Question Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 10:59 am
Okay I'm 13/f he's 14/m [ going to be 15 in January ] , we've dated off and on for 6 months. We were really serious for a long time back in June - September then when he went into high school [grade 9] and I'm still in grade 8 [we go to diffrent schools until next year] Amyways , I lost my virginity to him and a while after he started grtting stressed from highschool and smoking [ I smoke to ] and doing weed [ I do it too ] and he's changed some , but he's still the guy I used to be so serious with and he knows I really love him still and the problem is he's dating my bestfriend [it's not as bad as it seems] but he likes this other girl too .
So , he does like me though . So , I was wondering how I could try to get him to like me more.If it helps , he's pretty family oriented , I talk to his mom a lot , he's played baseball for 9 years , he dislikes school and he's really sweet and I can talk to him about anything .
Also , I know some of the chocies I'm making aren't the most amazing , but I'd rather not have lectures please , I get them enough from my friends and teachers.
All Help will be apreciated and rated
Thank you
But maybe this guy needs reassurance let him know that you like him do the things that mad him fall for you in the first place it seems like you really like him and you know him pretty well so just do the things you know he likes justr ask to chill with him somtimes and build up the more than friends relationship again... [ ravin06's advice column | Ask ravin06 A Question ]
dancedance42 answered Saturday December 22 2007, 8:14 pm: He doesnt sound like the guy you want to be with.
He smokes, which isnt good, and hes kind of a player.
However, if you want to be with him you have to tell him how you feel.
ALSO, you are way to young to have sex and smoke and smoke weed. Thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard. Before you talk to him, quit smoking, cause if you dont youll die. Lung cancer, you know? And if you dont want to quit for yourself, think of the people you are killing around you. Yes, second hand smoke causes lung cancer. Dont be an idiot...or at least try not to do anything else that jeopardizes your life and peoples lives around you.
emilyjessica0x answered Saturday December 22 2007, 12:52 pm: well for 1, you shouldnt be smoking weed or anything like that, + waay to young to be having sex. and 2, if he knows you love him, then whats the problem? if he has a girlfriend, hes not going to like you, i think you should just talk to him, be friendly, and be yourself. maybe things will work out for you 2 someday. hope i helped[: [ emilyjessica0x's advice column | Ask emilyjessica0x A Question ]
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