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Q: I tried going to itunes.com but i still couldn't figure out what to do.. I keep getting this error message whenever I try to get into the itunues store its.. like error message 11333 and it says to check my internet connection, but i think its fine?
what do i do?

Try going to here : http://www.apple.com/itunes/overview/
I think thats what your looking for !

Q: I'm really interested in creating a website to put up my writings (short stories, chaptered stories, and pictures (drawings, photography, and all that jazz)--but I also want to be able to update it daily with like journal entries as well as put up different pages about different topics.

Here's what I'm looking for in a website (wow, sounds like I'm picking a date lol):
-Free
-Easy to manage/handle/build/create (I'm not good with website building)
-I want anyone to be able to visit it and leave comments
-Please don't say Myspace (bad history with it)

Thanks!

16/f

Yu can try freewebs.com!! thats what i use!!
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Q: okay, so i want to make a harry potter video but i don't know where to download the clips and stuff. like you know on youtube how there are a bunch of harry potter mv's that are fanmade? yeah i want to be able to do that, i just need to know how to get the clips. please help!

You could try to find here at www.mugglenet.com!
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Q: ok well my best friend went out with this guy and he broke up with her and now i like him. we talk all the time and she has a new bf and it was a pretty long while ago that they broke up. i dont want to tell her because she might be mad but i think he likes me too. what to do??

Well, i think you should go out with him ! Most likely your friend would not care if you go out with him because she with somebody else and its been awhile since your friend and the guy you like have talk or even seen each other.
So, yeah go out with him you never know he might be the one!
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RjRamos ! :)

Q: I just got a macbook and I am interested in putting the songs that are on my iPod onto the laptop's iTunes. How do I do this while keeping the songs on my old computer's iTunes and my iPod?

Please include thorough directions because I get confused easily

Here is a free program the let you put songs from your ipod to your macbook!! just google Senuti ! Please if you have any other question always ask RjRamos!

Q: people i dont even know hate me. i have a rep for being a "whore" but im really not. i get mean comments and everyone makes me cry these days. i only have a few true friends but its really upsetting to me. any advice or things i can do? thanks so much:] !

All i have to say is don't listen to people who discourage you! I know how you feel !
I been there and if i were you i would stick to my friends . they help a lot when this is happening !
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Q: 13/f
I really like this guy (he doesnt know) and i thiiiink he likes me too. We always flirt and he is really nice to me and we r already good friends. Ive been trying to hint him that i like him but he hasnt realized it. what is a good way to ask a guy if he likes you and he'll tell u the truth? thank u! =]]]]]]

This is really hard because i am a guy but i would try to make time to talk and just say it i like you!I am sure enough that he likes u to! Hope this helps! Please if you have any other question please always ask RjRamos!

Q: Please tell me some ab workouts other than crunches/situps that work mad fast and i dont need equipment for!! =]

there this video on youtube i found,maybe it wloud work for you! Good Luck! Please if you have any question always ask RjRamos! Here's the
link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOri5Tlm23c

Q: Ok... It all started a year ago when I moved here. I knew this girl from Winter League Basketball. She didn't really talk 2 me but I really didn't care.. Now this year every time she wants something she will come 2 me and ask but otherwise, she never talks 2 me as if I were her worst enemy.. So just the other day she called me a bitch and said that I talk bout evry1 behind there back.. Wut should I do?

WOW is that the best that girl has! People say tons more worse than that to me! You need to like bitch talk her back big time ! No, just playing you need to ask her what did i do to you ? if she says something back shes could be jealous but hey thats just me. If she makes more and mores stuff about you! i say take it! you know its not true !all you need is for the people to realize that she dosent have a life and she making up shit about you! so ,dont let it get to you!
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Q: does anyone know where i can buy a stuffed animal of
this character?

http://caitlyn8248.deviantart.com/art/Horton-Hears-A-Who-Katie-Icon-80515421

You can buys most of the stuff animals at Target! Hope this helps, please always ask RjRamos

Q: At random points my iTunes keeps popping up messages saying something like ''the iTunes library could not be saved''

I'm wondering why it keeps doing this, and how could I fix it?
Thanks.

this happen because maybe you have low disk space on you computer/laptop. So, start deleting to pictures,photos,and videos you dont need ! This would fix the problem! Hope this helps ! Please if you have any other question always ask RjRamos!

Q: Thanks for the advice, it helped.
But i'm still not sure, cause sometimes i don't want to lose my boyfriend, but then other times it feels like it would be best if we broke up. And my friend wants to hopefully try dating again in the future, but then when he dates other people, i kinda get jealous, even if i shouldn't since i'm dating someone. And i know that he will wait for me as long as he needs to or wants to, but i don't want to lose my boyfriend, or my best friend, cause i love them both!

If your guy friend was a true friend he will understand if you pick your boyfriend and he would wait until you have/have not choosen your boyfriend. if any thing happens to you and your boyfriend and you break up you could always have your guy friend to be your one and only! Hope thiis help,but if you have any questions please always ask RjRamos!

Q: Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, or so, and well i already asked a question before, about my feelings sometimes being "distant", and I know this sounds bad, but for almost a year, i've liked my best guy friend.. We tried dating last year but it felt weird, so we called it off, and well now we both told each other that we never really stoped liking each other. And sometimes it's hard to think of me and my current boyfriend breaking up, but then sometimes i kinda want to, and try again with my best guy friend.. I really don't know what to do, and i know i shouldn't be thinking about this, cause i honestly do really love my boyfriend, but then sometimes i think i might love my best friend.. UGH! so confusing, anything would help me, alot! just give me your honest opionion, i can take anything right now. Thanks.

trust your heart and let it take you. if you feel more to your friend than go with your friend. If you still love your boyfriend than go with him.
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Q: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qInv1caJUU

is there anyway i can convert this video into a SONG, not a video? so i can put it on my ipod? please help me!!!

you can use zamzar! all you have to do is copy the url and put mp3 then put your e-mail! hope this works ! Please always ask RjRamos!

Q: Alright, my Fathers birthday is comming up, and hes been saying that he wants an iPhone, well... he doesnt particuarly want the whole iPhone, what he wants is an iPod with a full size, touch screen, LIKE the iPhone. He doesnt want the internet connection or the phone, or any of that "new fangled stuff". Figures, thats my father speaking. well, what i want to know is if there is anything like that out on the market right now, I dont care if its not the brand name, what I do want to know is where you could get something like that, or if it even exists (yet).
Thank you all so much for any information you have.

theres the ipod touch!

Q: okay so I hooked up with this guy one of my best friends has a thing for. I had no intention to and I have no feelings for him at all. when she asked me if I hooked up with him, I said no first but then I told her the truth 2 seconds later because I cant lie to my best friend. Now she is mad at me because i attempted to lie. what should i do?

You should try to call her and make time to talk! Then say you are sorry and you didn't have any intention or feelings for him! If she is really your friend she will be friends with you again! :) Also if you have any more questions please ask RjRamos! :):)

Q: helloo everyone :) i have a simple problem, but not a simple solution (at least in my eyes!)

i'm sure loads of you have the same problem, so i'd like to get some goood feedback:

i'm on the forensics team in my school (i compete in public speaking events, like reciting speeches from memory) and i really want to do a good job. i have a problem.

i get exTREMELY nervous! i haven't yet competed, but i will next weekend. i have my speech memorized, but sometimes, i mess up certain parts. i try to recite it in front of my family or friends, and i always end up CRACKING up out of nervousness. i have tried reciting in front of the mirror, pretending the audience is there, but when i actually SEE the audience, i can't even remember reciting it in front of the mirror. i practice practice practice, i do breathing exercises / physical warm-ups to some extent, but when i first begin the speech, i can feel my entire body heating up, from my toes to the top of my neck up through my face. my other problem is that if i mess up one sentence in a paragraph (my speech is divided into "paragraphs" of 2-3 sentences), i end up messing up the entire rest of the paragraph :( i know with practice, it'll get better, but is there ANYTHING, ANYTHING AT ALL that you guys wanna say? i know for you singers & actors out there, you are well aware of stage-fright! anything you guys do to help you relax, and think "this is NO big deal!" ?

thanks so much :)

ok when your up there try to pretend that your alone by yourself nobody there ! Speak like if your speaking to yourself! Try as hard as you can to not to mess up as well! Also if you have any other question please always ask RjRamos! :)

Q: does anyone know a good place to download .mp4 format music videos?

well, if you like mariah carey there shall be some mp4 music videos of her on this website http://www.mariahdaily.com/funtastic/index.shtml also there are some ringtines,wallpaper,icons for your phone !!! hope this helps ! Also if you any questions please always ask RjRamos!

Q: ok well i dated him 3 times!!!!
the 1st time was ok
the 2nd time was amazing
and the 3rd time only lasted like a week so it was ok

so we talk everyonce in awhile but the only thing i am scaried of is that one he moves on fast!!!!!!!1 2, i don't want to get hurt again!! adn he has a girlfriend right now but i know it will not last.i think i am falling for him but i don't want to get hurt i been so much with this guy, he was my first love it took me forever to get over him and i still don't feel like i am over him i jsut don't know what to do with this guy anymore
give up on him?
or try one last time??

Ok, if they break up you have your chance for one last time !! :) but if there still in love sorry ! but you have to give him up! :( please tell me what happens ! send me a feedback of what happen ! also if you have any other questions to ask i always here to answer! from
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Q: ok so there is this guy.....
adn i have known him for about 4 years, i dated him, and then we broke up and know we are ok friends but not really. but everytime we talk on im he is like o i had a dream about you and it talks about how we dated and end up getting married adn stuff. and i am pretty sure that i am over him adn i dont like him but everytime i talk to him i have a smile on my face and i feel happy, and idk it is just hard to explain
i mean he is a good friend, but does it sound like i am falling for him????

In one way yes ! But you should know how it is. if you want to go out, by all means go out with the guy ! Maybe he is asking for you to be his girlfriend again! idon't know i guess just follow you heart ! see what it takes u ! Please, if you have any other questiones please feel free to ask any other you may be asking! from RjRamos

bio

Hi,I am Rj Ramos! I am from Laredo Tx! I give good advice for all ages! So, I hope I can help give advice for all those people out there!! from RjRamos!