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Ex's best friend pressuring him..please help :(
hiii
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just got too much for me. And then about 2 weeks ago his best friend sends me a message saying all this threats and stuff and that if i ever talk to my ex again i will get bashed. I didnt really take notice of it coz he hasnt said anything to me about it. But last week me and my ex started talking and i asked him what he would do if his friend hit me and he said he would go crazy and be angry and stuff. Then i asked him if he ever thinks about me anymore and he said All the time. Then i was like Why arent we together yet.. and hes like Because my best friend doesnnt want me to be. .
and today i asked him why his friend doesnt want us to be together and he said I dont know.
So practically the only reason were not together is because of his best friend..and i dont know what to do because i have never felt like this about anyone; i actually think i love him.
Please help
thankss
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if he wont go out with you because of his best friend he is only doing it because guys usually trust their friends. even though what i just said is true you shouldnt care about his friend just go for him and tell him exactly how you feel and that you want to get back together with him. tell him this: if your friend doesnt like me oh well its not his desicion its yours so pick is it love that comes from your heart or is it it listening to your friend that comes from your heart.
p.s good luck
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If you cheat a guy you like, you are being irresponsible. If you believe a guy would not go out with you only because one of his MALE best friends says not to (guys make each other get more, not less sex) -- then you are being stupid. You need therapy before you let yourself get further in physical danger. Take care.
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