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My best friend hasn't been acting like a best friend. Should
My best friend hasn't been acting like a friend. She is always blaming things that I didn't do on me and even blaming them on my mom. I really don't know what to do. We had some great times together, but is it right to let that go?
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If she's dragging family into it, then I think you should just talk to her about it and if she continues to do it and blame stuff on you then I think you shouldnt be her friend anymore because thats not a true friend.
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She's dragging family into it, and that right there would cross the line for me in any friendship. Once someone says something about my family in the wrong tone or aspect, the friendship is over. Blood is thicker than water.
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You have to ask her what she is feeling. No one really knows how someone else feels. It could be something to do with her family or maybe there just isn't a friendship anymore.
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Ask her "what is actually bothering her?" because it is impossible for us to be responsible for all her failings.
It's a cop out to blame game it. one has to step up and take responsibility for there own mistakes. She will continue to do it whist you allow her to continue upsetting you & Mum. So you need to put a stop to it. set her up make her see with out a doubt she is the blame for that. It is wrong for her to treat you both less than fair or equal. you weren't put on this Earth to please her but to share friendship and good times. She shouldn't be taking out her frustrations on you two there must be an underlying issue she has not dealt with. Good luck
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