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Boyfriend is being mean
Hey, my boyfriend and I are real greatt ogether but the thing is. he keeps teasing me like calling me dork and stuff. It seems like hes joking, which i dont mind but. HE DOES ALL THE TIME. and then think its cute when i get mad..i dont like it. i dont know how to tell him i dont like it without making him feel like i hate him or something. Plus i once told him he can call me
his lil black slave cuz it turns me on (hes white im black) but he says it too much. but i hate it...and he likes to spank my butt. idk what to do...he's too kinky.
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if u dont like sumthing that he does to you, you should tell him and if he really likes you and really cares for you he should understand
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First of all you gotta tell him how it is! you have to tell him how it makes you feel. just tell him that he does it too much. and if he has a problem with not being mean to you then i think y'all need to get other people to be around. just tell him straight up
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ok well first off if you don't like him to your butt and you tell him to stop and he doesn't that is ual harassment.
anyways,i would tell him that you don't like it when he calls you these things. if he doesn't listen to you and keeps it up, im sorry hunn, he's not a good boyfriend and i most certainly would dump him.
good luck!♥
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You need to make a stand for yourself.
One way to address would be to say - ya know, it was really funny the first 75 times you said it - but now it's NOT.
Teasing can be sweet and fun and usually means that someone likes you. If it is continuous it is called passive aggression and he is actually trying to hurt you. If he doesn't take you for real and stop treating you this way you need to find a new boyfriend. Otherwise it will only continue to get worse, especially if you say stop and he doesn't, but you still stay.
hope this helps.
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Wow girl you need to stand up & say something!!! Ok, he calls you names & most imporantly the slaps your ass! WOW you truely need to say something. Don`t let a guy think your scared because then he might think he can do anything with you. Try askinghim to stop nicly & if he gets mad tell him the truth. Tell him you don`t like him calling you names & he knows he would feel the same way if you did the same thing. if that DOESN`T work take matters in yuor own hands & tell him you had enough & just walk away. If he comes running back he loves you & didn`t mean it but if he doens`t do anything leave him. That`s my opinion & I hope I helped you !!
Hope it works! ♥
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