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I don't know what I'm feeling.


Question Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 6:30 pm

I don't know what's going on with my feelings. So let me start with guy number one (I'm 13/f by the way)
Well we've always sort of had this thing
In 5th grade he asked me out and he liked me like crazy and I didn't know what to say because I was unsure I was just in 5th grade. In 6th grade he barely talked to me.
In 7th he sometimes talked to me and if it was, it was probably just flirting. Now this year in 8th, he does the same thing. He talks to me more though and I guess you could say we're friends. But I've always felt something for him. He has the most amazing brown eyes and when our eyes meet I feel like we both know there's something there, but we look away as if it shouldn't be there. I don't know if I like him and I just feel hurt inside because he still leaves perverted comments on girl's facebooks and sometimes it's hard to tell if he likes me. It's just those eyes and looks he gives me that make it all not matter. It seems sometimes like there's days he likes me and days he doesn't.

And then there's guy number 2. He's incredibly hott and he's really popular and I'm not like the most popular but I'm high up there so I would have a small chance. Well this year, we walk by each other every morning and we've never spoken but I always sort of catch his eye and lately he's been crying because of all these sick rumors that he smokes and everything which arent true, and inside I feel like I want to be with him and stuff. I don't know if he likes me but I would definately go out with him. He broke up with this popular girl and he hates her entire popular bitchy group which I'm thankful for because none of them seem like normal people they're all followers.

And that's the problem. I don't know what I'm feeling. Guy Number one seems to me sometimes that all he wants is action. He's never really said anything to hint he really likes me, but more of my body. But I always feel like he still does because he's a major crowd follower. I just can't tell who actually likes me, if any of them. I've never had a boyfriend but I've liked people and I always feel like there's this emptiness inside which I know seems ridiculous but I just want someone that likes me and someone that can hold me in their arms. So I really want a boyfriend.

I can see how this might be incredibly confusing but it's just how I'm feeling. So what I'm asking is what you think of the situation, if you think Guy number one or two likes me, and signs that one of them could like me. And I'm not interested in asking anyone out, I just want to know what's going on with my feelings.


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chingy1 answered Wednesday November 21 2007, 3:47 pm:
If you don't want to ask one of them out than do you really like or feel something for them.There are pleanty of fish in the sea and your only 14.You have lots more time to find a boyfriend.In my opinion,guy #1 is a player and guy #2 is in need of a friend.Comfort him and be that friend.And maybe one thing will lead to another and who knows what will happen.Remember,your still young so have fun and don't worry about it!

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RjRamos answered Wednesday November 21 2007, 3:35 pm:
I think you should go with guy number two ! U can tell that you like him and since you aren't at the way top of being popular and he doesn't seem to like the mean type of girls! i think you might be falling into love! thats what i think of the situation !!! Please if you have any other question please feel free to ask me any time i try my best to answer them! from RjRamos! :)

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