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There is this guy, Zack I really like. He used to like me but now he doesnt. I dont know why he doesnt anymore. I didnt do anything wrong. We barely ever talk to eachother. I think he hates me but I really like him. What should I do?
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It sounds like to me, that you don't know him really, really well. You don't know for sure that he doesn't like you. He may like you and just may act a different way. Remember: All guys act differently. He may just be afraid that you don't like him and is building a barrier of pretend haterad, so that if you reject him, he will feel protected. This all may seem like a little much, but people do weird things when they are in love. I think you should talk to him. Flirt. A lot. Not too, too obvious, but just enough so that he knows for a fact. Have your friends talk to him and find out who he likes. Stuff like that should work. Good luck!
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The biggest problem is that you are just assuming he doesn't like you. You are just creating that idea by obsessing. Unless he has told you that he doesn't like you then don't decide that.
A lot of times when a guy likes a girl, he kind of ignores her because he isn't sure how to act around her. Just act naturally so he can feel comfortable around you.
It may also be that he really isn't intreasted, but feels that you are. The way he's acting right now that bothers you could just being him saying he doesn't want to go out. So, even if he does or does not like you, you need to do the same thing. Be casual, natural, and cool to be around.
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If you did nothing wrong he has no reason to be mad but again guys are lame like that.Have one of your friends talk to him and ask him why he doesn`t like you anymore.If you don`t want them to thenyou should.I know this might be hard but it`s better then just wondering what you did and why you stopped talking.♥
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Okay well this may sound very typical, but you need to talk with him. Get him when he's alone and just ask him. perhaps he heard that you didn't like him anymore or something like that, but just be honest with him.
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talk to him..tell him whats on your mind. people say "its easier said than done." no its not. its only complicated when you make it that way. if he really hates you, he can tell you why and maybe you can fix it. but maybe he thinks you dont like him..youll never know unless you ask.
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You said ou barely ever talk to each other, you should! Just bring up a conversation..at school or on the internet, wherever you see him at.
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He mgit still like you but not know how to deal with it or maybe he just stopped liking you. You never know. Talking to him is really the only way to see where he is at. It might be awkward but if she pplay if off like your not nervous or anything, he'll probablyfeel more comfortable. Before just going out and asking you should become his friend. Talk to him. Just simple things like "hey how was your day?" or "Ahh math today sucked" (wel lif our in school obvisously) or "Remember that time when...that was cool". Just something like that. Good luck and I'm sure that he would be lucky to have you!
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Eh, people go in and out of feelings. You're both probably really young, so don't worry about it.
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