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to tell or not to tell?
i have this new boyfriend and our relationship is going quite well...my only problem is that we both love to make-out, but sometimes, he's not so great at it.
how do i tell him without it being an awkward situation or hurting his feelings?
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compliment him on the things he does that you like, therefore he's going to do that more often.
try to take control more. if you take control, he's going to have to follow your lead.
most first few kisses are always awkward, and eventually you grow to like the way that person kisses.
but sometimes there isn't anything you can do about the way someone kisses, and you just have to get used to it really.
& if worse comes to worse, you might have to ask him if you can give him tips or teach him. but hopefully it won't come down to that.
good luck
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Well guys don't get subtle hints very well. If at all.
So you'll have to be sort of direct without hurting his feelings.
Speak up- if, say, he's drooling all over your face, pull back for a moment and say, "Hey this is great but could you stop drooling all over me?" in a playful tone.
Pull back when he does something you don't like.
Or, kiss the way you want him to- and he just might get the hint eventually.
Also, you could grow to like how he kisses, too... it all depends on the person/situation.
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just sit him down but first compliment him on his kissing technique that way he doesnt feel hurt when you tell him that he isnt very good and then just tell him and just show him the way you want him to kiss you. I went through the same thing and i learnt the best thing to do when this problem arrises is to just tell the truth.
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