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scared because of who i like
here's the thing,
i realized i was bi a while ago but i still can't get up the guts to tell anyone. my ex boyfriend knows but thats about it.... i'm scared i will loose friends and be looked down on by family...i do have one trusting friend though.
should i come out???
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I know exactly how you feel i'm a lesbien and it was hard coming out for my first time and well i told my "closest" friends all but one understood you just gotta tell your friends whats up if they are your real friends they shouldn't really care. the whole family situation well i bet your family will love you no matter what. well if u have anymore questions e-mail me at sk8erchickandev12@yahoo.com and if u have aol instant messanger my screen name is WSexi well hope i helped and goodluck
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It's good you have a trusting friend.If you feel your other friends are trusting tell them.I am sure your family will understand because they love you and will help you with your situation.
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Well, I'd say go ahead and come out about it to your friends, if they are truly your friends you won't lose them. If you're family is the supportive type, then go ahead and come out to them. But to be honest, I'd say just come out to your friends.
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Are you sure you are bi? If you're stil young, it could just be a phase. I've heard a lot of teenagers go through phases in which they question their sexuality. Though I haven't, this could be what you're expiriencing.
If you're sure though, then it's really up to you. You need to decide whether or not you want to tell people. I personally think you should tell your family, as they're your number one support system and those you spend the most time with. Also, you could tell a few close/best friends. Make sure the people you tell are people you trust and feel you can get support from. To them, it probably won't be such a big deal, because they should love you for the way you are.
I wouldn't spread it around too much though, as some people mmight look down upon you. I'm sorry to tell you this, it's just the way people are =/
-Laura. (15-f)
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