female, 16
recently things in my life havent been going to well.. a while ago me and my ex broke up and we totally were so mad and backstabing eachother like crazy.. and so i found comfort in my best friend (daniel) ive known him for like ever and we tell eachother everything.. we were about to get together after getting over our exs but then they both stepped in again and i have no idea what to do.. but also we are back together with them.. but before that happened i was starting to like antoher guy.. and we dated for a while. but things happened and he felt clingy and i felt liek i had to get away.. and now we totallly hate eachother.. n hes dating this other girl who is totally fake.. idk wat to do.. bc if i tell him hell deny and blame more stuff on me.. even worse.. he writes it on his xanga and blames me for stuff i didnt do.. idk what to do.. better yet i dont know what actions to take because everything feels liek im backtraking... help.. if you understnad this at all.. thanks
carebear
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? frenchfries21 answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 4:37 pm: you should just break up with the guy your with now, and tell your friend how much you like him. tell him you'd rather be with him. dont insult the girl he's with though, because if you do, he'll probably get really mad and defensive. you dont want that if your trying to patch things up with him. tell him you just want everything to get worked out and you wanna be with him. (assuming that is what you want, your question was a bit confusing but i think i get most of it) after that, the rest is up to him. hes going to have to decide whether he'd rather be with you, or with some other girl. thats all you can really do. good luck. =)
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