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OK first off i've never been on a date before. Tomarrow, I will be going on my first date and I'm extreamly nervous. I have no idea what to do. We're going to a movie and than out to eat. I hate eating in front of people, so I'm horrified. Please tell me what you do on these types of dates. For example, during the movie do you just sit there and watch it? Or what? I'm so confused, and nervous it's crazy. So please help! Also, what are some things I can do to be less nervous? I need to know before later Sunday night! PLEASE HELP!
♥ Lisa (link)
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woahh. i was just as nervous the first time i was going on a real date, but just relax, because that makes it so much easier than if youre all stressed over what to do. just watch the movie. when youre out to eat dont worry about it. hes not gonna care about the way you eat. im sure everythings gonna be fine. have a great time =]
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14/f
My really good friend "kayley" has an older brother named "kyle". He's 17. yeah. Sure, 3 years won't be that much difference in the future... & i know that it probably wont happen for us now. What i'm really interested in hearing is, whether he's "into" me or not. He acts like it (from what i can tell) but the thing is, i'm so dense, that my friends laugh at me for it! We have a lot of fun together, just recently we had a light saber fight from star wars. haha. we gave each other massive welts from hitting so hard with the fake plastic light sabers. & sometimes we flirt.( (link)
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it really depends on the situation, but a lot of times, these relationships with people more than 2 years apart dont work out as well as you might have hoped. but if you like him, then go for it. flirt with him all the time, and make him notice you. have your friends help you out. seems to me like he might be into you, but sometimes people can flirt with you and not be "into" you. but still give it a shot.
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Hi!I'm 27 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. We have been planning to settle down in the near future but we were just waiting for him to finish law school. Some time last week, he told me he wanted to break up with me because he's been going thru a lot of pressure with his studies. I told him that I understand and that I'm willing to wait for him. I said I wanted to fight for our relationship cuz I love him so much. Then he confessed... He got a girl pregnant from a "One Night Stand" he had a couple of months ago. I asked him if it was an affair and if he loved the girl. He said he didn't and doesn't have plans of marrying the girl. I was just thinking, had it not been for the girl getting pregnant, then I wouldn't have found out that he cheated on me. Please advice on what I should do. I love him so much but I don't know if it would be right to stay with him knowing that I might not be able to give him my full trust anymore. He's not only my boyfriend but he's also my best friend. I need your advice cuz I can't think clearly now. Thanks! (link)
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it seems like you really love this guy. it doesnt seem that its fair to you though because he cheated on you, and now is going to be a father to someone elses child. the decision is up to you. you're going to have to forgive him for this, or just move on. moving on hardly seems like an option because youve been together for so long. it'll probably take a lot of work, but i think you should try to work past this.
good luck =)
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i love this guy and we used to be friends and he has been acting all weird lately and i think he likes my friend and my friend likes him and she keeps saying well whats the big deal if i go out with him. i really want him back.
signed i love him (link)
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she cant just go out with your crush and expect you to not be mad. you have to sort this out with her before it becomes a huge fight. it really depends on circumstances, but usually, you shouldnt go out with your best friends ex, or crush. she needs to know that. and you need to tell her. good luck
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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn (link)
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usually, its hard when your friends wont stop nagging you about it, but you should go for it anyways. you shouldnt not go out with him just because of what your friends want. they shouldnt be trying to make your decisions for you. good luck =)
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Im 12 && Female.
My boy friend is 13. Me and Him have been dating for 2 years. We've had the best relationship ever. He doesnt get Jealous easily, I dont either. We buy gifts all the time, and Hang out alot. We "study" together. We've only gone as far as making out.. But a few days ago on the phone, he said he wanted to go a step further, but I told him, Im too young && not ready for that. He told me, if i wanted to be with him any longer I'd do it. Then i hung the phone up on him. i dont want to do it. Im not going to, But i feel so empty inside, Its crazy. I never heard him talk to me like that. We havent talked for 2 days. I dont know if i should call him, Im scard to call. (link)
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if you dont want to go any further with him, you dont have to. call him, and say your sorry about the little fight, but that doesnt change your opinion whatsoever. tell him that if he loves you, he'll respect your wishes, and he'll wait for you to be ready, no matter how far away that'll be. you dont have to do what he wants, just because he cant wait for you. thats not fair to you at all. i also have to say, i've never heard of someone whos on 12 years old, and has been going out with her boyfriend for two years. good for you. and good luck =)
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Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month now. Well we're not very close and there are certain things i want him to do but i dont know how to tell him. Everyone says i should just tell him or whatever, but i dont want to. And i can't really hint at him because hes kind of oblivious sometimes lol. And im like not in his profile and when he signs on or i sign on im always the one to IM him. What should i do? How do i get the word across to him of what i want him to do? I just want him to you know hug me and you know...lol just be close with me. Yeah i know that sounds retarded. So I'll rate really high for good answers thanks soo much for your help ♥ (link)
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well, you certainly should talk to him. it seems as if he acts like he doesnt even know you. nevermind, your his girlfriend. talk to him and see what he says. if he just blows it off and ignores you, then he really isnt worth it. good luck.
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ok..so..i realllllllllLy like this guy and NO ONE knew....ok well he was like UBER flirting with me in science he kept taking my bookbag and like that was cool you know cuz hes :)...and then corx and lishi were like ima ask him if he likes you....and lishi said do you like chasity and he made this face ((they said)) like why would i tell you and said nu uh...and lishi was like would you ever go out with her....and he made that face again and was like nu uh.....and now i think they ruined what lil chance i did have
and like me and him were getting to know each other..and like starting to talk and not many guys accually like me...and so..yea..
what should i do??...i rate 5s for any answers!
thanks, (link)
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try talking to this guy yourself. he might like you and wont say because hes afraid you dont like him back. i dont think your friends ruined the chance that you have, or had. keep talking to this guy and flirting with him and maybe things will work out between you and him. good luck. =)
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I feel like nobody likes me, and I dont know what I do wrong. Are they too embarrassed to talk to me? Or am I non-attractive> (link)
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well, i cant tell you if your attractive or not because i dont know you and have never seen you. but, if you want people to talk to you, maybe you should start talking to them first. they probably dont talk to you because you dont talk to them.
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Hey guys. Okey so i tried typing this into a online translator but the sentence gets all screwed up..and it's not like its a homework or anything..i want to let this guy i like know that i like him. And i thought it would be cute to do it in french since that's how we met..he was tutoring me :) anyway this is hwta i'd like translated : Iäm writing to let you know that i can't stop thinking about you. You are constantly on my mind. You are a unforgettable person with an amazing personality. I'd never be able to describe what i like about you..because that would take me forever.
Can anyone translate that?
Or does anyone know something else you could say in french? THANK YOU soo sooo sooo incredibly much.
Lots of love :D (link)
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i translated it for you... here it is
L'écriture d'Iäm vous a fait savoir que je ne puis pas cesser de penser à vous. Vous êtes constamment sur mon esprit. Vous êtes une personne unforgettable avec une personnalité étonnante. Je ne pourrais jamais décrire ce que j'aime au sujet de you..because qui me prendrait pour toujours.
that is so sweet!
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Me and my boyfriend broke up last week! im not taking it too well! i have cryed everynight since that night! i love him soooooooo much! he means the world to me. hes my everything. i mean he still wants to b friends but i codnt put myself thro that much pain! i want him bak and im planning on talking to him. but honestly i dont no wot to do! i mean he used to care so much about me! i dont no wot happened. i mean u cod tell just the way he looked at me that he loved me. and now all of a sudden he just doesnt have feelings for me anymore! i dont no wot i did! i havent exactly been the same ever since. everytime a see him my heart tears apart all over again. i saw him hugging one of his girl friends (not girlfriends one of his friends thats a gurl) and my heart literally shattered! i started ballin in the middle of the hallways. i just dont no wot to do. how the hell can i get over him! i mean i dont wanna b like this but i wanna get bak together with him. im not ready to give up on him quite yet. we went thru everything together! he was always there for me and i for him! i was there wen he got himself into trouble and had to go to juvi, i was there for him wen he was depressed, and wen he got put on housearrest, i was there for him wen his grandpa died, and I was there for him to offer a shoulder to cry on wen his ex girlfriend had an abortion on their baby! i mean he took my virginity! he wod always b VERY prtective over our relationship and very protective over me! i dont no wot i did wrong! i cared so much about him. i loved him with all my heart. i mean he used to compliment me so much! said i was sexy, smart, funny, caring, nice, kind, and sweet! i just dont understand! (link)
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sometimes people can be really fake. he might have not really thought this of you after all, since he really seems insenstive. the way he just all of a sudden broke up with you was kind of harsh. explain to him that you love him, and arent ready for him to leave you. tell him how much you cared for him, and how it hurts. maybe he is sensitive, and will understand. if he still doesnt want to get back together with you, then your just going to have to get over him. i know it will take a really long time for you to get over it. probably a really long time, but eventually the pain will fade. good luck. if you need anymore help then just let me know!
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female, 16
recently things in my life havent been going to well.. a while ago me and my ex broke up and we totally were so mad and backstabing eachother like crazy.. and so i found comfort in my best friend (daniel) ive known him for like ever and we tell eachother everything.. we were about to get together after getting over our exs but then they both stepped in again and i have no idea what to do.. but also we are back together with them.. but before that happened i was starting to like antoher guy.. and we dated for a while. but things happened and he felt clingy and i felt liek i had to get away.. and now we totallly hate eachother.. n hes dating this other girl who is totally fake.. idk wat to do.. bc if i tell him hell deny and blame more stuff on me.. even worse.. he writes it on his xanga and blames me for stuff i didnt do.. idk what to do.. better yet i dont know what actions to take because everything feels liek im backtraking... help.. if you understnad this at all.. thanks
carebear (link)
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you should just break up with the guy your with now, and tell your friend how much you like him. tell him you'd rather be with him. dont insult the girl he's with though, because if you do, he'll probably get really mad and defensive. you dont want that if your trying to patch things up with him. tell him you just want everything to get worked out and you wanna be with him. (assuming that is what you want, your question was a bit confusing but i think i get most of it) after that, the rest is up to him. hes going to have to decide whether he'd rather be with you, or with some other girl. thats all you can really do. good luck. =)
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my bf and i are going to the movies this weekend and he wants to kiss me and all and i do to but i am afraid. I am afraid that i will mess up. CAn someone please explain how you kiss and not just say you will no how! i rate 5'z (link)
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i understand this isnt what you want to hear, but there is no wrong way to do it. your not going to mess up, as long as you stay calm. the more focused you get on it, the more your going to worry, and thats just unnesecary. its not as big of a deal as it seems to you right now. stop worrying so much and then you'll do fine. the only way to get better is to practice, so you'll be getting better when your kissing him! good luck.
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so i have this boyfriend..but we dont talk a lot. i love him SOOO muchh but i always get these really weird butterflies whenever i'm around him. he doesnt act like he likes me but everyone says he likes me A TON. i wanna like hug him, kiss him and hold hands with him but i dont think we're close enough..since we dont talk a lot..how can i get close to him and non shy??? and this might seem weird but..how could i get close enough to like hug and kiss him??? (link)
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start to get closer to him. just take his hand and hold it, maybe he'll start to catch on that you want him just as much as he wants you. hes probably just too shy, too scared to start holding you and hugging you and stuff. whenever you see him, go up and give him a hug. before you leave when your with him, give him a hug. if he doesnt catch on after that, i dont know what to tell you. he may just be a bit slow. maybe you could tell one of his friends that you know to tell him to give you a hug and hold your hand. if he wont hold hands and hug you yet, you may have to wait a bit longer for that kiss. good luck.
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well, here's the deal. I really like this guy, like alot! he's so perfect in almost every way. I guess you could kind of say that we're together, but nothings official. I want to be with him so bad, but theres a porblem... my best friend is his little sister. he's a junior, and i'm a freshman and his sister's a sophomore. you'd think that they'd be really close, but they're not, not at all. she's my best friend, so i've told her all about her brother and i. She made it really clear that we should not be together. She doesn't even think that he would ever want to be with me because I'm a freshman. when she first told me all of this i promised that it was just a crush, and that i would never date him, because i knew she was against it. but at that time i never thought any thing would really happen between us. now things are starting to happen and i really want then to happen. i can't help how i feel, and her reasoning for not wanting us to be together seem pretty stupid. but at the same time, she is my best friend and hopefully always will be. I think going out with her brother would hurtour friend ship, but i don't want to give up this opportunity with the perfect guy. i need help!!! what should i do? (link)
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im really sorry about that. your going to have to pick one of them, because your friend obviously doesnt agree with you dating her brother. you know the right thing to do is to stay with your friend. one of my best friends got mad at me because i went out with a guy she didnt want me to go out with. (even though it wasnt her brother) that was last march. me and this guy broke up in may. my friend still doesnt talk to me because she thinks i was a bad friend and always will be. when i decided to pick the guy over her, i assumed id be able to win her back. but she has never forgave me and still wont speak to me. so make this decision carefully because if you pick her brother, most likely, you wont be together forever. it'll be nice when it lasts, but your friend may never be as close with you after it. guys come and go, but friends will last forever. i suggest you just dont go out with him unless your friend changes her mind about you being with her brother. good luck.
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okay so the other night, my friend told me she likes me, and 2 nights later I asked her out. And she says "I would love too, but I have to bring my grades up and I have Cheer competitions almost every weekend in in January." I really like her and my other friend told me just to give her time. And i don't know if i should give her time or what to do? (link)
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your friend is right. if you wanna go out with her, and shes pretty busy right now, then just wait for her. eventually she'll be ready to go out with you probably.
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i have a crush on my friends brother and he used to like me. but last year i messed it up, and now i really miss him. he and i didnt go out but we flirted alot, and now i wish i was going out with him. he acted like i was the most icky thing on earth for like a year, but lately he has been acting a little nicer to me. what should i do????? i still really like him and i dont know what to do. please help.
i will rate
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talk to him more, and flirt with him alot. eventually, maybe he'll start to like you more and ask you out later. if not, at least your getting to spend a bit more time with him. im sure in time, he will start to like you a bit more. show him a different side of you other than the "icky" one. good luck.
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16/f
alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?! (link)
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ask him whats up. maybe theres something going on with him? talk to him and see why hes acting this way. if he just simply says he doesnt know what your talking about, or that nothing is wrong, then tell him you know something is up, or ask him if he still likes you, cause he sure isnt acting like he does. if nothing works with him, simply do the same thing to him as hes doing to you. then maybe he'll realize how annoying and confusing stuff like that can get.
good luck!
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Hey! I'm 13 and I just asked this one girl out that I've had a crush on for about a year. She knew I've liked he for a month and now that I've asked her out, she can't decide what to say. Its been 2 days since I asked her out and all she has said is "probably". What should I do if she doesn't say anything tomorrow at school? (link)
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well if she doesnt know, then whatever. move on until she decides she wants to get back to you. talk to her and let her know you feel kinda weird with her not responding right away and it'd be better if she could give you an answer instead of just leaving it hanging like that. if she cant decide soon, then she obviously doesnt want you enough. after a few days, just move on. good luck.
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14/female
okay this boy likes me but he doesnt want to ask me out yet because he thinks im prude and well i only had one other boyfriend before and we only kissed like once but it was like a second. and i dont want a reputation as prude! so i would like to know some tips for kissing someone like much longer than a second ! like making out ! =)
so please leave tips pleasee !! or just anything about kissing that could help me
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i dont know how many times ive told people this, but theres no "proper way" or "good tips" on kissing people. its alot easier, and alot less complicated when you dont try to do certain stuff to make yourself better. just go with it when your kissing someone. its not really a big deal. good luck
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