How do I show the guy I like that I'm interested and how can I get him to be interested in me without flat out saying "I like you do you like me?" He and I are friends and we have classes together the last 3 periods of the day and talk a lot during them. I think he might like me but I'm not 100%.
Honestly, my best suggestion is to just talk to him. I know it's easier said than done because I rarely talk to the guys I like about liking them, but if you're friends just try talking to him.
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My wife and I had been married for over four years.
I have ADD and high anxiety which I'm not taking medication for.
I had a pretty good paying job but was laid off early 1n 2007.
My eyes started giving me problems before the lay off but I did get them checked out while I still had insurance.
Found out this year that both of my eyes have cataracts. I've attempted working at three jobs but my eye sight prevented me from passing the probationary period.
Here's my issue. I had a step daughter that had always found a ways into getting into trouble. Everything you asked her not to do, she went ahead and done. The computer she would stay on Instant messaging, My spacing all her friends till early morning.
I gave her so many chances but she proved to me she didn't care.
Her mother and I constantly fought about her because every time I tried to lay the Law down, the discipline was always to severe.
Even if it was just a few weeks without the computer.
Then she started on the phone..the same thing.
My wifes daughter wouldn't barely do any thing in the house.
And after her mother and I told her we expected more from her since she was 16, like washing clothes, doing the dishes...she made sure she washed only her stuff when begged, ( and if she washed three loads of clothes, it would take over three days and then you'd never find them put away) until I got so tired and fed up with her and the way me and her mother fought all of the time because how she ran the house, I made her move out when she turned 18 and graduated.
My step daughters every other word was profanity, and I don't think that she once told her mother or me the truth.
And Lord if you found her in a lie ( which was always ) she would cover it up with another one. She never admitted to anything she done. From bringing guys over when her mother and I were gone, to finding a ways to explain why she messed around with her best friends boyfriend.
Well, My father and mother passed away with cancer. And I made sure that no body smoked in the house. My wife and I don't smoke.
My wife invited her brother over ( or he invited his self ) and in both houses we used to live in, he smoked in each one, not caring.
And my wife let him and to this day, if he wanted to visit...I'm sure the same thing would have happened.
Well again, on Christmas eve of 2007, her daughter wanted to spend the night with us, to be there on Christmas. She smoked.
When I went down to visit my family in Alabama, mysteriously as it sounds, my wife let her daughter move back in knowing full well we never got along. Knowing full well her daughter never listened to one rule of the house, never helped out.
Then one day out of the many fights that broke out in the few months her daughter stayed there, my wife asked me to leave. And I did.
Amy, was I asking to much? Showing respect seems to be a thing of the past in today's society, but the way my wife handled each situation, and the way her daughter and her whispered and told there secrets, was it fair or justified at the way things were handled?
It seems as though the many things I accused her daughter of doing, my wife finally told me that yes, she did smoke pot, yes she was smoking in every room in the house when she ( her mother ) was in the hospital, yes, she fooled around with boys when we weren't there.
But instead of digging in deep and finally sticking up to her guns
and giving discipline to her daughter, it was easier to let me go.
What are the parameters of a marriage? Just because a person has children, does that erase the morality or any since of any opinion I may have had? I love her mother very much, but would I be asking for more heart ache if I tried pursuing this marriage. I don't want to walk away from this marriage. To me I think the Lord gave her to me, I'll get counseling and change anything I can.
But if I'm going to be the only one who'll attempt to change, will
this be visible?
Thank you
Put yourself in your wifes shoes. It's her daughter, and she's going to be willing to do anything for her because she probably feels she'll lose her if she doesn't. Now I understand that you don't get along with her, but honestly? Get over it and try to bond with her. But personally, I think that your main concern right now is getting your cateracts removed, getting a job, and working on your marriage, and THEN you can work on your relationship with your step-daughter.
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hi im a girl cant say my name sorry but i love this guy rite lets call him jake and hes popular but i dnt kw if he loves me and hes sooo cute i and can you please give me advice how to tell wheather he likes me so i can look out for though hints and some moves to get him to but not too ovious that i m crazy over him but just enough to show him that i care and 1 other prob my m8ts wont understand once i told them they broke out laughing and i said im joking because that was the only way out and how do i explain to them and do you kw what about my parents they will be mad if they find out i like someone or im going out plz help and please can you tell me what fingeimg means and vagina im only 10
Well, at your age I'm not really sure what would work for guys your age. Basically just be friendly to him and just get to know him and all that, then tell him how you feel. As for the friends, if they act that way about it, maybe they aren't the kinds of friends your looking for. Now for fingering and vagina, well you're only ten so honestly, I don't really feel comfortable telling you this, I'm sorry.
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Im a 13 yr old girl, and my boyrfriend is 15 and turning 16 soon. we really like each other and we connect so well. and ive already talked to him about respecting what im comfortable doing and stuff. but i feel like he is just waiting. and some of my friends who are friends with him said he isnt a virgin. and that kinda bothers me. but he is so sweet and honestly i love him. but i feel kinda bad that he wants to finger me and stuff but i wont let him. and because he is older then me he has done alot more stuff that i havnt, which makes me feel really in-expierienced. and i worry that if i do something im doing it wrong. he hasnt said anything about wanting me to do more with him but i think im getting some hints. like he is always going up my shirt when we are making out and stuff, but i always stop him, and then it seems like he gets a little frustrated because he just wants to move on, but im not ready, and he said thats okay, but im not sure that i believe him.. PLEASEE GIVE ME SOME FEEDBACK! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
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Keep trying to talk to him about it and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. Also, when he does do it, continue to stop him. If he does truly care then he'll respect what you want and he won't do it. So if you're not ready then you need to talk to him about it because you shouldn't do something that you don't want to do because you might regret it later. Plus, if you're doing it when you don't want to it's probably not going to be special. Plus, I don't see why lots of young people these days are having sex. I'm sixteen almost seventeen and I don't see the need to risk my future for a stupid guy.
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here's the thing,
i realized i was bi a while ago but i still can't get up the guts to tell anyone. my ex boyfriend knows but thats about it.... i'm scared i will loose friends and be looked down on by family...i do have one trusting friend though.
should i come out???
Well, I'd say go ahead and come out about it to your friends, if they are truly your friends you won't lose them. If you're family is the supportive type, then go ahead and come out to them. But to be honest, I'd say just come out to your friends.
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My boyfreind and i have known each other for a while now, but we havent been dating that long. i really like him, but we are both on the school wrestling team and dating is not allowed. But i dont want to break up with him because im way too attatched to him . he feels the same way. but we could get in seriose trouble if we get caught. what do i do??
First off, if you don't mind my asking why won't they let you date? That's very stupid and unfair in my opinion.
Anyway, I think that as long as you're not all over each other when you're at school or meets and things you should be okay.
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How can i turn a guy on? i know that apperently girl and girl turns on a guy but im straight and only 14. my best friends and i hug and put our arms around each other and stuff but...i want to know how to turn a guy on. Like things i can do or touch him innocently but really turns him on. sumthing i can do in public or at least in front of our friends. Thanks SO MUCH or say too i could say sumthing. i already know he likes me a lot so is just seeing me kinda a way of turning him on and i really want to drive him cazy in a good way and turn him ON! ;)
It really depends on the guy, but to be honest if you're only fourteen you shouldn't be worried about trying to turn a guy on.
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hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx!
Try talking to him about it.
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16/f My friend and I both like eachother. We've both expressed our feelings for eachother, but we've never kissed or anything else along those lines. I really want to start something with him, but the problem is that he's going to college and I won't be able to see him at school all the time anymore (he'll be about 2 hours away). How do I persuade him that we could work things out even if he goes to college? Anyone have any good reasons at why long term relationships can work? He doesn't believe that they can.
You can try it. But from experience I wouldn't. It ends up in heart break.
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i need to know if grils like geting secret antmirers gifts on valin time's day( i'm giving her a cristl heart) and if i should insribe some thing on it, what should i do.
Sure you can INSCRIBE something on a CRYSTAL heart for VALENTINES day. And this GIRL may be pleased with a secret ADMIRER. But not too pleased with your spelling.
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i flirt with this girl and she flirts back i lay on the grass with her and hold her hand people think we should go out , i ask her she said duno what do i do 4 her to go out with me
You can't force her to so just ask again.
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By the time people are around 20, do you recon they expect sex as part of a relationship?
Most people expect sex as part of a relationship whether they are twenty or not.
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ok hey girl wow I feel weird asking you but I am going 2 ok me an this boy been dating for 6 months we have been off an on for almost 5 years he is a big flirt we go to different schools but we have been through a lot together to much to even say but last Monday he broke up with me because he said I was a liar I have never lied to him I did not think I had to anyway's this Saturday I went to a party an he was there he saw me an his face got real weird looking we were all sitting around the club house in lake bernadete the have couch's well we are sitting in there an he kept looking at me I started crying to one of my friends which are also his friend an she is like its ok I walked out side to stop crying an I was like yawl know what hurts the most is that the person U want the most is sitting right next to you an you cant have them I wiped my tears an the birthday girl came to me an told me he was going to ask me out again I was jumping for joy I walked inside he blew me a kiss an I was like right then he said I know then I was like we need to talk he said no we don't an was playing it off that he hated me I was sitting there crying an then he got up walked away an went through these double doors well my friends cell phone rang an she said you better answer this one so I did an when I heard his voice I hung up he called back an said come thru these doors an there is an empty room down the hall so I walked down there an he said I have something to tell you I never want to date you again I started to cry then he said just kidding will you go back out with me I did not answer him right away I went to the bathroom balling my eyes out I came out we talked an I said no then I was like just kidding yes an I love you I said you new what my answer was going to be well I had to leave early 4 the dance we kissed a few times in the pool then I got out cause I was leaving he kissed me bye then I got home from the dance I called him he said I cant talk now ill call you back later I love you then he called later that night wanting me to come over the next day he said he was mad at me cause I never answered him an I did then I said well if I didn't I am now yes he said no you have to wait till I ask you out again.... now it has been 3 days an I found out he has been all over all theses girls what should I do should I wait around for him or should I tell him I am not going to wait that I am just hurting my self thinking he wants to be with me?? I have a lot more to say but my hands hurt from typing
What you should do is talk to him and tell him that you really love him but you dont like the fact that he keeps hurting you and that if he is going to keep hurting you then he's not worth your time. You could wait around for him but that might hurt you even more. You could also be all over some guys and then maybe it'll work out who knows. But I would tell him that he isn't worth your time since he keeps hurting you. Love you Crys, don't worry he'll come around in time. Just remember that you have me.
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i REEEEEEELY like this kid.. and well we flirt ALOT.. and ive heard that he likes me.. but i dont know if its true or not..and im not the kind to ask some one if they like me.. and i rely wanna know.. cuz i like him alot.. hes in my gym class.. and we have soo much fun in gym! but i rell a little uncomferatable bc i rely like him..
Have one of your friends ask him if he likes you.
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to put it simply.. about 5 guys like me a lot right now and are fighting over me... i cant just pick one though because i feel a connection
with every single one of them. i dont know what to do.. do i pick one of them or just try to find someone other than them so i wouldnt be "picking"?? please help me
Pick one. If it doesn't work out with him then try the next. =)
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I like this guy.. we hardly ever talk but I still like him.. what to do?
You should start talking to him more. Become friends with him. Who knows maybe you guys could end up together.
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hey i love your advice column! ok i have a huge question...what are somethings that i can do(actions) to make my bf want to kiss me more?
Honestly just be you. Kiss him if you want more kisses. Sorry this didn't help much.
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ok .. this might be a little confusing but im sorry! lets say im lydia and my sister is brittany. There are 3 guys involved in this. Lets say their names are billy, mitch, and john. Well i used to go out wiht john but we broke up like 5 months ago. Long story about us but to make it short, my dad didnt like him adn told him to never talk to me again. So of course he hasnt. Well now my dad said i can talk to john again, and i really want to because i still like him! billy and mitch are both of his friends. Well over last summer, mitch liked my sister, then when me and john broke up, mitch started liking me. Now mitch likes me and my sister. i like mitch, but not as a boyfriend, yet im jealous when he likes other girls. About billy, Billy likes me, but he doesnt know that i like him. The other day one of billy friends called me and said billy liked me and asked if i liked him. I said no even tho i do. Now billy thinks i dont like him, so he said he doesnt want to go out with me. He now says im hott and he likes me but doesnt want to go out with me. (because i said i didnt like him). Its all really confusing but i dont know what to do. Wednesday i am going to try to talk to billy and john but should i tell both of them i like them? I like john way more but i think john has a girlfriend. Please help the best you can. Any advise is welcome!! thanks so much!
That wasn't confusing but this answer might be kinda. And I don't know if you meant to ask this to everyone but if you did you only asked it to me. Well before you tell John that you like him then you need to find out if he has a girlfriend or not. And if he does then don't tell him at risk of the fact he could break up with his girlfriend. Sure that sounds good to you but think about what if you were the girl. Anyway tell Billy that you like him. As far as Mitch goes tell him the you only like him as a friend. Plus if John has a girlfriend you won't feel super sad because you still have Billy that you could go out with. I hope that this makes any sense to you. I also hope that you are happy with whatever results come from this. Oh and anyway if your sister likes Mitch then your sister could always go out with Mitch and that would make the Mitch end of this issue better.
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Okay I have two questions. One, how do you kiss? Like I know everyone kisses differently, but what are the basic steps to starting out.. does that make sense? Oh and I mean french kissing, not just regular. And then, what are some special techniques that a guy would like during kissing? From personal experiences, or whatever, just what do you think a guy likes when it comes to that. Thanks a lot!
Well really there isn't a way to explain it. You just start out as a normal kiss and stick your tounge in his mouth lol. :). Sorry I wasn't much of a help but I am not very good at giving step-by-step instructions.
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