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hello.
I basiclly have no plans for the next 2 weeks of summer. I do'nt know what to do. help. thanks.

go to the beach.

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So I've known this girl for about 8 years,
But never really got to know her until a couple months ago.
We started hanging out, and have become really good friends, but we both wan't to be more than just friends. The thing is, we are both a little hesitant to start 'dating' (we kinda skipped that one) because we don't want to make things awkward, and lose our friendship.
Let me mention that I'm 18, and have never had a girlfriend before. (so I really have no idea what I'm doing) I try to break a few barriers by putting my arm around her, holding hands, etc,
and she seems to enjoy that, but when I've talked to her about going further, she said the same thing.


On a somewhat related note, my dad's income just got reduced HUGELY, so now he wants to move 2,000 miles away from here, to try and find a better job.
So that's one more thing holding us back.
Pleeeease help me out, I'm going nuts!

just go out with her. it wont ruin your friendship. if it doesnt work out just stay friends.or go to a movie with her and some of your and her frinds and during the movie ask her her to go to dinner with you after the movie.if you dont want to go to dinner go to the mall and buy her something nice.

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I'm going to the dentist Wednesday to have them check out my very first cavity. Yeah, it sucks. I've had it for a few months, and I can see it. I can only feel like when I drink super-cold water and if i bite down on something on that side of my mouth and it, I guess, goes in it- ouch.

I'm wondering if getting it filled will hurt? I know they numb your gum & inject you with a numbing medicine, but I'm terrified of needles. But I can suck it up. I just want to know if a cavity like mine will be painful to be filled and whatnot? Thanks.

it doesnt hurt. you cant feel a thing

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If someone joins the Millitary what are the odds of him dieing?

1 out of a 2 chance

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I know this might be kind of weird ,believe it or not ,im an 18 year old virgin but the thing is that there are a lot of girls who keepin tellin that im cute ,i have dated numerous times before but i just never got to that stage ,do i have a problem guys

no your only 18 you are an idiot

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14/f.
Lastnight me and this guy G were going to go to the movies, he said he would call me. So he never did but i went anyways with my friends, after my movie was over we went outside and i saw him there with some other chick. I looked at him so coldly, then he tried to play everything off like it was cool. His friend was there too, which i also was talking too, but i didn't know they were friends. So I went in the movie with them and then I told G something which had happened that morning involving him, so I sat down on the other side of him since the girl he was with sat where I was. He told me "you can sit down if you want to". At that point i was so pissed that I just left, and he called me this morning. I was asleep but idk if I should call back or what. Any advice on what I should do?

tell him to fuck off.

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i want a new rington and i like techno alot, does anyone know any good techno songs? thankss

go to a website with ringtones like ringtone.com and look for less talk more rockk

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I've been invited to a Christmas family gathering by my boyfriends family. It's a family affair, i.e. his whole extended family is attending. It's not a gift-giving thing, but I'm wondering whether I should buy some presents for his family, i.e. he has some really young brothers and sisters (6, 11, and 17). Would it be the done thing to buy them a present each? We've only been together 2 months. I don't want it to be weird or anything.

Thanks.

yes bring presents. it doesn't matter if it's a no present event. give them presents just to show them you care and that you thought about them and thats all that counts. it doesnt have to be anything expensive.




p.s please think about what i said

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i was thinking about getting my tongue pierced but i was wondering if there was any riskes involved?? like infections or something that can make you lose your tongue..... adn when your kissing would it get in the way?!?

no. it is risk free and it wont get in the way. i know because i have one.




p.s im glad to help

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15/f/junior

omg when people hate teachers y do they have to go and make a fuckingg myspace group or facebook group about it? its not even funny because i know if i were the teacher i would find it soo embarassing and totally heart breaking.

im really upset right now because one of my teachers who was just kinda cool b/c he let us get away with so much stuff ACTUALLY has one of those dumbass, whiny-kid hate groups on myspace and there are stupid pictures of him and everything and all the kids are like whining "OMG HE FAILED ME CUZ HE IS RACIST" how stupid is that?? first of all the guy who complained and my teacher are both white! i think teenagers these days are so lazy and dumb and really are just too self centered. and the worst part is the group was created by somebody that i thought was pretty nice and i wanted to be friends with her. now i found out she's just as judgmental as the rest.

high school is so depressing.

anyway my ranting is over..i just need some advice to deal with this.

just do what you feel is right. do what your heart says to do.

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I am doing a report for school that is going to average about 160 pages. I need to do a draft first to have people look over, then I need to pring a final copy. I was just wondering if I recycle the paper from the draft if it is the same as if I didn't use it in the first place, because I hate to waste all that paper! Thank you!

yes if you want to.

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13/f

okay so 3 people r in my problem.
me,w, and c

k.
me and w go to the same school but dont have n e classes together. last year she was new, i was her first friend. i only c her in the halls.
last year we were best friends this year we r struggling. me and c have always been good friends but not best friends. all of a sudden w and c start being best friends. then we all 3 r best friends. c doesn't go to our school n e more.

but lately w and c have been hanging out with each other a lot.
some times with me, mostly not.
yesterday i saw w in the hall way and asked her if she wanted to do sumthing tonight/weekend.
she said idk.
she said she would call me.
she didn't call.
i had to call her.
she still didn't know.
i asked her she had talked to c and she said yes, i said well what happened. she said that c was gonna spend the night. [now she didn't even ask if i cud come over]]
i asked if i cud come over and she said she didn\'t want me to.
she just came out and said it just like that.

is it just me or is that really mean??
she made me cry for 20 minutes which resulted to a few scratches on my arms.
(dont educate me on that^)

i mean i asked her first if she wanted to hang this weekend! not c!

i really need help cuz im bawling.
kthanksbye.

forget them two and move on make new friends.




p.s it will probaly make them jealous

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for about 3yrs now i've wanted to be an architect. now i'm considering fashion design or modeling.with architecture, i've been drawing floorplans since i was about 10yrs old but recently i've been drawing clothes and stuff and i absolutely love getting my vogue magazines just to see the new styles.

which is the better decision? right now im 50/50 as far as preference of one towards the other.

go with your heart and if your heart cant choose go with what pays more.

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ok so this is sam, not onlyinyourdream... she is my friend... here is the question

i really like this guy... lets call him D and we are sort of a couple. But please dont judge me. but he lives far away. so i am also going out with S.... what should i do???

i am not sure that me and D are as close as we are because he has not called 3 weeks.
HELP ME

thank you ahead of times


♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○PEACE OUT♥○♥○♥○♥

who ever you have more feelings for thats who you should pick.

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hiii
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just got too much for me. And then about 2 weeks ago his best friend sends me a message saying all this threats and stuff and that if i ever talk to my ex again i will get bashed. I didnt really take notice of it coz he hasnt said anything to me about it. But last week me and my ex started talking and i asked him what he would do if his friend hit me and he said he would go crazy and be angry and stuff. Then i asked him if he ever thinks about me anymore and he said All the time. Then i was like Why arent we together yet.. and hes like Because my best friend doesnnt want me to be. .
and today i asked him why his friend doesnt want us to be together and he said I dont know.
So practically the only reason were not together is because of his best friend..and i dont know what to do because i have never felt like this about anyone; i actually think i love him.
Please help
thankss

if he wont go out with you because of his best friend he is only doing it because guys usually trust their friends. even though what i just said is true you shouldnt care about his friend just go for him and tell him exactly how you feel and that you want to get back together with him. tell him this: if your friend doesnt like me oh well its not his desicion its yours so pick is it love that comes from your heart or is it it listening to your friend that comes from your heart.

p.s good luck

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I love to sing, i reallty do!!! But i sound terrible in front of crowds, and really good by myself!
Tips?

do not listen to catlovers, when you are riciting your french or singing just pretend that you are by your self. block out everybody in your mind.even if you do mess up no one is gonna laugh at you.



p.s mainly just have fun while your doing it.

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Hi, i couldnt find anything... ( i was rushing ) on toddlers and what they like to do for like fun.
Can anyone give me some websites or any information on activities that toddlers enjoy doing e.g. running around.

Thank you for all information. It is much appreciated.

look up websites on google

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