Well yea here is my problem, i have a boyfriend lets just call him henry, and we have been going out for almost 2 years and he is ready to settle down with me and have a family but and we have been promised to each other for a long time and he is ready to settle down but i am only 16 years old so wat do i do ?
Dear should i have a kid,
i honestly think you need to talk to henry about this. beacause sweetie, 16 is too young to start a family. if that is what you both want, then it is different. but once you start a family, it is with you for the rest of your life. everyday you have to take care of them, and don't always get the time you need for yourself. if you want to wait until you are sure that it's what you can handle then i say talk to him about it. if he truly cares for you, then he will understand and wait for you. i hope i helped some. take care.
*Z*
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hi.i jus wana no what girls like about guys can girls please ask this question
well i don't know about all girls, but i will tell you what i like..
1. personality
2. sense of humor
3. they are shy, but not too shy
4. their eyes... it's always what attracts me to them physically
5. respect
6. open-minded
7. not soo macho that they act like the girl is below them
...hope this helps some:)
*Z*
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Could someone please give me some long distance relationship tips.. he'll be driving in 6 months.. if that helps any.. We love eachother and ahve been together twice and will see eachother in less than aweek.. but yea, idk the next time we will before he gets his licence and i may start dating him soon! please hlep!
well long distance relationships can be hard. i live in USA and my fiancee' is in Egypt. so it takes patience on both ends. and you have to trust one another enough to believe that they are not with other dates. and it helps if y'all can talk on the computer IM. and also call eachother often, just so you know that you both are still devoted to eachother. best of luck!!
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Ok agian I am a 14/m in a wheelchair and I have this friend lets call her S and she and me talk almost once a week on the phone or online cause she is in minnesota for the summer and she has been asking me advice about this other boy that has a girlfriend but they both lik eachother and well after all of that talking with her I was sitting in my room going through the year book and I kept thinking "Why Can't I be that boy that she likes" and I have been having this crush on her and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to go bad and have her mad at me cause I have had that happen before
What should I do?
Ok well, the good relationships spark from friendship. you already know eachother, but she might take you granted sometimes, but in the end it is the friends that will be with her, not her crush. so i think that you should wait until she gets back for the summer and if she isn't with the guy still, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. don't ask her to date yet, you need to work up to that. gradually spend more time, but don't spend too much. always to remember to give her space, but be there when she needs it. i hope this helped, and i hope you get the girl.lol. just like the movies. take care
*~Zainab~*
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hi im 16 f and hes 14 m. the other week we only just started talking (on msn) and we got very close and he seemed very caring and loving towards me, he then asked me out and i said yes..he lives close by and we get along very well but my only question is...does it matter whether hes 2 years younger than me?
no it doesn't matter. just be careful to take it slow until you both are ready to be close.
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Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18?
well no it doesn't seem weird. but you have to be careful with what you do with him.i mean if you 2 do anything sexual he can get in a lot of trouble.
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okay, so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f and i really like her but i don't know where i should take her on our first date (if she'll go out with me) if you live in st. louis area, (or anyware) got any advice?
personally i would choose the classic. dinner and a movie, or just a movie. it always works:)
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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.
sorry but i think it is slutty, but it doesn't mean you are a slut. it gets hard to say no sometimes, but i would just be more careful when you two are alone, because you are way too young to get pregnant. and remember condoms don't always work. so just be careful.
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me and my bf have been going out for seven months and we are so in love but we have this usual schedule kissing and making out ya know, and we just usually go by it and i wanna know what can i do to make the schedule more fun???
well im not real into kissing, but personally i would take the schedual away. i mean why do you have it, to not forget when to do it? believe me if you keep the schedual your relationship will get mighty dull fast. so just be spontaneous. i am sure he will like it!
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I'm 18 he's 21. We are thinking about getting married after 1 year together. He has a lot of sexual fantasies of being with other girls but says he can try to forget about having sex with more people and settle down. Is he REALLY ready for marrige?
well i don't know exactly. he may be lying to you but he may be telling the truth. i say that you need to sit down with him and have a serious conversation about your future. if you believe what he tells you then go for it, but if you doubt it i would consider putting things on hold. it is a big step to take and both of you need to be in it with your hearts.
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hey guys! i`m not really sure the purpose fo me posting this but yeah.. i am a 15/f and a Christian. i met this guy at church about two and a half years ago. his name is nick. he is the sweetest lil kid. he is one year younger than me and really cute! now i know he doesn`t like me but the other niite he called me and we somehow got on the subject of masturbation and whether or not i thought it was riite or wrong. i told him i didn`t think that it was wrong or anything and it kinda escalated from there. he told me to go to my computer and he sent me some sites of porn and i really liked them. then last niite, we watched tons of law and order episodes together because it had chris meloni in it (one of the guys from the sit he sent me). and then i mastubrated with him on the fone several times and he was too. is this wrong? i really don`t know what my question is so any comments or thoughts would be helpful!
i think that it is wrong. however living here in the west most kids do it. but i think that it is wrong to do especially with someone else. i know it may sound stupid, but it is a true oppinion.
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I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?
well if she doesn't want to do long distance then you can't force her, but you can tell her how you feel about the relationship and how it might be a good idea because you never now what will happen from it. long distance relationships do work out if both people are seriously into it. best of luck.
*~Zainab~*
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so ive been dating a guy for a couple months and he just recently said something really mean to my friend while she was working causing her to run of work bawling. i dont want a guy that talks shit to my friends. is it wrong to break up with him for it? please answer..
no it's not wrong. boyfriends come and go but your friends are always going to be there when you really need them. so maybe just talk to him about it and see what he says. ask him why he did it and if he is a total jerk about it then dump him.
*~zainab~*
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Hey, my boyfriend and I are real greatt ogether but the thing is. he keeps teasing me like calling me dork and stuff. It seems like hes joking, which i dont mind but. HE DOES ALL THE TIME. and then think its cute when i get mad..i dont like it. i dont know how to tell him i dont like it without making him feel like i hate him or something. Plus i once told him he can call me
his lil black slave cuz it turns me on (hes white im black) but he says it too much. but i hate it...and he likes to spank my butt. idk what to do...he's too kinky.
First of all you gotta tell him how it is! you have to tell him how it makes you feel. just tell him that he does it too much. and if he has a problem with not being mean to you then i think y'all need to get other people to be around. just tell him straight up
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Im 16 and i still havent madeout with anyone. All my friends are very experienced and i get uncomfortable when they talk about that kind of stuff becuz im very inexperienced in that department. I feel so stupid and young because i havent..i mean some 13 year olds have madeout..and im 16! Is this normal and what should i do!?
Well it is nothing to be embarrassed or feel stupid about. If you think of it this way, you have the advantage because you don't have to deal with the pressure of sex yet. kissing only leads inevitably to other things which you should only do with your husband/wife vice a versa.
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There is this guy, Zack I really like. He used to like me but now he doesnt. I dont know why he doesnt anymore. I didnt do anything wrong. We barely ever talk to eachother. I think he hates me but I really like him. What should I do?
Okay well this may sound very typical, but you need to talk with him. Get him when he's alone and just ask him. perhaps he heard that you didn't like him anymore or something like that, but just be honest with him.
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i want to chat with somebody about my boyfriend. he is black. and 4sho im a little white.
i don't see why so many people have a problem with mixed races. but my yahoo id is girdy_goo15 so just holla.
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ok here the thing. i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. but, i got an ex girlfriend who doesn't know when to let go. my ex always talks about how she misses me & wants to kiss me & all this other crap. so my question is, how do i get rid of my ex without hurting her feelings & without breakin up with my current girlfriend?
-thanks
tell her the truth. you may hurt her but she's gotta know. so just be honest.
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(I just turned 13)
I have a problem...
I slept wit 3 in 2 days time period guyz right?
They r best friends (uh oh) & I really lyk one of em. (They is all about 16)
I dun want him 2 kno I been sleepin wit his two best budz...
I think he lyk me 2--but how do I hide it? Shud I tell him?
I think I be pregnunt wit hiz child. I'm really scurred, my rent would KILL me if dey found out I was sleepin around.
I missed muh period for a month. And da test camed out positive! wut is I gonna do?
well you have to tell him. and you have to be honest with your parents. unless they like abuse you then you need to get to a program where they take you then you give the baby for adoption. but if that's not an option then, you need to go live wid someone you can trust. and how old are you? if you need anymore help just hook me up
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I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks?
they want a rush or so to speak. they want to be something theyre not. they follow the media and think that they need to shake there asses for a dime in front of a pimp. but theyre only 14. so they do it cuz they think it makes them cool.
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