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hey everyone[: im emily, im thirteen + i love giving advice. drama, gossip, and rumors suuuck. if you ask me a question i will give you an honest good answer not a crappy bad one. if you dont like that, then dont ask me question. im on this site to give accurate good answers to help people. ive been on this site for a little over 2 years. if you dont get an answer you are looking for from another person, AIM me, im sure to help you, or just leave me a question.

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okay so one day this guy txted me out of the blue and weve been txting each other everyday ever since and he says hes 13 likes soccer like me and it seems like we have alot in common but weve never actually met in person or even talked on the phone just txting but dont know how to tell if hes telling the truth or not and i really want to meet him in person but what if hes not who he says he is thanx ahead of time 13/f

just like the person below me said, its an internet predator, someone along those lines. dont go meet him, its NOT safe.

good luck + hope i helped. (:

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I'm wanting to shave my private hairs, but I'm wondering if there's a certain way you're supposed to do it or if you have any suggestions on how to.

there isnt really a "correct" way, just to be careful + after you do it, your vagina might be a little itchy + you might get a little razor burn, but nothing too serious.

good luck!

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how can you tell if a guy is a player? thanks

well, they will go out for a girl for a few days and then find another girl RIGHT AFTER and go out with her for a few days, and it repeats. they'll ask to see things from you, and they wont thank you for it. it basically means "your just another girl that im gonna play."

good luck

+ hope i helped.

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Alright, about to spend Valentine's day alone
and i want a boyfriend
any ideas of personalities or looks i should look for
How do you tell if a guy likes but, is to shy to ask you out
What's a good way to flirt
Also, I have a Stalker
How do i let him down without being very rude

you dont NEED anything, especially when your talking about a boyfriend. it takes time to fall in love with a special person. it just cant happen like that. ive spent plenty valentine's day alone, its not that bad.

for the flirting issue, be outgoing, dont be so shy, ad kep everything in your littls shell, bring everything out, and talk to the kids you like, bt dont make it WICKED obnoxious.

hope i helped!

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my bf and i have been going out for 6 months im almost 15 hes 15 and hes a bit shy we make out but dont do much else he gets nervous especially when asked if i could see his penis he told me that its small i said not to worry it doesnt matter and uptil now he's still shy about me seeing his penis what else can i do se hes not insecure?

give him time. guys are like that sometimes. you need to get more comfortable with him and then talk to him about you seeing his penis. and if he really doesn't want to show you it, then you can't push him, you'd be a bad girlfriend(; make him feel comfortable around you, act yourself, joke around him, and remind him that there is nothing to be nervous about, its you, your his girlfriend, and you know you wouldnt make fun of him.

i hope this helped! (:

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well me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years i brought up a question about how many women he has been with since we have been together well he said one i said i have not been with any since we have been together i didnt say when we were broke up so lastnight he asked the same question and i told him i have been with one other person but that was when we broke up not when we were together and he got all furios and said i lied to him i dont see how i lied when he asked while we were together and not when we were broke up he told me he was with one other person when we broke up and i asked him how he thoght he was better then i was when he done the same thing his answer was "just am" now he refuses to talk to me my qestion is shold i break up with him and move on ?

well, im not too experienced in this kind of situation. but ill try to help you.

what you can do is, maybe sort things all out, talk about who you were with, both of you, and then clarify it all. then, just say, i think we should go seperate ways if we want to see other people. but i think you 2 should remain friends.

but this does depend on your age quite a little, if you are young, you will find true love in another person, if you are older, it might be a little harder.

well, i hope this helped a bit.
if you need anymore help, leave me another question.

xoxox, emily.

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okay me and my bf have more in common than different
but one of the big differences is he actually likes to talk about problems and i don't i hate talking things out. when ever we have a fight i get scared not that hes going to dump me but the fact thats hes going to want to talk about it so should change myself for that because i dont want to lose him

never change yourself for anyone, not even a boyfriend, but i do think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel so you can cope it out. a relationship needs to be comfortable + you need to talk things out with eachother, you'll know you'll have someone who will listen! [:

hope i helped!

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Okay I'm 13/f he's 14/m [ going to be 15 in January ] , we've dated off and on for 6 months. We were really serious for a long time back in June - September then when he went into high school [grade 9] and I'm still in grade 8 [we go to diffrent schools until next year] Amyways , I lost my virginity to him and a while after he started grtting stressed from highschool and smoking [ I smoke to ] and doing weed [ I do it too ] and he's changed some , but he's still the guy I used to be so serious with and he knows I really love him still and the problem is he's dating my bestfriend [it's not as bad as it seems] but he likes this other girl too .

So , he does like me though . So , I was wondering how I could try to get him to like me more.If it helps , he's pretty family oriented , I talk to his mom a lot , he's played baseball for 9 years , he dislikes school and he's really sweet and I can talk to him about anything .

Also , I know some of the chocies I'm making aren't the most amazing , but I'd rather not have lectures please , I get them enough from my friends and teachers.
All Help will be apreciated and rated
Thank you

well for 1, you shouldnt be smoking weed or anything like that, + waay to young to be having sex. and 2, if he knows you love him, then whats the problem? if he has a girlfriend, hes not going to like you, i think you should just talk to him, be friendly, and be yourself. maybe things will work out for you 2 someday. hope i helped[:

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18/f
I went out with this guy for a short period about a year ago,and when i told him i didnt want to date him anymore, he said hopefully we would be able to date again. I love him more now than i ever did then, and I feel like my time has past, but I really would like for him to know how i feel. How do I do that?

you could either tell him straight up, or just give him little hints that aree cuute[: either way, he'll get the point[: if he loves you too, your time surely hasnt passed. hope i helped[:

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one of my friends, j, is the best thing ever. i need to get him, and i need to get him fast. he seems to be more attatched to my two other friends, a and m, who are fresh/cool, and thin/sporty, respectively.

talk to "j" more and be flirtatous around him, and get to know him, then sure enough he'll figure out what a great person you are, then you can make a move!
hope i helped! -emily

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so i like this guy and he likes my best friend. And we hang out all the time but i dont know if he hangs out with me so he can get me to hang out with her.I was talking to him for a long time at the foot ball game and he seemed like he liked me but i dont know if he was hanging out with me to make her jelous. what do you think

ok well, does your best friend like him back? if she does, then thats a problem. and the first thing, you need to talk to your best friend about this first. THEN talk to the guy and see what he says, then talk to them together then straighten things out, then if he says that he doesnt like your best friend, then go for it!

hope i helped!

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13/F
Last year i was dating this boy and it wasnt really normal. At first i didnt like him and we both said a lot of stuf f behind eachothers backs that we didnt find out about until after we broke upand it hurt both of us. He was my first kiss and we were adorable together. But thats over. And hes turned into a bit of a whore. I mean, hes had like 10 girlfriends since we broke up a little bit before the summer.
But that dosent matter. Ive been kind of getting over everything since then, just because i really dnt wnt to get into somthing else with someone else and still like my ex. But now im missing being such a flirt, and having lovey dovey conversations. How do i get back into that? I miss having exciting stories to tell my friends and having a sweet text always waiting for me on my phone. Is it healthy to be that attatched to a boy? I mean i want what i had with my ex.it was kind of serous but we had fun. It was so serous that we said maybe wed get married. We were talking 24/7. But that takes a while to get over. Now im totally staying away from the guys. I dont know WHY tho, i was never shy before.. Please help!

yeah i have been through this, and to be completely honest, it is hard to get over an ex, and to get back to lovey dovey. but, the time will come, and you cant rush it. when you see someone you truely loove and like and really want to go out with them, thats when it all happens! thats when you make a move and start being all lovey dovey again, dont worry the time will come (:, hope i helped and gooood luck (:

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Ok so I just started talking to my ex again because i missed him so i IMed him and he was like heyy and i was like look i really like you stil and he felt the same way! && now i dont know what my next move should be cuz i dont want to get hurt again.

this exact thing happened to my friend. If you really like the guy, u should date him. But in my opinion he's probably going to do the same exact thing he did to you before. But if you really like him, try it, if it happens again ull know for the next time =]

hope i helped
xoxo
emily

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Hey dudes & dudettes ,

Im going out with a guy that I really like what kind of stuff should I talk to him about so he would be interested in me more... how do I know if he will dump me ??

thankx
Dianna

Talk about what you guys both like. When you pass him in the hallway, give him a smile and maybe a little wave, that should do it. =]

hope i helped


emily

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OKAY, so..This saturday I'm going to go hangout with the boy I have a crush on. He has a crush on me too. There are going to be other people with us 'cause we are going to a local concert. Well, I really want to kiss him, and impress him by doing this. I just don't know how to approach this. Where should I do it? How should I go in for the kiss? What should I do? I know that if I did it infront of friends they would be stunned, and I really don't want them to see. But, I REALLY want to do this. Can anyone help? I'd appriciate any answers. =) THANK YOU SO MUCH! ♥

well in my opinion, i think you should wait until you guys are going out before you kiss him. You can ask him out when you guys hangout on saturday. Then, maybe you can give him a little kiss on the cheek. But nothing serious yet.

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how can i make the girls for crazy for me i would really like it im not the kind of person to go for lots but theres just this one .. that drives me crazy .. i think about her at the most unexpected times. at the store, the other week when i almost got in a car acident alls i could think about is her.. and in p.e. for school when i run.. its a hard run about a 15km so i think if i run the whole thing she will be there at the end and be proud of me so it keeps me going .. well i might be crazy but its only for her .. please help ive liked her for 4 years now .. an on and off relationship from going out to friends .. she says i get attachted to fast.. what can i do ?

15/M

well, you can tell her your feelings. You'll be surprised what a difference it can make. She might even have the same feelings as you. Try talking to her friends. Maybe sit with her at lunch, flirt with her, maybe ask her to hang out. That way, you guys can get closer.

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hope i helped

emily

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Here's my story..

I like this boy and at one point I think he liked me too.Now,I can't even get him to look at me.I really like him.I don't know much about him.But,I do know that I really like him.What should I do to get him to notice me? I try everything to get him to notice me.But,it fails evertime....HOW DO I GET HIM TO NOTICE ME? WHAT?? HELP ME!!

Oh i get these ?'s a lot. Well, you can ask your friends to tell him to talk to you...but thats not a very good idea. Just talk to him, get more aquainted with him

If you spend more time with him, hell notice that you like him and that you realy want him to notics you.

It will work out!

hope i helped!

thx for droppin one!

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i kno girls arent nsupposed to ask guys out, but i like this guy and im almost positive he likes me back- im gonna see him friday night i think so what do i say to him?

Its not against the law to ask guys out. Ive asked lots of guys out. If you like him, then go for it! You'll be happy in the outcome. But yes, basically what everyone said below is true.

Good Luck :]

Hope i helped

xoxo emily xoxo

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ok i just now started going out with this guy,kevin yesterday but we do not connect you kno its like we are shy all the time or somthing we barley talk i need some help 2 get lose around him soo we can act like boy friend and girlfriend i need sum help on how a girlfriend is suppose 2 act this is only my second boyfriend but i want 2 get it right this time because i really like him i dont want us 2 break up because of lack of communication and intrest

plez help me

You should bring up a conversation with him, sit next to him at lunch, share your food with him, call him or have him call you, anything u can do to make it less alkward to talk to him.

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

OMG! You dont have to have a boyfriend to complete your life. No its not bad and you shouldn't feel like a loser. Your time will come. DOnt just say yes to a boy if you just wanna have a boyfriend. Thats wrong. Just do what ur heart says when a boy asks you out. Ur time will come. Dont worry!

Rate please

I hope this helped!

~XSmartieX

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