he dated this girl for 2 years, and they go to the same school.
i always stress & worry & get jealous over this girl for no apparent reason.
i worry because they're at the same school & i picture the fact that what if he's thinking about her, or what if she looks pretty today, or what if he wants her back.
i mean the smallest things bother me. i hate seeing her name & i hate hearing people talk about her because it makes me think that maybe he's thinking about her too.
the best advice that i can give you, is the fact that he is YOUR boyfriend - not hers. & if he didn't want to be with you, then he wouldn't be.
at one point in time, your boyfriend was attracted to that girl, but now he has you & he is attracted to you. & i understand how hard it is to be jealous & worry, because i do it daily, but sometimes you just have to accept the fact that he loves you & wants to be with you, and if he still wanted to be with her or anything of the sort, then he would.
& sometimes it is good to talk to him about her. let him know how much you stress over it. although everytime my boyfriend & i talk about his ex we always fight, and maybe you & your boyfriend would have better luck.
buuut i wish you the best & just try not to think about it.
:)
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i have this new boyfriend and our relationship is going quite well...my only problem is that we both love to make-out, but sometimes, he's not so great at it.
how do i tell him without it being an awkward situation or hurting his feelings? (link)
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compliment him on the things he does that you like, therefore he's going to do that more often.
try to take control more. if you take control, he's going to have to follow your lead.
most first few kisses are always awkward, and eventually you grow to like the way that person kisses.
but sometimes there isn't anything you can do about the way someone kisses, and you just have to get used to it really.
& if worse comes to worse, you might have to ask him if you can give him tips or teach him. but hopefully it won't come down to that.
good luck
:)
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what are some moves i can make to get my bf to kiss me? (link)
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i've answered a question sort of along the same lines as this one, so i'll use that same answer:
"when you & your boyfriend are alone, maybe watching tv or sitting on the couch or anything, casually lay your head on his shoulder or his chest. if he's any form of a boyfriend, he's more than 90% likely to put his arm around you.
whenever he does that, he's basically giving you permission for anything.
with your head on his shoulder or chest, wrap your arms around his waist & look up at him. if he's not looking back at you, just kiss his cheek. but if he's looking at you, give him a small peck on the lips. & then smile, and then kiss again. & this time, make it longer.
making out may seem hard when you think about it, but once you're in the moment, everything comes naturally to you.
people say you can base your entire relationship with a person by your first kiss together.
i hope i helped
:) "
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my friend is starting to get really obsessed with this one guy and quite frankly i don't think he is going to like her in that way. she is nice and all but i don't think he wants a girlfriend. and plus he doesn't really know she exists. so how do i make her like him less, i don't want her to get hurt =[. (link)
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you can't make someone stop liking someone.
they best you can do is support her.
give her your opinion on the situation, and tell her you don't think she needs to get so attached because nothing is guaranteed.
& there is a chance, of course, that she isn't going to listen to you. but be a good friend, if she likes him, she likes him, there's nothing you can do about it.
but if she gets hurt, then help her through it all. let her know that you are there for her & she always has you to lean on.
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ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.
he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.
he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.
i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks! (link)
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okay, typical boy - number one.
if he likes you as more than a friend, than why is he still with his girlfriend? & why wouldn't he cheat? it seems to me that if a guy likes a girl, yet is dating another girl he would do something to get the girl to break up with him (i.e. cheating) therefore his logics just aren't matching up.
aaaand, you're right, if you were to put a move on him, he wouldn't stop you. but that doesn't mean you need to do so. he wouldn't stop you mainly because you're a girl, making a move on him. no guy would stop that from happening.
be friends with him all you want, but don't get attached. if he really liked you, then you wouldn't even have to be asking me this question, because he wouldn't have a girlfriend.
i don't think you should waste your time on someone who has a girlfriend. he really isn't worth it.
to be as honest as possible, i think he's just using you. he wants someone to be there once him & his girlfriend do break up (if they do) & he thinks you would be the type of person to wait for that. but i think you are better than that :)
good luck.
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help!
i am a freak i guess you could say. and i cant do the things i need to do because i have the nosiest parents ever. but when guys ask me to hang they wonna do stuff. like head and handjobs. and idk how to do it exactly. so could anyone give me a play by play or tips.
something?
andything, please! (link)
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i can't go into detail because last time i did, i got banned for a bit.
i can give you brief definitions, but if you want to know more you can email me at miss_suzii15@yahoo.com
fingering: when a guy inserts his fingers into your vagina.
hand job(hj) - you give a guy pleasure by doing an up & down motion, on his penis.
blow job(bj) - the same as a hand job except you use your mouth
=) hope i helped.
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okk so i broke up with my bf sunday but i am still like holding on in a way and i know im being so stupid but i dont know what to do. dont give me crap bjust tell me what to do to stop thinking about him!! keeping busy doesnt work cause even when i do something i still think about him. but ya i dont want to hear a bunch or crap about relationships and stuff EVERYONE keeps telling me that stuff-i just want ways to GET OVER HIM. please help me! (link)
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i've never been in this situation, but i have been the one who was broken up with.
& he was ALWAYS on my mind & all i wanted was to get him out of my head. but no matter what you do, he's going to be in your mind, there are just some ways to ease the thought down a bit.
just like my friend said below this:
- friends are a wonderful way of helping. talk to them about everything, get it out of your head.
- get out of your house. go out, walk around, run, hang out with friends, go to the movies, the library, spend the night at a family member's house, anything besides staying at home by yourself. when you're at home you're more than likely to think about him more.
-meet other guys. not necessarily date them right away, but be friend a lot of guys. have fun with them. keep your mind occupied.
-write about how you feel. writing is my getaway, it always helps me.
-stay friends with him & talk to him about why things happened the way they did or why you chose to break up.
- or you could try to work things back out with eachother. if he's on your mind like crazy, there has to be a reason, you know? maybe deep down you really love him & just need a short break.
the only thing that is definate of getting someone out of your head, is time.
time heals all wounds. it may seem like forever, and some days are going to be harder than others, but you can't just break up with someone & expect you to not think about them.
give it time.
good luck :)
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so my boyfriend i wanna do it,but it is both his and mine first time.we wanna know how it will feel and also what to expect afterwards? (link)
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make sure that you both are really ready, and by ready i mean that you guys have talked everything over. how it's going to make you feel, and how he needs to be gentle. how you need to use protection & make sure you have discussed consequences such as pregnancy & stds.
talk about how sex isn't going to be your entire relationship.
once you guys have discussed everything, then the sex won't be awkward. & if it is awkward, then you guys aren't ready to be having sex.
your first time is painful, very, very painful for the girl. and more than likely if it's his first time, then he isn't going to be able to last very long & all you are mainly going to feel is pain, and lots of it.
but eventually the pain fades.
the sex should be enjoyable because that is the closest you are ever going to be to that person no matter what.
make sure he is the one person you want to do this with, before you do it.
because once you do, you can't take it back.
good luck
:)
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females-
okk so i was wondering if you shave 'down there' does it hurt? i have heard it like stings or sumthing-is that true? thanks :) (link)
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it doesn't hurt to shave if the hair is longer, but it definately hurts if you try to shave stubble or something.
don't shave every day, because bumps/rashes can occur.
just shave in the direction that the hair grows & be gentle.
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ok so i think i'm gonna have my first kiss this week and i am soooooo scared so PLEASE help me. seriously PLEASE. i like him alot and i really don't want to mess anything up!!! PLEASE!!!! i just need some good tips so i can relax a little bit. thanks, please help me. (link)
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don't worry about your first kiss, it'll all come natural to you. i swear.
all first kisses are awkward though, regardless of how prepared you are or not.
to make things less awkward, make sure you just give a simple peck on the lips before going all full-fledge makeout.
follow his lead, don't try to take control. not yet at least. find out how he kisses first & then the second kiss you can go about it however you wish
:)
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i need love quotes. lost love. sad love. and stuff like that. thanks (link)
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The heart wants what it wants
you can't go back,
you can only remember
You've got that something,
I think you'll understand.
I wanna hold your hand.
There's a bit of me
waiting for that bit of you
Every waking moment i'm alive,
I'm searching for you
it's the pounding in the heart
whenever you are gone without any trace,
it's the breaking of the waves
that were about to really carry someplace
you do a number on me
with those eyes i swear you stole from the sky
all I need, is you tonight
you got straight a's while I was writing
fairy tales and looking out window sills asking why.
the sunshine liked my eyes and kissed my cheek
when it knew I was in love with the moon.
and of course, with you
well, I sped it up 'cause you don't like slow songs.
you're more of the literal kind.
yeah, you're more like the ocean's waves
i can give you some more later
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my boyfriend & i have been together now for about 5 months.
i am his first serious relationship since his last ex. & they dated for 20 months. they lost their virginities to eachother & everything.
just here recently, has made a year since they broke up. & she was the one who broke up with him, because he cheated on her.
my boyfriend & i made plans to go to a club one night & she was there. she kept giving me awful looks & staring at us. i've seen her before & she's never really acted that way to me.
then one day she sends me a message on myspace trying to say that i was talking bad about her to her friends & telling them that they couldn't be around her.
she & i get in a big argument & my boyfriend basically tells me to leave her alone.
my boyfriend & i go to different schools, but his ex & him go to the same school. & he told me that she came up & was talking to him really bad about me & that she apologized to him & everything. & he accepted her apology.
i'm not sure what i'm asking but i need your opinions on this situation. i've never started anything with this girl & i blocked her from my myspace & everything & i don't understand why she is always trying to talk to my boyfriend.
i mean, is she jealous? because she has a blog on her myspace that is specifically aimed at how bad she hates my boyfriend because he cheated on her, but i just don't understand. (link)
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oh lord, this sounds sooooo much like my situation it's not even funny.
she's a girl, and she's definately jealous.
but be proud of the fact that she's jealous, because you have what she wants.
if your boyfriend cares for you, then you won't have any reason to stress over her.
& he shouldn't give you any reasons to worry.
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do guys know when a girl is a newbie at sex?
ive only had sex once, which was about 2 years ago. and i made a complete idiot out of myself. he told me to get on top, so i did, and i kind of just sat there...i didnt know i had to move around. anyway, it was just embarrassing. so i think thats the reason why i havent had sex again. [ive gotten plently of offers]
i know 'practice makes perfect', but i dont want the second guy im with to know i havent done this in a long time, and that i prolly suck hardcore at it.
hellppp (link)
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sex isn't something you're born as a natural at.
it takes time & effort, and you have to have a partner who understands that & is willing to help show you what feels good & what positions are best.
you should research around on the internet for tips & tricks on how to turn a guy on.
if a guy is insanely horny before you have sex, then no matter what you do during the sex, it's going to feel amazing to him.
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How and why do guys get over breakups so easily? (link)
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it's not that guys get over breakups more easily, it's that they are just better at hiding their feelings & emotions.
i dated this boy for near 2yrs, and he broke up with me abrutly. he never gave me any reasons, or anything. he just removed me from his life completely. i was devastated. i couldn't ever figure out how someone who loved me one day could just stop caring the next.
it wasn't until over a year later, that i found out that he had just as hard of a time letting go as i did.
he recently told me that he wanted me back & that he tried to block all contact with me because it only hurt him to think about everything.
boys are very confusing beings.
but in the end, they do have feelings & they do hurt when they lose someone, they just know how to brush it off.
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15/F/PA and he is 18/M/PA
My boyfriend of 5 months dumped me and he said he didnt know why and that he still loved me but he dosnt want to be with me. now he wont talk to me and I dont know what to do. He let me keep my stuffie he gave me but i dont under stand why he would dump me but want me to keep the stuff and why he still loved me (link)
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a lot of guys don't want to give reasons for a breakup because they don't want to hurt their girlfriend. but they always have reasons, whether they tell you they do or not, there are reasons as to whye he broke up with you.
your ex probably does still love you, but maybe just not as much as he used to, or maybe not in the same way that he used to.
he probably doesn't want to bother with giving & getting everything back from eachother, so he just told you to keep everything.
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When my boyfriend and I first started dating he always made time for me. He'd move his plans around, always make the most of our time, focus on me. When he answered his phone he'd always tell his friends that he was with me.
Now 6 months later--it's not like that anymore... He plays video games when we're together, when he answers his phone he says he isn't doing anything when asked and he doesn't want to move any plans around. I'm not saying I want him to bail on his friends for me but things like working out. He works out at completely random times and when we first stated dating, he'd push it back or move it forward so he could see me. Now if he decides he want to work out and I call him, he wont do that. And whats with the phone thing?
I guess I just miss the attention I used to get from him--now it feels like he ignores me sometimes. I still move things around to see him and I try to make the most of our time but it's a little hard when he's playing video games. I'm just not sure what's going on. He's 19 if that help. (link)
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in my opinion, he could either be getting used to you, or getting tired of you.
if a boy gets used to a girl, then he really feels comfortable & content & doesn't feel like he has to see them all the time, or talk to them all the time, because he knows that they are there & that they will be there when he needs her. if that makes any sense at all.
but you guys have been together for awhile & real emotions are starting to show. guys are always different in the beginnings of relationships because they want to make everything work out. but then later now, things start changing & real faces start showing & this may just be the real him.
you need to talk to him about how you feel, and let him know that you want more time with him & you aren't feeling appreciated. let him know that you aren't trying to be suffocating or anything, you just miss what you used to have.
spice things up, go out to the movies or make cookies together & rent dvds. do anything to bring back all the old romance.
but if he doesn't put forth any effort, then i'm sorry dear, it might be time for you to find another boy.
good luck
:)
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