Member Since: November 21, 2007
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Last Update: November 21, 2007
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I am pretty sure I have OCD. I have a high amount of the symptoms of OCD. This is not a problem for me. I have a very mild condition, and often simply perform miscellaneous acts, like closing doors on my way down halls, subconsciously straightening books, desks, etc. I have not been officially diagnosed with OCD, though. The problem is, I get great anxiety on whether I have OCD or not. I stress constantly, and check every day to check symptoms, compare my symptoms with other anxiety disorders, and so on. I often get like this, checking over and over again for things like making sure my alarm clock is set, and check maybe 5 times a night. I can deal with this myself, but having to check to see if I actually have something wrong with me? (link)
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.I know this would be a difficult thing to deal with.I know I get stressed alot,it is a way of life.You just might have a lot going on in your life.That could explain it.We all obsess over lots of things,though such as:boys,cleaness,and tons of other things.But,remember,God made you just the way He wanted to.You can't mess with His perfection.
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Im really shy at school and around new people..i just dont know what to say...so if anyone can help me PLEASE DO! I really dont wanna stay shy.
THANKS!!:) (link)
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My advice would be just to find some people who share your interests and to be friendly to everyone and say hi to people in the halls.You will progress and meet people who help you come out of your shell.Don't worry everybody is shy in some way,even the socialetes!D
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ok im 17 my boyfriend is almost 18. weve been together a year and 4 months and weve never had sex. he has a high sexual drive i guess, but were waiting.. well mainly me, and hes always respected that.. we are both virgins. theres been times when weve been at his house and ill fall asleep with him watchin tv or something, and he'll grind up against me. im a very deep sleeper so im sure hes not that worried about waking me up. i usually lay on my stomach because thats how i sleep, and he'll 'position' himself so itll feel good to him i guess. sometimes id really be awake and he wouldnt know it, other times he'd wake me up doing that. tonight, he started to do that again. after a little bit, he proceeded to get up, put lotion on my hand and work my hand around to give him a hand job and he was gettin off on it.. this whole time i was "asleep" but i was actually awake.. by this time i decided to see what he'd do because hes never done that before. if i started to squirm like i was "waking up", hed stop and kinda stroke my back or somethimg till i was back "asleep". afterwards he got on top of me.. im still on my stomach.. and he progressively pulled my pants and underwear down on the back so that he could rub up against my butt [he only pulled the back down, but his 'thing' was actually out of his pants]. he never actually went in.. id kill him.. but he kept pulling my pants down more and going lower and lower. eventually i "woke up", jumped up and yelled "what the h--- do you think youre doing???". he acted startled, just said "nothing!" and picked up the phone. i ran around got my purse and my keys and ran out the door, halfway cryin by now. he ran after me yellin "baby wait.. baby please!" and tryed to stop me but i told him not to touch me and left. i know he wouldnt rape me, hes not like that, but what could possibly be going through his mind? hes called me almost 15 times already in an hour's time and has left me voice mails begging me to call him, let him explain, but im ignoring his calls. supposedly hes somewhere, not going back home or anywhere till i talk to him. in one voice mail he says he thought i was awake.. wtf? i acted dead asleep. i wasnt going along with anything. i dont know what to do i feel so.. violated? i mean, did i do the right thing by running out? im not ready to talk to him, all ill do is yell and cuss him out.. but am i overreacting? hes never done anything remotely like this before. someone help me =[ (link)
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:( I am sorry for your experience.My advice would be to tell a parent about it and to talk to him,and let him explain,but just in case,do it over the phone, but be cautious! You are not overreacting,because I know I would do the same.If he wants to get back together PLEASE say NO! Even if there is a reasonable explanation he might do it again or something worse.Plus you are too good for him!
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here's the thing,
i realized i was bi a while ago but i still can't get up the guts to tell anyone. my ex boyfriend knows but thats about it.... i'm scared i will loose friends and be looked down on by family...i do have one trusting friend though.
should i come out??? (link)
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It's good you have a trusting friend.If you feel your other friends are trusting tell them.I am sure your family will understand because they love you and will help you with your situation.
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I don't know what's going on with my feelings. So let me start with guy number one (I'm 13/f by the way)
Well we've always sort of had this thing
In 5th grade he asked me out and he liked me like crazy and I didn't know what to say because I was unsure I was just in 5th grade. In 6th grade he barely talked to me.
In 7th he sometimes talked to me and if it was, it was probably just flirting. Now this year in 8th, he does the same thing. He talks to me more though and I guess you could say we're friends. But I've always felt something for him. He has the most amazing brown eyes and when our eyes meet I feel like we both know there's something there, but we look away as if it shouldn't be there. I don't know if I like him and I just feel hurt inside because he still leaves perverted comments on girl's facebooks and sometimes it's hard to tell if he likes me. It's just those eyes and looks he gives me that make it all not matter. It seems sometimes like there's days he likes me and days he doesn't.
And then there's guy number 2. He's incredibly hott and he's really popular and I'm not like the most popular but I'm high up there so I would have a small chance. Well this year, we walk by each other every morning and we've never spoken but I always sort of catch his eye and lately he's been crying because of all these sick rumors that he smokes and everything which arent true, and inside I feel like I want to be with him and stuff. I don't know if he likes me but I would definately go out with him. He broke up with this popular girl and he hates her entire popular bitchy group which I'm thankful for because none of them seem like normal people they're all followers.
And that's the problem. I don't know what I'm feeling. Guy Number one seems to me sometimes that all he wants is action. He's never really said anything to hint he really likes me, but more of my body. But I always feel like he still does because he's a major crowd follower. I just can't tell who actually likes me, if any of them. I've never had a boyfriend but I've liked people and I always feel like there's this emptiness inside which I know seems ridiculous but I just want someone that likes me and someone that can hold me in their arms. So I really want a boyfriend.
I can see how this might be incredibly confusing but it's just how I'm feeling. So what I'm asking is what you think of the situation, if you think Guy number one or two likes me, and signs that one of them could like me. And I'm not interested in asking anyone out, I just want to know what's going on with my feelings. (link)
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If you don't want to ask one of them out than do you really like or feel something for them.There are pleanty of fish in the sea and your only 14.You have lots more time to find a boyfriend.In my opinion,guy #1 is a player and guy #2 is in need of a friend.Comfort him and be that friend.And maybe one thing will lead to another and who knows what will happen.Remember,your still young so have fun and don't worry about it!
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How can i turn a guy on? i know that apperently girl and girl turns on a guy but im straight and only 14. my best friends and i hug and put our arms around each other and stuff but...i want to know how to turn a guy on. Like things i can do or touch him innocently but really turns him on. sumthing i can do in public or at least in front of our friends. Thanks SO MUCH or say too i could say sumthing. i already know he likes me a lot so is just seeing me kinda a way of turning him on and i really want to drive him cazy in a good way and turn him ON! ;) (link)
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This is a difficult question,but here are some hopefully good tips:be yourself,act flirty and natural,and good luck:D
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I think my guy friend might be anorexic.
He's told me that he used to not eat, but that ended. But now, he's not really eating again. I don't know if he just doesn't eat in front of me, or if he's not eating at all. But I think it could be a serious problem.
What should I do? (link)
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YOU should confront your friend and tell him u think he has a serious problem and that he should do something about it.For some extra edge,make him choose u or not eating.
P.S. Be there by him and give support.
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