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well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just got too much for me. And then about 2 weeks ago his best friend sends me a message saying all this threats and stuff and that if i ever talk to my ex again i will get bashed. I didnt really take notice of it coz he hasnt said anything to me about it. But last week me and my ex started talking and i asked him what he would do if his friend hit me and he said he would go crazy and be angry and stuff. Then i asked him if he ever thinks about me anymore and he said All the time. Then i was like Why arent we together yet.. and hes like Because my best friend doesnnt want me to be. .
and today i asked him why his friend doesnt want us to be together and he said I dont know.
So practically the only reason were not together is because of his best friend..and i dont know what to do because i have never felt like this about anyone; i actually think i love him.
Please help
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If you cheat a guy you like, you are being irresponsible. If you believe a guy would not go out with you only because one of his MALE best friends says not to (guys make each other get more, not less sex) -- then you are being stupid. You need therapy before you let yourself get further in physical danger. Take care.


i recently started liking this guy alot, he is perfect for me and my friends totally agree. my friend who is close with him told him i like d him and his response was cool. she said that he told her i wasnt out of the picture he just did not like like me yet. i mean tho i tried like playing with his hair today and he was like not totally flirting back he just talked back i dont know what to do i want him to like me so much,, he is really touchy with people im afraid if i am touchy with him he will get turned off because he knows i like him... i want him to like me so much,, he is so sweet, cudly, and perfect for me please give me tips on how to flirt with him (link)
Yes, but you have to start letting him make the first move: you hold back! He can not flirt with you if you have already touched his hair. Sorry to say it to you but in some cultures hair touching by woman to any man -- even her husband -- is forbidden.


I have a friend who knows i like her more than a friend. She has a boyfriend, she tells me almost EVERYTHING!

Today she told me she's going to break up with her boyfriend. He only has one more chance which is a day to make it up to her.

If they do brake up, what's a good way to ask the girl out??

Thanks so much for all suggestions and advice!

And if it wouldn't be a problem, what's a good activity for a FIRST date?

Thanks in advance.

Kronix (link)
"There is something I have been wanting to ask you for awhile. ... I wonder if you would like to go out for a cup of coffee with me sometime this week," and set the time with her then. Be sure to tell her you plan to call her the day before to work out any details. Allow a few days as well. She may have a bit of thinking to do.




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